>>281244666 (OP)Because it is a fantasy. Good looking girl/woman who takes extreme care of her looks WITHOUT becoming selfabsorbed and in fact remains extremely interested in the life/work of others, makes a point of being thoughtful and making genuine gestures that require time and effort all while being open about her feelings.
Oh right, let's not forget her spending 90% of her free time (even if it means foregoing her own career oppurtunities at times) with a guy who has no money and is going into a, from a financial POV, not that prosperous of a trade simply because it is his passion.
Name me one (1) IRL person that fits that description, and no, your mom doesn't count.