Thread 33604884

So this girl I've been trying to approach at work just acknowledged me for the first time last day. I was idling near exit checking my phone when she went by and said "bye, have a nice evening" (was the end of her shift). There was no one else there, so I was the one she said it to.

Is this a signal ? Must be.

For months, I kept going near her, saying hello, bye, and she rarely answered, didn't even look at me and NOW, without me saying anything or even looking at her, she says "have a nice evening". She could have walked past without me noticing, but no, she said it so I could look up and see her. It must've been intetional

So how do I move forward based on this signal ?

I'm assuming this isn't bait.Anon just because a girl is nice to you it doesn't mean she's interested. I wouldn't even call this being nice she just acknowledged you exist

send her a dick pic

>>33604906
here's some context dude, it's been two fucking months since I walk near her desk saying hello, morning and so on. Most of the times she doesn't even bother to reply

so yeah, her being nice now is not something mundane. in fact, it's quite out of the ordinary

>>33604884 (OP)
Reflections are too much. Literally said this when ending a conversation.

>>33604927
why are you trying to approach her in the first place? what's so special about her? there you are executing a "hello" operation for months waiting for her to reply, while there are numerous other girls in this world

>>33604964
????

>>33604884 (OP)
>Is this a signal ? Must be.
A painfully cringe post, but not unusual for this board. I won't read is this normal threads.

this is OP in 2 years after they get pass the handshake stage

https://youtube.com/shorts/FsupJEteXVs?feature=shared

>>33604927
Honestly even with the added context I stand by what I said. I don't think she meant anything by it. I think the best thing you can do is try to talk to her. (Regardless of what her intentions are)Maybe star out with some small talk?

get your shit together OP, grow some dignity, and find a girl who actually cares about you. you can play with this one as a side pet project if you wish

>>33604884 (OP)
>Is this a signal ? Must be.
Anon this is just a friendly thing to do. The girl most likely is not interested.

Saying this as a girl that just say bye/morning to her coworkers to be nice

>>33604884 (OP)
you're making good progress bro, keep it up and you might even learn her name in a couple more months, she will be yours in 5-10 years, keep it going

>>33604989
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A lot of women are nice OP, like her, she was just being nice.
Maybe you could talk to her during work hours? Be her friend?

>>33605319
>Be her friend?

Absolutely not in this context, considering the effort OP invested in obtaining a formal greeting his balls pretty much look like eggplants by now. It would be totally humiliating to get friendzoned at this point.

>>33604927
>Takes 2 months to even acknowledge your existence
>"No, you don't get it guys, she never even knew I existed and now she's at least bothering to show me basic decorum, she clearly likes me!"
Fucking retard

>>33605354
OP made the first thread around July. It's now September and he still hasn't asked her out.

>>33606268
in those 2 months she's most probably been making love with some normal guy, and while they are laying exhausted on sweaty sheets she mentions this guy at work who keeps saying hi while she never replies back but he's still trying lol what a loser

>>33604884 (OP)
I have been in a similar situation, it means she loves you and wish she could see you in the weekend

>>33604884 (OP)
Shit she probably just noticed you weren't actively orbiting her this time and panicked over the shift in energy.
The only signal here is she was getting some degree of validation from you