Thread 33530779

About 10 days ago i had my first sexual experience, i was in a house party and i meet this hot chick, we've talk about 40 minutes and we went to my friend's brother room and we did it.

It wasn't what i expected, but we had a great time, we only did missionary bdw.

Mi question, for all the profuckers out there, how can i improve at sex?

Practice

Abstinence

>>33530779 (OP)
boundaries dissolution and ego death

>>33530779 (OP)
Get this in your head and you'll do fine. The p-in-v part is only the dessert to the meal. The real fun lies in the "foreplay" but don't think of it as foreplay but the main course.

She was a pillow princess didn't she?

>>33530779 (OP)
>how can i improve at sex
Love it. Not just the orgasm but all of it.
The touch, the warmth, the wetness, the sounds, the pace, the presence. Love what you do with her, love what she does with you, love her body, her reactions, her pleasure. Be curious, creative and consensual. Play with all the senses, not just touch, but hearing, sight, even time/pace. Don't rush just feel.

>>33530779 (OP)
Understand that PIV is not sex. Thinking that sex just means PIV is like going to a seven course banquet and then saying "I had dessert". It's everything that happens before that which is the important part.

Get better car.

Get good at giving oral and generally things will go from there

I'm gonna assume that you are average length, thickness, so the advice i can give is pretty vague until you experience it yourself

1. Don't constantly change position
- every 10 mins or so is fine but its like massaging a good spot but the masseuse keep pressing everywhere but the spot you like.
Treat it like a massage and you are the masseuse.
Ofc, dont do positions that's gonna hurt


2. The position that your legs are in during masturbation is usually the position that gets you off the easiest.
- lets say that you usually masturbate sitting down. Your legs are basically bent. So if you want to last longer, either straighten your legs or do it standing. ofc she can be on the bed but you can stand on the edge of the bed.

3. Stamina is no joke. Go exercise.
Literally as is. You can't continue if you have no energy. go train your endurance.

4. On same topic, glute bridge.
Its an exercise that you thrust your hips up while lying down. it trains the core so you can fuck faster.

5. Usually girls don't orgasm from penetration sex only. use your hands. Grab her tits, her ass, her legs. Let her feel your touch on her body and feel the body heat exchange.

6. As far as i know, most girls that I've done with have their g spot inside the top of the pussy entrance, probably 3-5 inches deep.
- missionary is the easiest to do this. grab the legs and push them towards the head. stick your dick in and lie slightly back. this will cause your dick to point upwards due to the natural curve, hitting the gspot

7. proper hydration. for a few days.
Cum is like majority made up of water. No hydration = no cum production. If you want to blast ropes, drink more. Before sex, drink around 300ml of water. its the same as exercise.

8. proper talk on boundries. dont do anal if she doesnt want it. and feed her your cum if she wants to consume it. and if she does and wants to kiss you, thats up to you. that said, one way to extend the erection is blowjob. (1/2)

>>33534309
bad advice

>>33534794
8.1 proper blowjobs create a suction and causes blood to rush over, causing another erection. Its just the same thing as suction pumps.

9. (best not to take this advice but) the day after the period end is usually safe for sex. you can do creampies. and girls love creampies. So far the ones i creamed on those days aren't pregnant so might also be a me issue that i dont know yet.

10. Finally, cuddles post sex.
You want her to come back for the dick again? You want her to feel safe and desire you again?
Then hug her, embrace her while you talk sweet into her ears.
I think 10 advices so far are good enough for you.

Everyone has their own ways and preferences.

good luck man

>>33534794
>>33534818
AI bots are a thing now?

>>33533556
I lost my virginity to a pillow princess and she just looked at me like a soulless husk. It turned me off so bad I felt raped afterwards and still haven't really recovered

>>33534827
im real, retard
unlike you, i get paid to cuck other's wives

I'm trying to be nice for one day

>>33534833
>i get paid to cuck other's wives
that's weird flex but ok

>>33534829
shiet man, legitimate advice for you too

go to a proper establishment, or get into a proper relationship rather than fwbs/situationships

you are basically experiencing trauma
and from my own experience, the longer it stays in your mind, the worse it gets, especially if you have no one else to talk to this about.

while it sounds like a joke, a proper establishment is meant for you to relax and enjoy yourself.
some may sound fake but it would at least be able to help you overwrite that memory

tldr; either stop playing around or go fuck a professional that is actually there to entertain you than lie down like a dead fish

>>33534878
How'd that help?
pillow princessing is normalized now and godforbid you ask your gf for something sexual.

>>33534829
It's such a sad thing when a man has so much sexual energy without reciprocating woman to receive it.

>>33534894
its more of psychological
the more bad memories you have of something, the more you will avoid something
and bad memories brood the more you think about it

and to get over bad memories fast, you would need to overwrite with new good memories.

as for pillow princessing, its a give and take

had an ex that hated moving too
in my case, i usually do my best for the first 30mins or so

then slowly, i change position that I would be the one resting while pushing her to move

one way i can suggest the "transition" is to hold her legs with your arms and carry fuck her. girls love this position cus apparently it makes them feel like they are fucked while in the air

once you are exhausted, sit on the bed and bounce on the bed with your ass

then move back in the centre of the bed while fucking her.

in that positions, she's in the cowboy position.

from there on, its just words.

do it enough and they will reciprocate

worked on every fwb i had so far so I would say give it a shot if you are in the same position

>>33534928
>the more bad memories you have of something, the more you will avoid something
>and bad memories brood the more you think about it
how to cure that if I'm in relationship with that person?
break up?
>carry fuck her.
I need to be power lifter then since she's 200 lbs now

>>33533378
The only people that say this have small dicks and are bad at PIV
I have a larger than average member. While not every girl I’ve been with cums from PIV, I can assure you that the girls that can do with me, and they don’t fucking care about foreplay when you can just shove it in and they can still get off.
Not trying to be a braggart or anything, just saying it’s not foreplay that is the “main course,” it’s her pleasure.

>>33533378
Why do you love being a simp?

>>33534959
>just shove it in dry bro
this is why zoomers don't have sex anymore

>>33534959
I just shove it in dry too, I don’t care about her getting off. I don’t care if my pecker is considered small or big. Ive killed 16 men, I took souvenirs, women love that shit, And that’s why I get laid, cause I’m a killer.

You have to wrap her body with yours, think about grappling fight, but avoid to let your weight on her. You should always use your strength to avoid that.
So the max skin is rubbing with skin. Then swat feels very good, as a lubricant.
Most women enjoy some grade of immobilization. You can grab her neck but with almost no pressure, best in the nape only, like you are holding her head against gravity. Use your tongue continuously, in all her body, without stopping.
Your dick should enter as lower as possible, like you want to rub her ass checks with dick while entering vag. So it enters with an upward angle pushing the gspot.
If she don't orgasm fast, command her to touch her clit while you are in.

>>33536432
>Most women enjoy some grade of immobilization
Not my gf.
I guess she has some kind of trauma, I tried pinning her arms above her head and kissing her neck and she started yelling and called the cops on me