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Anonymous No.33475207 [Report] >>33475215 >>33478778 >>33479266 >>33479316
How to get involved in bdsm community
I’m mtf, and would like to find a long term partner who is heavily involved in bdsm. Looking for a male dom.

Grindr has helped me explore my sexuality a great deal, but it feels like people there only want casual relationships. What apps or sites do people use to find what I’m looking for? Like an actual relationship with someone who will tie me down, fuck me, slap me until I cry, and then hold me gently. Sadist into cnc and orgasm denial.

Also, sometimes I worry about getting catfished by fascists and murdered. I know most of you are probably cishet, but does anyone here who uses dating apps worry about that sort of thing? And is there a way to be more safe about this?
Anonymous No.33475215 [Report] >>33475227
>>33475207 (OP)
>I know most of you are probably cishet, but does anyone here who uses dating apps worry about that sort of thing? And is there a way to be more safe about this?

Things are easier to understand if you simplify them OP: You want to meet and fuck sadistic strangers who you barely know. Strangers who enjoy abusing you. And you wonder why you have a nagging feeling of being murdered?

Anyway go ask /lgbt/ that's your containment board.
Anonymous No.33475216 [Report] >>33475227
Try reddit.
Anonymous No.33475227 [Report] >>33479420
>>33475215
I’m wanting to find a long term partner so I don’t have to worry about strangers murdering me. And straight people are into BDSM too. Idk wym about simplifying things but am super sleep deprived rn

>>33475216
Where on Reddit?
Anonymous No.33478778 [Report]
>>33475207 (OP)
This is disgusting. dont do that. stop being trans.
Anonymous No.33479266 [Report]
>>33475207 (OP)
google "BDSM clubs" to find irl and online communities.
Anonymous No.33479316 [Report] >>33480822
>>33475207 (OP)
>I’m mtf
Let me stop you there 99.99% of people will find that disgusting. The 0.01% (one in 10,000) who won’t comes to 800,000 people worldwide. If 8% of those are also into BDSM, that’s 64,000 people globally. Europe (9.3% of the world) would have about 5,952 people. Spread evenly across 44 European countries, that’s roughly 135 people per country on average.

There are 135 retards like you in any given European country, good luck finding them.

You've been tricked by the internet in to thinking what you've done is common and normal, it's not and you've been tricked by algorithms and the internet.
Anonymous No.33479420 [Report]
>>33475227
On r/cucks
Anonymous No.33479428 [Report]
Anonymous No.33480822 [Report]
>>33479316
If this were true I wouldn’t have already met up with dozens of men in my smallish city lol. You’re just inventing numbers out of nowhere