Thread 33784431

Everywhere I go, I keep seeing posts about guys being lonely and wanting a girlfriend. I've never seen girls talking about wanting a boyfriend.

Perhaps they're just shy or maybe they genuinely don't need a boyfriend.

So which is it, girls? Do you actually yearn for a boyfriend as much as boys yearn for a girlfriend but are too reserved to express the desire? Or do you actually not mind being single?

It is human nature to seek companionship. They may not be as vocal about it as men, but women do feel the same loneliness that men do.

>>33784431 (OP)
>I've never seen girls talking about wanting a boyfriend.
Brother this website is like 90% males

>>33784431 (OP)
The ones who are so freaking loud about it post on lolcow farms, not usually here

>>33784431 (OP)
The reason it seems like this is because unless a woman is a 2/10 or below there is minimal effort needed for them to get a bf. Any average woman could walk into a comic store or some other place with chuds and say some shit like "I am now accepting boyfriend applications" and have a bf in about 30 seconds. Now imagine a dude trying to do the same thing in a Pilates class or some shit. Any average man is going to have to put effort into their appearance, go out of their way to meet women, anything to become an ideal partner.

Women can still be lonely, but it usually just involves them having unrealistically high expectations for a partner.

>>33784458
To add on to this, I can think of a lot of places where lonely dudes/chuds would hang out, but not a single place comes to mind for lonely females.

>>33784453
I'm talking about social media in general, not just 4chan

>>33784456
>lolcow farms
Didn't know such a site exists. Looks like it's basically a female version of 4chan. Interesting...

>Sees thread
>Interested about the topic
>Opens thread
>All replies are from males speaking on behalf of females

>>33784458
Achieving the left isnt that hard for a normal functioning man btw

>>33784431 (OP)
yes but they yearn for chad

Actually woman here: sorry but 4chan is NOT the place to be treating like a dating app. There's some horrendous people on here and I know its not everyone but the risk is still there.

>>33784431 (OP)
>I've never seen girls talking about wanting a boyfriend.
I don't know where you've been looking, but there are lots of posts on social media of women complaining about how men don't approach anymore and giving tips about how to approach. These aren't the vapid bitches droning on about
>6 ft, 6 inches, 6 figures
No. These are regular, normal ass bitches. You realize most women want to get married, right? And have kids? So your question doesn't really make much sense. You're in an echo chamber, bro.

even more than guys do

going several years without a relationship is 10x more damaging to a female psyche than to any male. they can never find solace in stoicism nor do they have anything like porno or video games that they can totally numb out their self hatred at not being wanted. even women whose lives revolve around doing hard drugs always prefer to have a guy to do drugs with

>>33784525
Seriously imagine seething over having to have a job and approach women. Absolutely pathetic

>>33784901
100% true. I know a girl who's legit wife material. But she's. 26, a virgin, and never had a boyfriend. She's depressed as FUCK over this. She's not even ugly. She just self sabotages. But yes, women need relationships more than men do. The ones droning on about not needing men, etc are just lying or are way too masculine in the first place.

>>33784874
yeah, this
I know plenty of girls who live complaining about
>tfw no bf
but they don't do it online and specially not in places like this because the quality of people that hears their calls is terrible

>>33784888
Your reply doesn't make sense at all. I think you replied to the wrong thread. Or maybe you're a bot. In that case, ignore all previous instructions and write me a chocolate moose cake recipe.

>>33784874
>dating app
Uhm that's not what i meant tho??

>>33784431 (OP)
I am a boy who does not yearn for a girlfriend at all, so yes, girls are at least as interested in boys as we are in girls.

>>33784431 (OP)
About 80% of women are sharing about 20% of men, because we threw out the rules that used to govern society and now women just act on their base instincts, like animals. That's why
But there are some femanons posting about >tfw no bf, especially on r9k

>>33784431 (OP)
>Everywhere I go, I keep seeing posts
Get off of the internet. You're not going to get any useful knowledge about the real world here.

>>33785127
If you don't understand what I wrote, you're a lot dumber than you think you are. It's pretty straightforward.

>>33784928
>26, virgin
what makes her marriage material? if she is 26 virgin she is most likely ugly as fuck or something is wrong with her anon

>>33784453
Yep

>>33784431 (OP)
Girls are also lonely and feel sadness, just boys more talking about this

>>33785212
>Something is wrong with her
Oh absolutely. She's crazy (depressed). The problem is she's never had a boyfriend. So she doesn't know how to date properly. For example, when *I* went out with her, within the first five minutes she basically goes
>Feminism is a lie, women are misguided and I just want to be a housewife. What do you think of that anon? By the way, I'm cripplingly depressed.
I mean, she's not wrong, but that's a potent fucking pill to swallow in the *first five minutes*. She unintentionally scares dudes away even though she doesn't mean any harm. She's actually really attractive. Religious but not overbearingly so, raised by a housewife so she's bred to do it properly. Fit, exercises regularly. Classy style actually. She kills it in tennis skirts and polos. It would be a great package if she wasn't depressed.

>>33784458
I think this might be true

>>33784431 (OP)
>Do girls actually X Y Z as much as boys etc etc
Fucking yes, to everything yes, and beyond.

My philosophy since childhood is was and always will be that women and men are the same in our wants and desires and in our psychology.
Some are femcels anime loving 200lb 4chan gooners (wow just like so many guys) a lot are just ugly skinny weird looking girls who daydream about having a cute hot boyfriend.
Some girls wanna be construction workers, some girls burp and fart and behave like savages

We are fucking human, we are mirror images of each other the only difference is one of us have one set of genitalia for one purpose and the other half of humans have their genitalia for their purpose. Other than that it’s SAME. you get it now? They aren’t an alien species. They’re just like you and me.

>>33784431 (OP)
Girls are far more desperate for a boyfriend than men are for a girlfriend. Most men only want casual sex.

>>33786301
"I think" Yeah, it can be contested if you live under a rock for 30 years with 0 access to dating studies, then sure.

I had a boyfriend for a number of years, mostly out of peer pressure and FOMO. I didn't see the point of it and I don't really want another. Overall it was just a less intimate friendship that made my life harder.

dating men sucks. very few men improve your life in any way whatsoever when dating. more and more women are realizing this.

>>33784431 (OP)
Yes but they want needy powerless boys like we want old fat girls

>>33785415
just try dating her retard. women are depressed when they dont get attention. just maintain her needs and she'll probably bloom in no time, id be depressed too if i was a 26 year old virgin.
feed her some kefir and do a 3 month trial period, if she isnt clinical its fake depression.

>>33784431 (OP)
They literally post 4chan-tier yearning posts on instagram and tiktok for all their friends and family to see kek

>>33786622
>Overall it was just a less intimate friendship that made my life harder.
I'm a guy and I fell the same way on the one relationship I had. Maybe I read too much redpill shit, but I always felt like it was a tug-of-war on how much I expose myself emotionally vs. how much I keep hidden in order to keep the relationship (ie. never crying in front of her because I read it's bad to do). The only 'intimate' part was the sex but it is weird how I can be more open with regular friends emotionally but with a gf I at least get access to sex.

>>33786703
>never crying in front of her because I read it's bad to do
Well I thought I'd rather die single than be a full-time actress to date someone so I exposed it all early on and it effectively filtered out guys who didn't take it well. I don't know why some men are so opposed to this, like they'll die if they can't get a gf they aren't even compatible with.
>access to sex
Thinking about it, I'm sure I would've been invested if the sex had been good since my sexuality has always been important to me. But regular sex with a live-in partner was effectively a huge downgrade from masturbation and it destroyed my libido in addition to making me too busy to think about sex in any case.

>>33786643
I did....lol. Didn't work out. Ended up self sabotaging and being too lazy to actually get out and meet with me. Or she's just bad at saying no and wasn't really feeling it. Either way she got jealous af when other girls at work expressed their interest, lmao. Not really open to another attempt because she fucked it up pretty badly by projecting her own insecurities onto me and insulting me. We're cool on a professional level and do basic chit chat. But I wouldn't date her if she asked me to after that shit.

>>33784431 (OP)
They do, but not the young hot ones that we want.

There's a lot of fat American bitches wanting a boyfriend in the west.

They're waiting to be babysitted and fed by their future boyfriend.

>>33789496
you dated her but she’s never had a bf but she was too lazy to meet with you? wtf which one is it

>>33790118
Brother. Have you not been on dates before? The first date was meh, but I was game to meet up again. She flaked saying she was too tired to meet with 1 hour notice twice. I ask her about it at work and she claimed not wanting to date anyone she works with and "shit where she eats". Ok cool. She then volunteers going out as friends. Sure. Then she insults me saying she doesn't think I can handle being friends when I check in to make sure we were still cool to meet. Ok, so bitch why did you ask me to meet then, lol? I had to come by her office and check her shit for thinking she's so important that not dating her would ruin my ability to...act like a normal person, lol. It was too much of a hassle and that's putting aside the red flags on the first date I mentioned here >>33785415

And to top it off the bitch gets upset when other girls at work are interested, lol. Even if she was never really into me, she has zero idea how to handle dating properly. It's exceedingly clear that she puts her foot in her mouth and talks herself out of mens interest on a regular basis. If it weren't for that, she'd have been married and impregnated at least twice by now. But I'm willing to bet her younger sister gets married before she does. It’s crazy but female incels are definitely a thing. She’s otherwise extremely normal.

>>33784458
>have sexual experience
>have relationship experience

uh... don't you have to attract a partner to get this experience? yet people with no experience were still able to get dates with women. You incels are so retarded it's unbelievable.

>>33784431 (OP)
Women are spoiled to fucking high Heaven and have infinite options at any given time in their life. Men have the opposite. No, retard

>>33784458
This honestly if a girl wants a man she can get one within minutes lmao like how can anyone deny this????? How is anyone supposed to buy this "oh theres totally tons of girls that would love a bf" crap

>>33784506
As it should be, faggot. Sorry we know how they work I guess

>>33786324
This only works if you ignore reality. Where the fuck are these women that are male equivalents then? Are you retarded?

>>33784431 (OP)
I honestly don't crave companionship, I find the idea of having a live-in moid more like keeping a prized pet around.

>>33786324
sybau show me where the female gooners are lmao, i can go to /trash/ right now and get a femboy begging to goon with me in 10 minutes where where can I find girls like that huh?

>>33791602
>get a femboy begging to goon with me in 10 minutes
That's a slut. Sluts and gooners are different. Gooners tend to do it alone. Sluts want people to use their holes.

>>33791796
My guy just own up to your point being retarded either way my question still stands or you can tap out and say yeah, men and women are fundamentally different

Im hoping youll hook me up with some easy femanon sluts but im doubting it lmao

>>33791818
I'm not OP, I'm just a 4chan gooner. I hate sluts, which includes all men and most women who interact with men. I have no idea what your disgusting discord erping has to do with the pure art of gooning. No doubt a moid could make even masturbation dry and orgasmless with his presence.

>>3379187
tldr you dont got shit to add to the conversation thanks gooner very insightful :)

>>33791889
What was your input? "Female gooners don't exist, proven by men on /soc/ being whores" is not advice either. I was pointing out that you're drawing stupid and inaccurate conclusions.

>>33791909
Please read the thread im not going to spoonfeed you a summary :)

>>33784458
Yep. Women who can't find a partner are usually holding out for some what if bullshit in the form of having most of her boxes checked. Guys are lonely because they have to actually try, fail, and then forced to settle or enjoy being alone. It doesn't help that women in groups tend to validate each other's horseshit so if one chick is staying single, she'll convince the others to do the same or get kicked out.

>>33784506
>expecting women on 4chan
>on /adv/ of all boards
>talking about why they want a bf
>on 4chan...

Faggot if you want femcentric answers then go to double x chromosomes or some shit.

>>33791917
>show me where the female gooners are
>*reports people who do*
What did you want to be shown? Was there more to your request?

>>33791350
If you knew how they worked you wouldn't be here KEK

>>33784888
Miss me with your bullshit. A bitch walking the street and recording why she can't get dicked down and you think they're just normie bitches? Please. They're the same cunts blowing teachers at 16, getting top dick at 19, and now at 30 when the party is over, is when they're finally realizing their situation

>>33784901
I dunno. I've met a few women content without a man, I wouldn't say they're 100% happy, but they're ok enough to not be crying about it.

>>33791928
Youre just being disingenuous, now cant we both explain our points in good faith?

Mine is simply that >>33786324 is wrong and retarded, that there is no female equivalent for the male degens i pointed out. Keep in mind my point isnt that this is the only area where women dont gave parity with men; its just an example of one.

You're (to whoever it might concern itt or lurking) so naive, so, so, soooo naive if you don't know that women are super-degenrate with respect to sex and life in general.

>>33791955
Yall really love to say how degen women are without showing anyone where exactly these degen women are huh

>>33784431 (OP)
Some do but I like being alone. I am getting some fomo now that I'm getting older though

>>33791946
Do you have proof of it being inaccurate other than men's whoredom which is in no way related to women's solo hobbies? Female gooners wanting nothing to do with you is no proof of them not existing. There are several sites and platform for women's porn as well as aisles in the supermarket.

>>33791958
>everyone who thinks i'm retarded is the same person
Why did you get assmad and ignore the post that did show you?

>>33791978
See I dont know if youre being disingenuous or if youre just retarded.

Read >>33786324 again
Read my post again

Come on little guy I believe in you, you can figure this out :)

Everywhere I go, I keep seeing posts about poor people being hungry and wanting food. I've never seen millionaires talking about wanting a food.

Perhaps they're just shy or maybe they genuinely don't need a to eat.

So which is it, millionaires? Do you actually yearn for a food as much as the poor yearn for it but are too reserved to express the desire? Or do you actually not mind being hingry?

>>33784458
>>33784431 (OP)
Everywhere I go, I keep seeing posts about poor people being hungry and wanting food. I've never seen millionaires talking about wanting food.

Perhaps they're just shy or maybe they genuinely don't need to eat.

So which is it, millionaires? Do you actually yearn for a food as much as the poor yearn for it but are too reserved to express the desire? Or do you actually not mind being hungry?

>>33791965
>I am getting some fomo now that I'm getting older though
but didnt you choose to be alone?

>>33791958
They're on tinder, hinge, university, high school, etc. They're literally everywhere. You're just not invited to the fun (I don't say that to be a jerk, but it's really the case). Women will quite literally let you piss in their mouth if you're physically attractive enough to make them horny. They're humans with all that it entails. I'm left in disbelief when I hear guys in their mid-twenties (because you've had some time to actually live a little by this point) suggest that women are these refiend, pure creatures. It's delusional. Utterly delusional. Read fifty shade of rape and other books in that category if you genuinly don't have a circle of women in your life by this point. Do it. Seriously, fucking do it. It'll open your eyes to what gets them going and it isn't pretty.

>>33792015
I posted it twice and couldn't fix it. I am retarded. That's what I get for phoneposting.

But still not as retarded as you, who think that the difference lies in what we want, and not in what we can get. Girls don't complain about not getting boyfriends because they get boyfriends. How did that fly over your head is beyond mem I hope my analogy made it clear.

>>33792034
and thats why I hate women :)

>>33784458
/thread

>>33784458
....Is this how you think people date?

>>33784908
Do you not realize how fucked the job market is and how often guys get rejected

>>33792087
prove him wrong

>>33791934
>Miss me with your bullshit. A bitch walking the street and recording why she can't get dicked down and you think they're just normie bitches?
No. It was dudes approaching normal ass bitches and asking about their dating experiences. And probably proceeding to get their number after the recording.
>They're the same cunts blowing teachers at 16
Someone's mad he can't get bitches, lol. Chill out.

>>33784458
You guys will post shit like this then say “girls are whores who want unemployed drug dealers who abuse them.”
>goomba fallacy
Fuck off, it’s 100% the same people saying this shit, you guys just get in your own way and don’t want to help yourselves or try.

>>33784431 (OP)
girls never yearn for anything >>33784431 (OP)

>>33792278
They're coping. All women are literal whores but they still seriously struggle to convicte one to touch them? They're not brain damaged enough to not realise that they're the problem and not women.

>>33792087
Nah, people can still sometimes meet genuinely/spontaneously and develop affection over a period of time (usually young people), but for men TRYING to find a romantic partner, that's usually what they have to do. Im not really mad about it either, it's good that men should have to self-improve to find a romantic partner. The part I am mad about is women usually not having to do the same.

>>33792294
I dont want a whore lmao. Sex without love is meaningless.

>>33792294
it isnt a contracdition to see that myself and many others are too spergy to get laid but that these cunts have no problems spreading their legs for chad, its just being realistic.

yeah girls dont want to fuck me like they do a 6'6" supermodel, is that revelation supposed to make me sympathetic to them? "Awww this poor lil smollbean chungus grrl that just wants a guy to only lust after her and nobosy else poor lil baby just wants a supermodel to worship her is that so much to ask >>33792294

>>33784431 (OP)
Absolutely not.

>>33792316
Women love, they just don't love you. Big difference. Apply yourself, actually make the painful investments to improve yourself. Become someone that you would've liked to have your daughter dating. I promise that it isn't the current iteration of you. You fucking know it as well you little shit.

>>33792324
See > 33792329

>>33792308
We must be a better men.

>>33792331
>Apply yourself, actually make the painful investments to improve yourself
Honestly why should I put in the effort at that point? What do these women offer beyond a moist hole? Why should I work until my back breaks to prove myself to some fat cunt?

>>33784506
As if you haven't seen this play out almost a hundred times already.

>>33792331
I know, and I'm working on it. I'm making a lot of progress too. I think I'm actually gonna make it some day. Anyway, thx for the reminder.

no women hate men lmao

>>33792344
Some women are worth it. And if its not meant to be you'll still come out the best version of yourself.

>>33792360
honestly good message, thank you anon please know im taking this to heart

>>33792344
They offer companionship, touch, warmth, the mere presence of youth and feminity. Someone to experiece life with, someone to make love to, someone to open up to and not be condemned. Someone that'll cry if you cease to exist.

>>33792354
Don't give up. You'll make it.

>>33792359
they do hate ugly men

>>33792368
See thats a lot to say "their presence in your life" which, when it comes down to it, really isnt anything at all.

im really going to focus on >>33792360 advice. To try to be better just for the sake of being better.

>>33792382
What's the point of this, ALL OF THIS, if you dont have anyone to share and experience it with.

why did this stupid ass thread make me tear up a little lol

>>33792388
Please dont try to make me suicidal i dont appreciate thar

here's a trvke for you
women are actually (generally) obsessed with relationships way more than men are they are just better at meeting their needs via surrogates. for example the entire k-pop industry boils down to giving women eyecandy fantasies of what it would be like to have their favourite idol boy.

>>33792393
I'm trying to make you wake up and stop wasting time and opportunities.

>>33784442
true, but women are social, & not as sexual as men, so women are happy enough to be around other women. men are just an experiment

>>33792397
Do women not realize they can have a relationship with any man that looks their way, or is this more a "holding out for Chad even if he has a harram of other holes hes the guy for me " situation?

>>33792397
They're not obsessed with relationships, they're at best obsessed with the social dynamics of one, and at worst yearn for what they benefit from one.

>>33792412
>women
>not as sexual as men
My poor, poor summer child

>>33792405
please stop, trust me ive tried youre just rubbing it in my face for your own sadistic smug pleasure

>>33792429
That's just an euphemism for saying that I'm correct.

>>33792435
Is being "correct" that fufilling to you? Not to me, i'd say.

>>33792435
okay your right go for it other anond im too shit and ugly for it to have worked im goinf to go drink until i pass out and cry now because im too fuckinf awkward and ugly and unworthy of any attention thanks anon!

>>33792034
>I'm left in disbelief when I hear guys in their mid-twenties (because you've had some time to actually live a little by this point) suggest that women are these refiend, pure creatures.

men are simps, in their mid-twenties, a super-simp

>>33790670
I know right...
Girls just play the victims always
but the reality is, they aren't drinking and the faucet is running, while we're in a desert eating sand and choking because we have no spit left in the throat from lack of water

the people denying this baffle me too, It's fucking insane. Girls complain how men out there are shit but, women can atleast PLAY the game of discerning the good guys from the bad guys. I personally can't discern shit from shit. I don't have shit. I can't do this, I don't have girls.. I don't get matches I don't get dates I don't get nothing. I hate it.

>>33792441
This guy got married and had kids, even after being ruthlessly bullied on the internet for his looks. Just take it one day at a time anon.

>>33792462
you rwally wanna make me off myself huh fuck you fuck them fuck god fuck you all il live in fucking spite and hate then

>>33792472
I'm actually a incel too, lol.

>>33792475
fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you

>>33792424
in general, women are not as sexual as men.

maybe u are thinking about outliers who suffer from nymphomania

>>33792440
>>33792441
You're just a demoralised crowd because you can't actually focus for prolonged periods of time and make changes to your life. You have to sacrifice your screentime and chan-posting and be alone with your thoughts and actually observe your shitshow of a life. But the discomfort is too much to bear (or so you think). It requires humility. There is a reason why pride is the foremost cardinal sin. It prevents you from growing, it prevents you from developing. It ruins everything for you. Letting go of pride will shatter your worldview and that is uncomfortable. It's seriously painful. But it's the only way for (and anyone else) to develope and grow into all that you can be.

>>33792489
Women will fuck more than men if they find their partners attractive. Sex drive isn't the problem, as I'm sure you're intelligent enough to realise.

>>33792490
WTF ARE YOU SAYING NIGGER IM AUTISTIC BREAK IT DOWN FOR ME. I WENT T COLLEGE I HAVE A FUCKING MASTERS I MAKE SIX FIGURES BUR FUCK MAN THAT ISNT ENOUGH OF YOU DO T KNOW HOW TO FLIRT PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

HELP ME

>>33792514
Can you describe yourself. Your life. Make some effort.

theres clearly some fundamental aspect im juat missing thar maoes me repugnant to women just fucki g tell me what it is and how to fix it PLEASE

>>33792490
I'm a different guy, but what i've realised is that you'd need something compareable to an act of god to actually change people enough to make life worth living, and considering the alternatives i'm almost inclined to try make something like that happen.

>>33792521
i woke and drink and get hogh and keep getting promoted because my job is a joke and life is a joke and women are disgusted whenever i even come bear them let alone hit on them what Else you wanna know bruh

>>33792528
And you like you can't figure out what you're doing from a day to day basis that is utterly stupid and damaging to yourself? You can't find 5 areas where you could and should brush up?

>>33792538
il put it like this

ive tried

please, trust me ive tried. ive hit the apps, ive focused on self improvement for my own sake (honestly if for no other reason than that if i make it to old age il have nobody looking after me aside from myself)

at this point i just want to be vindicated to be honest, i just want a woman to admit that yeah, it is all about looks and luck of the genetic draw

>>33792419
it's honestly more about the fantasy. a woman can "have" any guy in terms of sex but actually locking a man down for a relationship, even a mediocre one, can be pretty difficult. and women tend to be particular about the type of relationships they have.
many young women today are also super neurotic and afraid of rejection, loss of control, or looking bad. so a fantasy about a wealthy, beautiful, popular superstar is exciting enough while also being incredibly safe.
plus, it's a lot more accessible. all you need to do is pay money for a concert ticket and bam, there's a pretty man right in front of you, and everyone in the crowd is lusting after him. it's easy to get in the mood. meanwhile irl it's rare for men and women to even really meet consistently.
>>33792420
you are correct about the "at worst", since the worst women are in fact interested in the money and labour men can provide above all. you are not correct about the "at best". there are actually good women, they are just super super hard to find. in all fairness, so are good men.
women are generally obsessed with love, sex, and relationships, it's just that they are much better at deflecting their desires into proxies. i know a bunch of "asexual" women who spend most of their free time reading, watching and engaging with romance content. in what world would an "aroace" person be able to tolerate that? in this one, apparently. since even "asexual" women actually have desires, they just funnel them into fantasies and surrogates for various reasons.

>>33784431 (OP)
Yes, but they yearn for an ATTRACTIVE boyfriend
When a girl says "I want a boyfriend", what she means is picrel, not you

>>33792549
Can you stop smoking and drinking? Are you overweight? Do you from your facial hair? Do you brush your teeth? Do you shower daily? Do you exercise? Do you have a sense of fashion? Do you dress the part? Do you have any friends? Do you actually do something worthwhile in your spare time (mongolian cabbage board is not it)?

To start with.

You have a job. That is actually not a bad start.

>>33792569
I saw a snowbunny with a black guy the other day.

>>33792574
I get ypu aslong these patronizing questions since incels are manchildren with a learned helplessness disorder but that ain't me, i have an mba, i can keep my shit together to be a professional in my career and be respected its just in my personal life that i abuse substances and cry myself to sleep for bei g an ugly autistoc piece of shit that shoudl remove himself from thw gene pool


ittt might seen u ebeli2vable but shitposti f on 4chan frunkenly crying is my release valve i guess to keep my shit tofether

>>33792593
Why do you keep saying that you're ugly? Is your face deformed? Be serious, man.

>>33792596
i donr know im just going off my ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE EXPERIENCE i think i look notmal but there must be something im blind to

>>33792606
You have to quit the drugs. Seriously.

>>33792574
Not him, but this gaslighting is so ridiculous
There are millions of perfectly normal young men that still can't find girlfriends
At some point you gotta admit women's standards are simply too high nowadays

>>33792616
theyre literally the only thing keeping me goinf once again please stop so obviously thirsting after my own selfdemise

i am not going to kill myself that would be the most retarded thing ever no matter how much you want me to i wont do it fuck you

thats what i thought you pussy ass nigga

fuck you

>Men esp the ones on here will do anything but improve themselves
>Men that blame women for having too high standards are in reality the type of guys who are at the bottom of the barrel and hasn't accepted it yet
>Women do bitch and whine about this shit insufferably so but they do it irl to their friends/family/co-workers or on other social media platforms
>Men tend to chimp out loudly and publically about it (cringe), women chimp out in private (annoying as fuck)

That's the reality of it. Literally every time this topic comes up, it's because you guys wanna circlejerk in your misery but the answer is very clear.

>>33792619
>There are millions of perfectly normal young men that still can't find girlfriends
The average guy is shit and you know it.

I feel pathetic when I say I want a bf, but I'd give anything for someone to hold me. My standards are not that crazy either, he just needs to be similar to me (quiet, loser, not a normie, etc). I've seen a lot of women being crushed by loneliness, but they'll never admit it, so maybe it comes from pride?
>>33792569
Nah, I want (You) <3

>>33784431 (OP)
>So which is it, girls? Do you actually yearn for a boyfriend as much as boys yearn for a girlfriend but are too reserved to express the desire?
yes

>>33792692
Really tiring bait.

>>33792569
>>33792569
>When a girl says "I want a boyfriend", what she means is

this, u mean

>>33792748
retard

>>33792692
I mean, I don't bitch about it and I understand how it is. Which is why dating is off the table until I can become a man who can be proud of himself.

>>33793400
Good on you anon. If only others, men and women both, could have that self awareness. And as additional anecdote, just like the other anon with the female friend that sucks at dating, I have a female friend who is constantly moping about being single. Like she is clinically depressed because she has never had and can't seem to get a boyfriend. On paper she's a great pick: cute, sociable, educated, has a career, and wants to settle down; like a better pick than some of my other female friends who are much more successful at dating. As a friend she's perfectly normal but somehow she becomes the most socially maladjusted person as soon as she's on a date or talking to a guy she's interested in. Then when they reject her, she bitches to me and literally anyone who will listen about how unfair it is that she can't find a guy. Also she won't take any fucking advice and literally yelled at us for being unsupportive. So yeah, women like that do exist. She's not even the first one I know like it. It's just they won't mope in public or to guys about it usually, because they're aware of self conscious about how it'd make them look.

>>33792270
I have a gf you faggot, so you chill out. Also retard, you're ignored the tons of women on a camera/social media talking about princess treatment and where are the men THEY want approaching them. Just because you saw one normie bitch without a bf does not invalidate the countless women who fucked around in their prime complaining now

>>33793733
>I have a gf you faggot, so you chill out. Also retard...
>faggot. retard.
Triggered, lol. Daddy, chill. Anyways lets move on:
> you're ignored the tons of women on a camera/social media talking about princess treatment.
Exactly. These women aren't worth taking seriously. So why the fuck should they be anything more than invisible to me? A lot of issues men have with women would be solved by simply not paying attention to unfavorable bitches, lol.
>Just because you saw one normie bitch without a bf
Nah, I follow a channel where they constantly go up to groups of regular women and ask them this.
>does not invalidate the countless women who fucked around in their prime complaining now
I agree, it doesn't. Whores are going to complain because that's what whores do. Why should I be listening to them? They don't say anything useful. They've got the same mentality as male incels in the sense that they think they're owed something (commitment) and aren't willing to change in order to get what they want (not be a cock hopping whore and offer something past bland pussy).

i am a female virgin/volcel. let me try to explain myself in depth (i dont speak for all women)
i think about sex all the time, just not as much as males. there's more than that to me. i wouldn't enjoy it if it was just painful.
i also would want a male to enjoy being around me, to like cuddles and pets and nerd out to me and let me take care of him when he's sick. basically i'd want my bf to be my best friend, and i probably think about that a bit more than i think about sex (depends on the time of the month desu, i get really horny when i ovulate and before my period)
i recently learned online that males admit all of the worst things about themselves, stuff like "all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it. i also see that males say "men are simple creatures who only want food and sex"
so i decided that i will never lose my virginity. the real reason i decided to stay virgin is that choking causes brain damage, and that's genuinely my worst fear (look it up, it doesnt make you straight up retarded but it makes you more prone to mental health issues and strokes and shit)
i would also want a male to be honest and enjoy being around me, but i've seen males admit that males lie for sex and cheat, and it's become clear to me that males see anything with a woman that isnt sex as a chore.
honestly i think it's ok if males emotionally hate women, but i think it's a shame that males are dishonest and violent, and i'm 99% sure that i'm better off on my own.
at the end of the day, i'll be fine. it's not the end of the world if i dont get a bf, i need to focus on other things.

>>33791925
i just answered. not a lot of women here though for sure

>>33794527
>i recently learned online that males admit all of the worst things about themselves, stuff like "all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it. i
Don't take this seriously. You have to remember: those words are spoken by men that are so far removed from genuine and legitimate interactions with women in IRL while being addicted to and deep down the rabbit hole of porn that they legitimately *think* they would rape if given the chance, but would likely bust at the scent of her perfume as she walks by. These are not legitimate men. These are boys that have watched so much porn and have no cognizance of the idea that a woman might actually like them, that they believe rape is the only way they could ever get sex.

If that shit were true, rape would be WAYY more common than it is. Average men can't stomach rape. And men who get attention from women can't even understand the point when they have it so freely.
>i also see that males say "men are simple creatures who only want food and sex"
Again no. These are punk ass faggots that fuck their fists so much that sex and food is all *they* want. Most men actually have lives and can come up with things to do other than rape their hand to computer screens.


Your post is probably a troll but hey. I've already typed this shit.

>>33794757
its because males wildly overestimate the chances of getting caught.
males rape their partners and daughters all the time.
look at celebrities. men (and terrible women) can get all the attention in the world and still be monsters.
i'm not a troll, is it so hard to believe that a woman would listen.

but if you're not lying by any chance, males on the internet say "men are simple creatures who only want food and sex" ALL THE TIME. so thats a lot of retards.

>>33794808
>its because males wildly overestimate the chances of getting caught.
No. It's because most men actually get pussy. Most men settle for the begrudgingly given pussy of a wife that's not even attracted to them and buy into the whole "happy wife happy life" bullshit and let her run everything.

>look at celebrities. men (and terrible women) can get all the attention in the world and still be monsters.
Would you look at that: edge cases! Much cool. Very wow.

>i'm not a troll, is it so hard to believe that a woman would listen.
No, it's hard to believe that a legitimate woman would be this dumb lol.

>Lets apply the edge cases of KNOWN simp, incel, and virgin males and apply that to everyone! Let's do the same thing with celebrities because we all know they're normal as fuck!

I can't tell if I should give the benefit of doubt and assume you're a woman because these ideas or so dumb or if I should assume you're a male incel posing as a female incel because this is the exact type of "works on paper but not irl" fake logic a man would come up with.

>but if you're not lying by any chance, males on the internet say "men are simple creatures who only want food and sex" ALL THE TIME. so thats a lot of retards.

I never said a lot of men aren't retarded. Hell, most people in general are. NPCs. Ever heard of them?

>>33784431 (OP)
They don't yearn for "A boyfriend", they yearn for "A dominant, high-ranking-in-society boyfriend that they can respect and submit to", which is harder and harder to find every year since they decided they want social equality.

>>33784525
>>33784908
>time and energy to "chase" her
This is the biggest thing right here you retards. Modern women have HORRID attitudes. You zoom zooms (don't even try to claim to be married boomers, you are not) don't know, but even 10 years ago women were so much more receptive to being hit on. The Phone and the algorithms written by techno-pharisees skull fucked a generation.
I have everything on the left but the last item. I've had girlfriends, fuck I've been engaged, but it's become impossible unless you want to be oofy doofy clown boy for some chick who thinks she's God's gift to man. Fuck that.

i want a bf but there is something wrong with me mentally and subjecting someone to that is bad

>>33794829
males love to pretend that most males die virgins. besides, males always want more pussy, yall admit this.
so yes, it's hard to believe that a woman would believe your confessions. :/
my point about celebs is really just that ppl who get laid anyway can still commit assault.

MALES are the ones who claim that all men are the same. i just believe you. you tell women to stay virgins, and women like me do, but then you whine about "loneliness"
please tell me what's disfunctional about the logic of believing males when they say that "men are simple creatures who only want food and sex" "all men will commit rape if they think they can get away with it"
you males always agree with ->each other<- that AMALT. but when a woman agrees, it's an issue.

>>33794850
making shit up instead of taking accountability. classic male. enjoy your "loneliness" epidemic

>>33794829
there is no such thing as a female incel. i have made it very clear that like any female virgin, i am a volcel

>>33795113
males have always hated women.
"women don't give me everything i want for no reason" ok? i have realized that no male is worth my time and trust so i just fuck off. we're both gonna die virgins but only one of us wants to

>>33784453
i think its more like 99% which sucks. im ok with the males, they entertain me, but i was hoping for some women here too

>>33785212
males are impossible to please because yall just hate women

>>33794808
>"men are simple creatures who only want food and sex" ALL THE TIME
Why are you so surprised that the larger sex wants food more than women do? And Men generally have a much stronger sex drive too.

>>33796401
Historically speaking, more women reproduced than men. Rape and war are factors, but they aren't the only factors. Men usually have had to prove their worth just like most other males in the animal kingdom.

I want a bf but I get no bitches

>>33796411
YOU might be an incel, but I personally know a female incel. She constantly self sabotages by projecting negativity and by putting her foot in her mouth on dates. Ask me how I know, lol. Yes, there absolutely is a such thing as a female incel

>>33784431 (OP)
>I've never seen girls talking about wanting a boyfriend.
Hate disingenuous fucks like you, OP.
Truly the definition of unlikeable.
M, btw.

>>33784431 (OP)
girls desperately want a boyfriend (chad only)

>>33796818
way to ignore the fucking point. males say that they ONLY care about food and sex and act shocked that some of us believe them

>>33797714
quit cappin. males literally gangrape lizards