Used to be fat, got obese during the pandemic. Two years ago I snapped and turned my spare bedroom into a home gym to try and fix my depression. Had zero friends. Even hopped on tren for a while. Off it now, look a bit worse but still fit, no sides.

Five months ago I downloaded Tinder, matched with a cute Catholic redhead, solid 8 out of 10. Lost my virginity a month in. She wanted to keep dating, I wasn’t sure, but a Christian bro here told me to man up so I went along with it. Started going to her church.

Met her family, they’re all nice. She stays over Saturdays so we can hit church Sundays. Became friends with her brother, my age, married, and his friends who are all married too. Literally my only friends.

I work from home and got money saved. Thinking of asking her to marry me and buying a house. She has already hinted she wants that. Is this a good idea or am I rushing things?

>>33338929 (OP)
Just do it, dude, if you like her, ask her to marry you, and stay engaged and live together for a while and see how things go from there.

>>33338929 (OP)
>Catholic
>Gives it early
Like clockwork.
Don't just ask to marry after five months. You need to truly know this person through the good and the bad. You need to know her financial literacy, career dreams if applicable, values, ideal places to live, talk about a detailed plan for raising children, etc. this is the first girl that touched your dick. You went from nobody to somebody and are afraid that if you don't latch onto this one, you'll never get another chance. She totally could be your future wife and 50+ years of marriage, til death do you part, I'm not discounting that, but slow the fuck down.

>>33338929 (OP)
>5 months
Please God at least move in first to test the waters holy fuck

>>33338997
>Month in
>Early

???

>>33339075
Like i had woman give it the first date after 15 minute coffee date, after a month is a good time to hace sex

>>33338997
Yeah... I should probably ask her if she wants to move in with me and see how things go from there but a part of me thinks that I should propose

>>33338929 (OP)
>Is this a good idea or am I rushing things?
Getting married 5 months in is definitely rushing things. Try living together for six months, then think about it.

>>33338929 (OP)
It looks like you did what most here would hope to do one day. Congratulations. Now don't fuck it up.

>>33338929 (OP)
>fuck Saturday night
>Go to church Sunday morning

LOL

>>33338929 (OP)
>Lost my virginity a month in.
and she didn't?

lol

you're better off asking about her past relationships now, before you get a divorce like 4 months from now

>>33339802
We don't always fuck most of the time we just chill and watch something and talk about our day.
>>33339818
She only had one serious boyfriend from her last year of high school through college, until he left her for someone else. She was single for about a year before we met and told me I’m the second person she’s ever been with. She’s been open about everything from the start so I believe her.

>>33339220
I meant, getting engaged, we can get married later. But living together for six months first does sound better.

>>33339222
Marrying a whore?

>>33338929 (OP)
"long engagement". If you get married in 2027 you better damn well shitpost here to let us anons know it turned out OK. If she's not pregnant there's no reason to get married next Saturday and there's nothing wrong with taking a year or two to get ready.
Time on a calendar won't help. The same goddamn thing repeated 700 times is not two years of experience its one day of experience repeated 700 times, roughly speaking. My point being you need to go hardcore on pre-marital counseling and experience. A week of nights volunteering together at vacation bible school for the little kids will be stressful and crazy enough to teach you more about you two as a couple than maybe six months of boring as F unthinking "work sleep repeat". The church probably needs chaperones for youth group stuff, baby sitters during service, etc.
Theres a reason my church has a "young couples small group" that doesn't care if the couples are married or single. Join it or find a church that has one and join it.
Chicks copy each other a hell of a lot more than guys; make sure she doesn't have any divorced or degenerate (or both) chick friends or relatives.

>>33340225
Yeah, my girlfriend is super into that kind of stuff She already volunteered to help at this summer’s Bible camp and asked if I’d come too so I said sure. She’s already a chaperone for some of the younger girls at church and I help out too with Maintenance & Grounds and Hospitality stuff. Honestly, I used to be completely agnostic but she helped me find God again. Plus I like having things to do together that mean something. So yeah I get what you’re saying it does show you who people are when you’re side by side in that kind of chaos.
And yes I didn't plan to get married right away after proposing, I wanted us to live together and slowly plan our wedding a year or two from now.

>>33340225
> Make sure she doesn't have any divorced or degenerate (or both) chick friends or relatives

She has three friends, and all three are married. She used to be engaged, but her ex left her a month after the engagement and got together with another girl. My girlfriend is pretty open about it, though she hasn’t really talked much about her ex. She assured me he’s completely out of her life, she even showed me that she blocked him and told me she took time off from dating to heal. When she finally started dating again, she matched with me.

>>33340629
Great, then get first engaged and then after a year or two get married

>>33339075
A Catholic isn’t supposed to have sex till marriage

>>33338929 (OP)
Catholic... on Tinder... gives her pussy out after a month...
You're basically begging for a disastrous divorce 3-5 years post marriage

>>33344853
Ehh I think it's fine, I got to know my wife from Tinder as well and we have been together for 7 years and have 3 children together and have a peaceful life together

>>33344880
Sounds like she got her fill of putrid tinder cocks before you wifed her up, hopefully she won't get the crotch fire 10 years into the marriage and divorce you and ruin your life. Good luck!

>>33345682
Tinder is the most pozzed place to have met someone but I know several happily married people with partners from there