Thread 33656935

I honestly don't know exactly what I am missing you guys. A lot of my friends are married or have spouses. I am alone and have always been alone for the most part. I feel pretty awful as a male because I see how the spouses and wives of my friends look at them and they all seem really into them and actually love them. When ever I try to imagine that for myself, I can't even do it because my first thought is that I would never be able to make a woman feel that way about me. There is something wrong with my personality that inhibits me from being able to form a legitimate relationship and I am 30 years old. I have never been a guy that plays the field and have only craved being in a committed relationship. I have seen many men of different shapes and sizes and personalities have girlfriends and wives and yet for some reason my combination of personality and shape etc has yielded me nothing. The only way I can describe it is that I feel my spark is non-existent. Whatever it is that attracts a woman to a man, I don't seem to have it. What can I do? I don't give up easily but it feels weird to keep pressing continue when it looks like its game over.

>>33656935 (OP)
I feel exactly the same way.

>>33656935 (OP)
You need a mission. Every time I was swimming in pussy, it was because I had some subplots cooking.

As you progress, the women begin to appear. Money also is huge - it’s a perceptible way people walk and having the mental ease of paying your groceries without even hearing the total is a key to finding a partner. Remember, women are looking for protection, so now is the time to get moving. For the record, I got the most laid in my 30’s with a series of girlfriends. They attract other women and you won’t get hung up on simping for some mediocre crease.

Also, ask your friend group to set you up. I know many friend groups that chill as married couples and do group sex. This could be you

>>33656990
I kind of understand what you mean. I wouldn't say I am missionless exactly but my mission kind of pivots on having the beginnings of a family(girlfriend or wife). Like right now, I live alone in a apartment and I don't feel the need to get a house because I don't think I need the space. Not to mention I know housing markets are weird right now. Also, I am pretty good on money. I am not filthy rich but I make good money and have always had good spending habits. My main issue is that I just can't keep a woman attracted to me. I think some of that stems from me being too carefree I guess. I wouldn't say I am nonchalant or something but I am truly not bothered by much at all. I also am not a strongly opinionated person but I don't let people walk over me, I just don't care about most things people usually care about.

>also, ask your friend group to set you up
I tried. Unfortunately this group consists of mostly spoused up people. Actually now that I think of it, there are no single women within my friend group. I actually rely mostly on online dating to try and get dates which really sucks.

>>33657016
Avoid online dating.

I get called daddy at the grocery store and I’m not particularly attractive, but people can tell I’m always on my mission. Women dig that shit and it gives them a drama to anchor their lives to. You’ll also come across more women - for example, if expanding your house with fruit trees sounds good, chances are you’ll find some earthy girls at the tree store. If you’re a foodie, a steak at a bar in an upscale establishment also yields high/class women (including the waitresses).