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The power dynamic of females(true) and males revolves around chaste and purity. Innocence and/or being pure, both of which are a role that women play in order to lure in males, are the core-center if it all. Its the reason why Asuka doesn't mention it so Shinji doesn't think of her as a slut for asking for it, all the while Shinji wants to appear respectful of her space and don't want to act unless directly told too, even though both of them really and desperately want to do it.
That is just how our species do it outside of just outright rape/molestation or going unga bunga.
Also Ken ken won.