Thread 33513041

I've been khv for 30 years, and after cleaning up my diet and working on my social skills I manged to get a gf.
The problem is sex.
I don't know if it's me or her, but I don't like having sex with her, in fact I get physically ill if I cum inside her (flu like illness, headache, fever)
And I'm avoiding sex with her.
This doesn't happen when I masturbate though.
I really don't know what to do, this problem make or relationship very tense and I don't know what to do.

>>33513041 (OP)
I've heard of cases where women are allergic to their husbands' semen. I wonder if this might be some sort of allergic reaction? Do you get a reaction from kissing her? What about from her blowing you or PIV sex with a condom?

>>33513041 (OP)
how does it work if you cum in her mouth as opposed to vagina? or if you just fuck her, then switch to her swallowing you?

>>33513041 (OP)
Anon is homosexual

>>33513041 (OP)
It could be a rare disease called post-orgasmic illness syndrome (https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/men-flu-symptoms-sex-after-rare-illness-post-orgasmin-illness-syndrome-post-coital-a8084396.html) but either way you should go see an urologist about it.

>>33513055
No, I don't think I'm getting any allergic from her, since I still get this even with condom.
>>33513058
She doesn't like oral sex.
>>33513067
What is this 80s?
And no.
>>33513110
This does describe what I have.
Since even masturbation causes the symptoms.
It started after I got COVID-19 but then I've stopped masturbating.
I went to a doctor but he told me it's in my head.

>>33513800
>I went to a doctor but he told me it's in my head
He's not wrong but he's not being helpful either. The right doctor for this sort of thing is an urologist so maybe see one rather than an ER/General Practitioner.

>>33514001
>urologist so maybe see one rather than an ER/General Practitioner.
I don't know where you live, but to see some specialist I need a referral from GP doctor.
And if they don't think I need to then I'm not going to get one.

Could it be as simple as over-exertion/dehydration? Fucking someone takes more effort than masturbating (moving your whole body vs moving your arm)

>>33514016
Then your best bet is to do that and explain your symptoms and what that disease is called to them to see if you could get an Urologist to look at it. There's papers about curing it so as long you get the appointment you should be fine.

>>33513041 (OP)
>>33513055
OP is allergic to pussy and I recommend 20 CCs of gay penis sex

>>33514001
>urologist for psychological problems

>>33514039
>You go ahead and tell that doctor exactly what disease you think you have an refuse to leave until he treats you for that one specific disease
this is why all health care systems everywhere are clogged and shitty.

>>33514062
>POIS is prone to being erroneously ascribed to psychological factors such as hypochondriasis or somatic symptom disorder
If we want to be even more specific it's an Endocrinology problem.

>>33514105
OP is probably just dehydrated and exhausted like other anon said, proper sex is like 90000% more energy spent than just lazily wiggling your dick around at the computer chair.

>>33514116
Sex isn't a marathon like porn would like you to think.

>>33514116
>he fucks pillow princesses

>>33514135
>Sex isn't a marathon
Proper sex yeah
Or is your sex life more like a quick sprint to the finish line?

>>33514142
I don't know what that zoomer slang is, some gay thing?

>>33514156
>Proper sex yeah
stop larping
>I don't know what that zoomer slang is, some gay thing?
You're the one started the brain rot talk

>>33514116
your dildo torso isn't a real human being, anon.

>>33514016
>have you got a loicense for that specialist visit?
And people make fun of America's medical system, lol

>>33515292
I'm in canada

>>33514310
This is literally all women

>>33515316
No, This is ED for woman.
Once you fuck a woman who like sex you can't go back to pillow princess.
Heck pillow princess is even worse than cold fish, since she expect you to make her cum too.

>>33513041 (OP)
Has she had an abortion?
It might be haunted pussy.

>>33513041 (OP)
what do you feel during the act? do you feel tense in your muscles? do you feel centered and calm or dissociated?

>>33513041 (OP)
It could be as easy as drinking more water, ejaculating does deplete you and you need to hydrate and eat. Also if it's psychological you could try having her give you a hand job first and make you cum then when you get hard again it should take you a longer time and maybe you can get her off without cumming. & Maybe try stopping gooning completely so you have some left for her you degen.

>>33520007
Honestly I just think OP have a pillow princess gf.

>>33513041 (OP)
This nigga so gay he allergic to pussy

>>33520022
like a waifu pillow? Yes he's larping you're right.

>>33513041 (OP)
How does she treat you? How does she support you? What does life look like with her in it?

>>33514062
Based
Ty for cracking me up