Thread 33495003

What are relationships about anyway? It can't be about sex or I would get it by simply asking. It can't be about necessities because I would get one by simply offering help. It can't be about looks or I would get girls taking the initiative to know me.

Being honest, All I want is to look at a pretty girl, see her smile, grope her and have sex with her. Apparently none of this is wanting a relationship. I don't know what is what anymore.

>>33495003 (OP)
>Apparently none of this is wanting a relationship.
Correct.

>>33495003 (OP)
You're right, you should not breed. That will make the world a better place.

>>33495003 (OP)
Relationships are definitely more than just that. There are sexual, emotional and social components to them. Not all of them are the same, some are not focused on all three aspects that I just mentioned and there are ones that are out of convenience. The only thing wrong with that you want is that you don't need a relationship to do those things, but if you were to do them over a period of time then that's probably a relationship.

>>33495003 (OP)
It's a deep interpersonal connection, like a friendship dialed to 11.

It's knowing someone so intimately and profoundly that you can surprise them about knowing them better than they know themselves.

It's a kiss on the cheek when you pass out on the couch, a hug from behind when you wake up early to make breakfast. It's a shared glance when the pizza you ordered together looks *really* good, and it's ordering her favourite drink for yourself in case the one she ordered feeling all adventurous ends up being something she doesn't like and she wants to swap.

It's having THE BEST friend, with the benefits of passionate steamy sex and pooled resources. That's why "friends with benefits" pisses me off lol

Its the embodiment of love and lust. Both parts equal. Completing each other.

>>33495003 (OP)
Relationships are a business decision. There is someone to spend your money if you die. When you are old and cannot bend, she picks things up for you and then you open pickles for her.

>>33495509
>>33495518
Are women so easy to please? I've never met a woman needing a relationship, open to a relationship or anything of the sort. It seems they jump from an ended relationship to another in a single week.

It doesn't matter I want to show anybody who I am, nobody's ever available when I reach out to them. I guess that's just the way it is.

>>33495697
You need to find someone who *wants* a relationship, not someone who *needs* one.
You also need to want, not need the relationship yourself. It shouldn't come from a place of necessity, rather it should come from a place of infatuation and comfort.

Girls are easy to keep happy when they're in love, they just want someone to make them feel special and any girl worth your time will do the same for you

>>33495518
yea even more
it is karmic and darmic entanglement
fusion of the two souls/aetheric and astral bodies
one of one possible aspect of the two of the holy trinity, male and female
it is one option to ascend and go back to eden
and way more...

plox gib occult esoteric virgin bunny gf

>>33495003 (OP)
Men give resources to women in exchange for sex.

>>33495003 (OP)
>It can't be about sex or I would get it by simply asking.
asking what? the sex vending machine?

>>33501208
that hasn't been true since about 1930 something

>>33501181
I'm not the spiritual type but I can agree to a point that it's a fusion of 2 people into something greater, you both end up adopting traits from one another and growing beyond the peoplr that you once were.

>occult esoteric virgin bunny gf
Sounds like you have a distinct type lol

>>33501294
why else do you reckon, do they call it the
>big bang
just like some "hollywood" film called "hancock"
>distinct type
a gentle, mild mannered virgin pisces girl is perfectly fine too
i will teach her advanced shadow manipulation err i mean the intricate details of this RA°lity via our love and telepathic, high-speed uplink to the akashic records.

>>33495518
man why the fuck you getting me all emotional on a mongolian basket weaving forum?
god damn did not expect that today

beautiful write up man.. fuck... are you in a relationship? I'm not gay I'm just genuinely wondering like do you write that because you long for it or you have it and you just love love?

>>33501181
are you that ukrainian dude from germany I was chatting with the other day? god damn you type exactly like him haha
if Its you then you know where you went to when we said bye, write that and I'll believe that Its you

>>33495697
you're totally right man. They jump relationships, relationships are super fucking easy for them to get. affection and love is easy for them to get. these women, think about it like this - they are living near the ocean, they are afraid to get wet. So they make a choice to say no to some people, to create a barrier and curate by choice. then men they live in the middle of the sahara desert, dying of thirst.
so yes our approach is very very different by this one fundamental difference.
so that other dude who told you all that FUCKING BUUULLLLSHIIITT (this guy: >>33496276 ) that's the DUMBEST MOST ANNOYING ADVICE TO FUCKING HEAR

that guy is a fucking faggot and everyone who types like him are fucking retards

I'll open your eyes to the real truth - women make the choice. you wanna get a woman? make her choose you. how do you make a woman choose you? be exemplary. be good at one specific thing.

let me give you some concrete examples so you can't say I'm lying or baseless:

dude plays an instrument on stage - creamy girl approaches him after the show
dude acts very well in a show - creamy girl approaches him after the show
dude sings extremely well in a choir and performs at a show - creamy girl approaches him post show
dude at the club dances exceptionally well, like legit has skills, and seems to be having the greatest time of his life - creamy girl orbits towards him to dance with him, and approaches him during/after the dancing
dude is extremely good at a certain sport activity and does it in a dedicated manner at a mixed gender club/class - creamy girl will eventually approach him
dude has a very well kept physique - passive but good too

exemplary, that's your fucking word. Pick something you can be really good at, some are faster burns like being on stage, some are slower burns like being really good at a specific activity, but being exemplary makes a woman choose YOU. And lets face fucking reality, women choose you 99% of the time. so play the game

>>33501650
You're missing the most important one: being able to play social games

>>33495003 (OP)
>What are relationships about anyway?
Relationships are whatever you want them to be. Relationships are good when both people want the same thing. They are bad when both people want different things.

>>33501596
>ukrainian dude from germany
shit, ive been found out.
yeah its me. last thing i said, i said id go swimming or sauna. (i actually did it)
small basket trading forum, huh.

>>33501664
true, that as well, but socializing isn't 4channers strong suit and It's one of the hardest things to train if you weren't born to chad CEO parents, so I forgot to mention it. But yes you're right, being exemplary at socialization, meaning looking them in the eye, speaking to them like a person, that's also a way, but I don't want to advise that because so many guys focus on that part, they don't understand that they can choose other paths. there's multiple paths and not all are social, social is more like physique - Its a plus, but not really something that will get you the chick unless you're truly truly exemplary in that.

>>33501692
Hahaha it actually is you! :D love it, still channeling the occult esoteric virgin bunny gf.. oh me too brother. me too. not having her is difficult
praying once more that you get her and I get mine :p
starting with Bachata dancing in 4 days, very nervous, but also Its going to be very good for me. hope you enjoyed your Sauna mate! good to see you on the mongolian basket weaving forum xDD

>>33501692
>>33501709
also forgot to mention, for verification ;p I AM the guy from the Netherlands xD

>>33501588
Woefully in love, used to be an english major before picking up a wrench to build a life I could be proud to share with her. Those little moments I described wipe away any ache or pain from a long day, as long as I get to end it with her.

>>33501650
You make some good points and you're definitely on the right track about attracting female attention, but believing men lack agency in dating is going to leave you sad and bitter. You've gotta peacock a bit and show girls what you have to offer, but you have to realize that girls are doing the same thing and if you're doing it well enough then you have options. You can't force interest but you can pick out of who's interested in you, I don't think that's radical thinking. You definitely have to play the game to win, no argument there.

>>33501709
>>33501718
hehe good to read you again anon!
yeah i instantly knew it was you when you asked where i went to.
>Bachata dancing
just looked it up, looks easy enough? i mean doable. im not a dancer tho
maybe just go with the flow?
nice for you, so you can impress your future gal >:)
>inb4 anon gets puncured feet by dance instructor high heels

im going to bed now, but surely we will meet /here/ again
see you around netherlands anon

>>33495518
>It's a kiss on the cheek when you pass out on the couch,
That's not a relationship, it's drug-assisted sexual assault.

>>33501850
>Woefully in love, used to be an english major before picking up a wrench to build a life I could be proud to share with her. Those little moments I described wipe away any ache or pain from a long day, as long as I get to end it with her.
incredible dude. really touching. no chat gpt could have written that.

>You make some good points and you're definitely on the right track about attracting female attention, but
for sure man. I am fully with you on that. I'm just saying the main component of being exemplary has to be there, ofcourse you can nudge it,but I want to advise anon against trying to be a PUA cold approach god, and get some social proofing with those women first, but I think we're both on the same page so yeah, appreciate your input on this

>>33501863
hahaha I love it man!
yeah Its an easy dance, the important thing is Its a latin dance with a man and a woman, man always leads, and there's a lot of touch involved. at best It'll get me a gf, at "worst" It'll help me get over my fear of touching girls (out of not wanting to look like a creep) and give me some much needed confidence
lmaoooo I don't think Its danced with heels is it? Its an extremely easy dance with small steps and clear movements

surely we will meet again brother, praying for you to get a beautiful white bunny gf. see you around my ukrainian brother, also I fucking love this song I know Its in polish but Its about a Ukrainian soldier missing his homeland and I can't stop listening to it, it gives me a lot of good feelings, I hope you enjoy it, It's called "Hey Falcon" or Hej Sokowy : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOuVgEv8C-4
sleep well my friend