>>279790389 (OP)Human woman inferiority complex. You desire the human man and (clearly) can't self-insert as the elf woman. That's why you like that pairing so much: it makes you boil with rage because it makes you feel like "your" men are getting stolen. A human woman with an elven man instead won't do as much for you, even though you want to convice yourself that the common depiction of male elves is like the typical human female wish fullfillment (since seducing an asexual effeminate male elf is clearly unrealistic femcel delusion).