Thread 33847501

I'm basically 40 years old and I have somehow managed to convince this freshly 18 year old girl to date me.

She turned 18 back in January

How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile when they see me with her?

She graduates high school next year.

>>33847501 (OP)
OP i'm 38 and extremely fucking jealous of you right now

>>33847501 (OP)
>I have somehow managed to convince this freshly 18 year old girl to date me
Go over every event that lead up to this from your initial encounter with her to how your relationship started in excruciating detail or LARP and I won't waste my time giving advice (your reddit spacing isn't a good start btw)

>>33847501 (OP)
Nobody wants to be around an annoying teenaged girl they don't get to fuck. Your problem won't be folks calling you a pedo, it'll be her having daddy issues and then cheating on you.

>>33847501 (OP)
I am very jealous. But while you are at it , drench her pussy in cum .

Remember those are jealous and bitter. Those people are only resentful over you because of envy.

>>33847501 (OP)
well played anon
you're supposed to not give a fuck. easier said than done, but that's the theory

limit interactions with your acquaintances that could judge you (typically, low-value men and older women, mostly out of jealousy disguised as morals) until the relationship has been stable for a while. when it's apparent you're both serious and committed, more people will be willing to accept.

t. 47yo man dating a 26yo woman

>>33848532
So if you met a girl and found out she dated a 40-year-old at 18, you wouldn’t think her disgusting?

>>33848565
If you met a girl and found out she dated an 18 year old when she was 18, you wouldn't think she was disgusting?

>>33847501 (OP)
damn I wanna marry a bih with this pheno

>>33848581
Are you unironically implying that it’s equivalent?

>>33847564
>Nobody wants to be around an annoying teenaged girl they don't get to fuck
How do you know she's annoying and doesn't fuck him already?
>cheating
Projection

>>33847501 (OP)
Oh goody, another shitty thread by an anon who was too bored on his lunch break and decided to bait other anons with some ragebait content. Is this the same faggot from a couple of weeks ago "asking" about wifing up some self-harming supposed 10/10 chick that he was FWBs with?

>>33847501 (OP)
>How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile when they see me with her?
Simply do nothing.
People will invent excuses to be mad and they'll keep doing that regardless of your response. Simply do not engage.

Then again this is probably a bait thread.

>>33848598
Hmm?

>>33847501 (OP)
? why do you care?
just let them call you whatever they want
it comes with the territory, I've been dating girls that age for decades now lol
it's just inevitable, just let it happen
does it affect you?
not really
in fact the more people opposes the more attached she'll feel to you.

>>33847501 (OP)
18 is fine, but the fact she's still in high school for another year feels weird. Where are her parents?

>>33851005
You really think an 18yr old is gonna her parents she's fucking a 40yr guy? Her friends maybe.

>>33847501 (OP)
Good for you. I'm trying to score some young ass myself at 35. Tinder seems to be my only option though cause I work alot

>>33847501 (OP)
>How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile when they see me with her?
Ignore the women and try to keep the high-fiving with the guys to a minimum.

>>33848581
>actually a same age couple
That's wholesome

>>33847501 (OP)
>How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile when they see me with her?
You're not a pedophile, you're just a loser. Plenty of people are losers, don't worry. You'll survive, maybe.

>>33848565
If I met a girl and found out she dated someone 20 years older, I would shut my mouth because I'm not a seether.

>>33851250
Yes, you’ll take what you can get because you’re desperate

>>33851624
Well look at Chad over here. Bitch must have a harem of freshly 18 year old white girls at his disposal.

>>33851180
You have to go back, also big chungus was never funny.

>>33847501 (OP)
How did you pull it off?

>>33852341
He did it by being based.

>>33847501 (OP)
you aren't a pedo. 18 is an adult. 18 is fully grown for a women. the muh brain 25 age is a pop science myth

>>33853574
how exactly. we want step by step

>>33854816
muh brainz!

>>33854819
he based nigga

>>33854816
Forget about brain development. How about letting her pass her AP U.S. History exam before you deflower her? Jesus Christ. She’s still in high school. You have nothing in common with her. Your sperm is lower quality due to age. And the eventual meeting with her parents is going to be awkward as hell.

And when exactly DOES the brain finish developing? Earlier than 25? Wow, so convenient for you, the guy trying to fuck a teenybopper who’s still in high school. It gives a lot of people the yuck for legitimate reasons.

40 years old is practically a fossil. And 40 year olds who hang out with teenagers for any reason are LOSERS. What, are you going to go with her and her friends to an NSYNC concert? Fucking creepy faggot.

>>33854881
>40 years old is practically a fossil. And 40 year olds who hang out with teenagers for any reason are LOSERS. What, are you going to go with her and her friends to an NSYNC concert?
lmao roasties are so funny when they try to cope

>>33854881
>NSYNC concert
40 year old bitter he can't fuck sweet 18 year old pussy confirmed

>>33854900
>"lmao roasties are so funny when they try to cope" says the middle aged balding loser who hangs out on roblox and buys beer for high school girls because a meme on /r9k/ told him trying to fuck children is totally based.

>>33854881
>NSYNC concert
Dude, what year is this? What?! LMAO omg you're old.

>>33847501 (OP)
OP I'm 19 and extremely fucking jealous of you. Is she a virgin? Most girls I've met my age were deflowered before they were 16. It's rough out here and I know you'd expect me to be angry, but if I was in your position I'd probably do the same thing.

>>33855292
nta but good for you bro

As an 18 yo f yall are fucking gross borderline paedophiles lol, date your own age. All of you are so fixated on youth

>>33855568
I actually believe you are 18 because only someone extremely retarded would take the tiktok-tier ragebait incel LARPs from this board as fact.

>>33855568
This is the only LARP in this thread. Tits or fuck all the way off.
>>33855576

>>33855591
kek

>>33847501 (OP)
This is pedophilia you are grooming her shes still a child wtf is wrong with you have someone your age

>>33847606
"Yes Im incel how did you know"

>>33854816
OP is a pedo. 18 years old she just reached her adulthood and OP is using her naivity, hes a old guy not some teenager

>>33857981
>>33857990
lol lame low quality bait posts

>>33855568
THIS. I hate how people defend OP. 18 is 'adult' but that doesnt mean that some old fossil can fuck her

>>33857991
Im not. I think its disgusting for a old man to date a 18 years old

>>33857998
>>33858003
cope and seethe roasties lol

she's good for a solid 7 years, pic related

>>33858047
Aww that's cute

kek

>>33857998
can't wait til I'm like 70 and keep fucking young women so I can see the likes of you seethe

>>33862964
lol same

>>33859453
It's adowababble!!!

>>33857998
>18 is 'adult' but that doesnt mean that some old fossil can fuck her
It absolutely means that. That fossil is fucking an 18 year old fresh pussy, barely legal. You are seething on 4chan, lol.

I am virgin, by choice, and there's nothing wrong with 2 consenting adults of opposite sex dating.

>>33865060
>I am virgin, by choice
Why? Why the fuck why?

>>33865206
Can't fail if you don't try.

>>33865060
legal=/=moral

>>33865285
oh my god

i'm being genuine when i say this: kill yourself

>>33865292
you're completely right
I'm glad the age of consent is 16 in my country but even if it wasn't girls that age are ready and very willing, never had to lie, cheat, coerce or use any trick to get a girl that age interested in me.

>>33866073
>I'm glad the age of consent is 16 in my country but even if it wasn't girls that age are ready and very willing, never had to lie, cheat, coerce or use any trick to get a girl that age interested in me.
We're all very happy for you. Go sleep on some train tracks.

>date someone less than half your age
>gets called pedo

what the fuck did you think was gonna happen???

>>33866080
>I don't agree with you so you should die
this is why chuds never get the power they want, the rest of us know you'll go power drunk the moment you get a tiny piece of it.

>>33866158
>I don't agree with you so you should die
What a stupid way to phrase with. Plenty of people I disagree with should die. You also believe the same thing. I disagree with pedophiles. They should die. I disagree with murderers and thieves. They should also die. If you're going to be a loser who prays on high school girls just own it, anon. Live by the sword die by the sword. The hysterical pearl clutching just makes you look like a loser AND a pussy.

>>33866280
a 16 yo is not a child tho
it was never a child and it was very normal to marry one
the fact that out of nowhere nowadays it's morally reprehensible doesn't mean for most of our history it hasn't been normal.
they are sexually mature.
we're not talking about 12yo children
you're letting modern ideas of what is wrong and right get in the way of nature.

>>33866280
it's also morally wrong to desire dead on people nowadays, the correct moral stance in a modern setting would be to desire for rehabilitation or some kind of incarceration
and yet here you are.
picking what is morally right and wrong according to what makes you mad and what doesn't.

>>33866299
>a 16 yo is not a child tho
Where did I put the word child in my post? You can't even read right.

>the fact that out of nowhere nowadays it's morally reprehensible doesn't mean for most of our history it hasn't been normal.
dogshit argument. owning slaves and torturing people for being witches used to be normal in history. appealing to history isn't an argument. its a logical fallacy, actually.

>you're letting modern ideas of what is wrong and right get in the way of nature.
You sound like a pedo the more you talk. Classic NAMBLA argumentation.

>>33866319
>it's also morally wrong to desire dead on people nowadays
Hard disagree. There are certain actions people can make of their own free will which reduces the value of their lives to nothing. Every single country with a death penalty, self-defense laws or a military believes the exact same thing.

>picking what is morally right and wrong according to what makes you mad and what doesn't
I can give you a perfectly logically consistent moral argument for why I make ethical decisions. Your strawmanning doesn't equal having an argument.

>>33866329
calling someone a pedophile implies attraction to children
you're not that bright as a debater as you think you are.

>>33866329
says the one who chooses what standards of morality of modernity he's ok adhering to.

>>33866349
>calling someone a pedophile implies attraction to children
Your reading comprehension is non-existent. I said you make pedo arguments i.e. "I should be able to have sex with minors because its natural and they did it in history". Its disgusting.

>>33866356
>says the one who chooses what standards of morality of modernity he's ok adhering to.
You literally just did the same thing. Everyone chooses their own moral standards, dipshit. That's what axioms are - circular moral argumentation that we arbitrarily choose. You also have failed to make any argument. "Well if something is natural then it must be morally correct " is not a logical argument. We call that, literally, the appeal to nature fallacy.

>>33847501 (OP)
nigga did you say she graduates high school next year??? Not only are you a pedophile, but you're a pedophile who likes retarded children. I need to know exactly why women your age won't go for you. also a detailed explanation of this relationship you got goin on.

>>33865060
Its grooming. 18 years old is still mentally a child. She just reached her adulthood she knows nothing about life, shes probably into older guys and telling her friends how lucky she is.

OP is a simple pedophile. 40 yo knows what he is doing

>>33866299
>16yo is not a child

>>33847501 (OP)
>I have somehow managed to convince this freshly 18 year old girl to date me.

Did she even wanted to date you or you simple groomed her

>>33866772
Literally not, statutorily yes.

>Another fake age gap false flag thread
You roasties are fucking relentless, it’s every night now

>>33866769
Is probably OP seething

There’s nothing wrong with two consenting adults fucking. These replies are mostly seething roasties too

>>33847501 (OP)
OP, you are a pedophile, put an end to yourself you fucking cretin

>>33866780
>Have sex with a legal adult
>Pedophile
You’re 33 get off 4chan roastoid

>>33866783
yea you are also a pedophile lmfao one day the authorities will come knock your door down and drag your sorry ass into a van for whatever you have stored on your hard drive maybe if you had any qualities or any sense of normalcy you could land in a relationship with a peer but you are a freak and can only groom and exploit, i hope you will die miserably while you are sat lonely in your bathtub masturbating to the thought of what a degenerate fucking weirdo you are
please turn yourself in along with your hard drives and seek therapy

>>33847501 (OP)
You deal with it by owning it. It's legal so you can tell anyone to fuck off. People love to shit on others for fun so don't think most say it out of hatred, and if they do, don't give a fuck.

Also, value a LOT what she sees in you. 40 is fucking tough, I thought I could pull one at 29 but I became 30, and it's mostly because I'm still a self conscious self deprecating autist. The chances of her leaving you or cucking you are high, so value the time you spend with her genuinely, and she may find something to stay for.

>>33847564
Girls that go for older men are most likely prudes with family/religion issues and high ambition, she may be a loyal but dominating woman. OP gotta marry her soon.

Holy shit, this thread is like a huge honeypot and hopefully we got the 3 letter agencies watching

>>33847501 (OP)
You deserve to be shamed anywhere you go, you absolutely disgusting abomination of a man.

>>33866787
This is the mind of a modern roastie everyone, and they wonder why they’re alone! HOLY CRIMINY! Get off 4chan Suzie you’re 33!

>>33866792
Yes the FBI and CIA want to know what men like legal of-age women to put them on a legal watchlist for research purposes

>>33866808
Roastie toastie or bait, call it

>>33866822
I'm sorry that some roastie called Suzie, 33 rejected and denied you over and over, OP
But you are a pedophile through and through

>>33866837
And I’m sorry you can’t get a man interested in you and have to femcel post on a false flag age gap thread. I’m a decade younger than OP and will continue fucking 18-25 year olds and there’s nothing you can do about it, in fact I’m gonna swipe some on tinder right now in your honor

>>33866855
im not a femcel but ty, im married and im the "tradwife" you faggots always roast and complain about i have an annual income of 400000 dollars a year so i think im far better well off than your pedophile self
just keep on being a disgusting human being you will pay for it in the next life pedophile

>>33866861
Ok I fell for the bait, the LARP was convincing OP good job the bit about 400,000k a year while being a tradwife was funny I’m still gonna fuck 18-25 year olds though

>>33866870
im a plastic surgeon lol

>>33866873
>tradwife plastic surgeon

>>33866873
Oh so a super roastoid. Shameful.

>>33866779
>There’s nothing wrong with two consenting adults fucking. These replies are mostly seething roasties too
Theres huge difference between 40 and 18. OP should see her as a kid that just turned legal not as a partner.

This is just grooming thats it. As I said, she knows nothing about life

>>33866791
He gonna marry her, make her kid and ruin her life. And then after 5 years OP gonna say "Im bored" so he gonna abuse and cheat on her

>>33866870
men are gross whats wrong with older women

>>33866917
She’s an adult in the eyes of the law, she can make an onlyfans or join the army. Infantilizing adult people is weirder than being attracted to them, you being old and alone and mad about it is just too bad.

When I go on Tinder, I set the age ranges from 18-25. This means these younger women know what they want, whether it be sexual, serious dating, a fling, etc… so if you think women swiping 30+ men are being groomed I have news for you, they seek out age gaps of their own volition.

You aren’t the spokesperson for what is and isn’t grooming, espeically on a 4chan board, just because you’re mad at older men getting legal women.

>>33866923
Less attractive
More baggage
Less chance of fertile, healthy womb
Usually if they’re activelt seeking older men the relationship will be better.

I’d gladly fuck an older woman but I’m not marrying a 37 year old with a kid sorry

>>33866934
>Usually if they’re actively seeking older men the relationship will be better.
This was meant for younger women, whoops.

Older women that are single are usually single for a reason and should be avoided (spinsters). No man should chain himself to this when young women are more than willing to be with him.

>>33866946
It is hilarious the the counter-narrative brainwashing. “He’s only with younger girls bc he can’t get anyone his own age” bullshit. Yeah, bc a guy who can bag younger girls cant get older girls lol…

>>33866949
I don’t blame women, especially the ones in this thread seething with poison. It has to be rough.

>>33866952
Exactly, i don’t blame them either. Understanding them is the avenue to to them wanting you. I have had more older ones wanting me to be “daddy” than even the younger ones.

>>33866934
>less chance of fertility healthy womb

Shut up. You all dont care about children at all, you only want to ruin young women's life and imprison them>>33866934

>>33866946
Because they are naive

>>33867023
Yes every single young person on the planet is naive, whatever helps you cope

>>33867020
Pure cope


Look at the sad delusions here. The younger women you infantalize would laugh in your face.

>>33867020
>oh look, if i deny reality and make a pic about it, that will make it reality
Cool

>>33867036
>every single young person on the planet is naive
I will have to adjust the wisdom i’ve learned because of those in this thread that are stunted by ideology. What I learned is that “everybody is 16 in an older body”. That would trigger them, so i’ll have to say that “everyone is 18 in an older body”. Everyone is naiive. Everyone remains 18 in their minds, no matter how old their body gets. When you’re 70, you’ll still feel 18 in your mind…

We’re all just 18, all of us…it’s just that our bodies get older.

>>33847501 (OP)
>How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile
You don't deal with people like that because they are retarded and objectively wrong. They are motivated by envy and sexual frustration.

>>33867121
>>33867121
we've told him that on the first 10 replies probably, by now it's just people seething about people dating in the confines of the law.
>>33866837
this is one of the most retarded replies I constantly read on threads like these
if I can bag an 18yo girl of course I can bag whatever 33yo woman I want, to get a teen you have to be interesting but also attractive, to get a 33yo woman you only have to be attractive and not a manchild
yes they have a list of no nos in their minds because they've been played and tricked before but unless you're filth (we're on 4chan so probably a lot actually are) they can give you the benefit of the doubt and ignore a red flag here or there.
When I go to birthday parties and other events with people my age there is always at least a couple 30+ yo women interested in me and talking to me and asking for a way to contact me later (they don't ask for a phone number because somehow they think it's more daring that asking for my instagram handle, lol), to get an 18yo girl's number I have to do the work myself, they don't throw themselves at me.

>>33867141
> to get a 33yo woman you only have to be attractive and not a manchild
you only have to be midly interesting and not a manchild*

>>33865206
>Why? Why the fuck why?
I am Christian. My two options are to marry a virgin woman or to give up marrying. Women start losing their virginity at 14 in today's day and age. When I was 14 some even got pregnant. I know fully well that trying to find a virgin women that is attractive to me and that is attracted to me is impossible at this point. So I decided to give up on any sort of romantic relationship.

>>33865292
>legal=/=moral
I bet you don't even believe in objective morality/ethics.

>>33866769
>Its grooming. 18 years old is still mentally a child
No, it's not. 18 is adult

>>33867153
>18 is adult
the fuck it is
25 is adult

Damn, that's kinda fucked up. I felt bad for fucking around with a 20yo and the age gap was 11 years. I still talked to her cause she seemed pretty into it and because my dick was pretty into her. I told her I felt I was too old and she said it was just right, instantly fucking diamonds. We fucked around regularly for three months before I moved.

I don't know if I could date a chick coming still in high school though, that's kind of crazy. You gonna take her to prom this year, bro?
I wouldn't think you're a pedo, if I saw you together, just a trick.

>>33868131
>You gonna take her to prom this year, bro?
A new fetish has been unlocked. That is fucking hot. Holy shit, yeah!!!

>>33848552
Any more advice fren?

>>33867141
Teenagers are far easier than older women. Teens only care about superficial immediate gratification and they have nothing. Older women need to evaluate a person fully

>>33868276
you clearly haven't tried dating lately
the older they get the more desperate they get.
of course you need to be working and behave like an adult, clean your clothes and not live in a pigsty but I consider that like basic stuff
yes teenagers will forgive you living like a pig if you're good looking but not the quality ones.

>>33868638
Well, I'm homeless so I guess I'm fucked.

>>33868748
you have bigger problems to tackle than dating and thinking about the age of the person you might date.

>>33868264
Fren? My fren? You fren? He fren.

>>33872327
We all fren

>>33872329
We fren? You fren. He fren. Fren fren fren.

>>33873106
Everyone fren

If you think being attracted to a legal adult is pedophelia it is most likely projection btw.

Most people against age gaps are either older women who have been taken off the dating market by young women, or zoomer men who have been taken off the market by older men.

This seething and moral proselytizing is just crabs in a bucket mentality by people who are being edged out of the dating market.

>>33873150
This. Society is just filled with ppl who can actually yap about this shit. At one point it was a trope in most Hollywood comedies that a male actor had some involvement with a younger woman. Ive never heard a proper argument as to why an older man fucking a younger woman is bad. Unless it's a power role or cheating what's the difference between me fucking an 18yr old at 35 and me fucking a 35 yr old at the same age? When I was 18 I fully knew what sex was, hell I prayed that a few of my older female teachers would try to prey on me just for the thrill. I never had an thoughts of deeper shit because in most cases sex is just sex, it never occurred to me that it would fuck me up because I knew it wouldn't. Now spin that back to women who fully know how to attact a guy especially in high school and you don't think a few of these girls don't know the game? For fuck sake I lost my virginity at 19 and I was far from a dumb kid

>>33868088
I really hope this is satire

>>33873443
>Ive never heard a proper argument as to why an older man fucking a younger woman is bad
It isn't bad in an of itself, its an environment in which negative things can develop. It really depends on the dynamic, the context of their relationship and the mind state of the younger person. Personally, a man in his 40's dating a teenager is gross to me. I'm a man in my late 30's. I find it gross, firstly, because a teenager is a child to me. Treating them as though they are my peers feels weird because they clearly aren't. A teenager and I have nothing to talk about together. Our life experiences and relative maturity are so far apart the idea having sex with one feels extremely predatory. Secondly, I just don't think anything beats a grown woman - an actualized human being with a career, some life experience under her belt and the ability to assert herself. The childlike air of teenagers isn't sexually attractive to me in the slightest. Having a romantic partner that I have to essentially father through the early development of their lives while they make mistakes and learn lessons I did 20 years ago is a nauseating boner killer. Lastly, I've never met a man in his 40's who trolls for teenage girls that wasn't visibly, undeniably a fucking creep. Thinning hair, vain, pathetic attempts at dressing and acting young, hanging out in places where he's the oldest person there by decades, using very pathetic and cringe pick up techniques that only work on people so young they don't know how sad it is. The whole thing just gives me the willies. Do I think these guys should be drawn and quartered? No. I just think they're losers. The world is full of losers so its just one of those things I guess.

>>33873482
I'm 39. An 18 year old is absolutely not an adult, not in the functional sense.

>>33873645
yeah i agree. im 19 and at uni now and guys who are 17 and in highschool just seem out of the conversation because theyre in totally different mental space and i wouldnt want to date them. and i cant imagine a mental gap that is 40 year old man and a highschooler. just doesnt seem productive in any way and potentially harmful for the girl since shes so much younger and has no experience and might be getting herself into something that wont be good for her. like im 1 year older than the girl op is talking about and i would have no business dating a man his age cause like bro i have a dad already

>>33873651
Oh but they should vote.

>>33873680
college people see high school people as cringe or not relatable because they are desperate to get rid of that kid image, not the same once you're older and get over that cringe part of your life
see how people on the last year of college get along just fine with freshmen, and it's the same age difference and vastly different scenarios, one is just starting college and focusing on studying and stuff and the other is trying to find a job and minimize their debt or some other things.
I honestly get along better with young people because they are not traumatized by debt and money, they just enjoy it. I have money so I never went throught that phase either, I never worried about money or had to struggle to get it or get rid of debt, and my parents are well connected so getting a good job wasn't a problem either
it was a carefree life and I get along better with people who still have this carefree life
people my age with my same profile are ashamed of this or like to pretend they worked for the wealth they have so they disguise as hard workers and go to other places, they are pretenders and kinda lame in my eyes, a couple have realized and went back to normal but most are trying to build an image to go into politics or something even, they even pretend we were never the same.

>>33873728
i dont know about that. i feel like i feel more childish every year and do more cringe and stupid stuff without really caring and other than studying i dont have much to think of (i dont need to have a job nor i have debt). i go out with the final year high schoolers from my hometown alright because i have some funny friends from there but i wouldnt want to date them.

>>33873645
This was so obviously written by a woman it’s hilarious.

Does that really happens in the us of a? Idk just tell them to mind their own business. There's a plethora of reasons you could both be attracted to each other. None of them is relevant to others as you're both above the age of consent.

>>33873680
>I’m 19 at uni now

Only proving the point that zoomers and roasties care about age gaps. I don’t care what you think, I’m gonna fuck the women you like and steal them from you as long as they keep swiping me on tinder/hinge/whatever. I have been told flat out by 19 year olds “I don’t care about age, it’s hot”. I’ll listen to them over you.

Also it’s funny that you assume people are balding and not stylish at 30? I’d mog you irl.

OP do not listen to this faggot

>>33873645
You're assuming that some guys want to date or actually can't keep themselves in shape if they want to fuck teens. For me personally I'm not a virgin, I've had plenty of sex and I moderately work out. I dont hang out at children's places and overall I'm a pretty regular dude. I can just admit on an honest level that there are 18-19 yr old girls I would fuck. I'm not on some mustache twirling hehe grooming shit, if a teen wanted to give it up I'd probably go for it and I wouldn't pursue them like a creep. I can fuck once and be fully content. Sorry I know it may be weird but blame the almighty for making women the most attractive in their younger post puberty years. I can't help if my monkey brain sees big tits and a slim waist in a yoga outfit and wants it and unfortunately teen girls flaunt that shit. The amount of high school girls I see with full tits, midriff and ass out, wearing the tightest thing they can is too damn high

>>33874109
Yep. I've seen so many tinders where some 18yr old straight up says she likes older men. It's literally just sour grapes from older women and failure to launch men.

>>33874244
>You're assuming that some guys want to date or actually can't keep themselves in shape if they want to fuck teens
No I'm not. I just listed the reasons I personally find it gross. A guy keeping himself in shape so he is attractive to teenagers has no bearing on anything I said. Its the act that I find repulsive, not the relative attractiveness of the man doing it.

>I can just admit on an honest level that there are 18-19 yr old girls I would fuck. I'm not on some mustache twirling hehe grooming shit, if a teen wanted to give it up I'd probably go for it and I wouldn't pursue them like a creep.
I might be able to agree in a vacuum - like if the world could bring two people together instantly a room with no context, environment or preamble. In actual real life I find the concept of meeting, talking to, and arranging a date with a person I view as a child disgusting. I'd never do it nor would I hang out with anybody who did.

>I can't help if my monkey brain sees big tits and a slim waist in a yoga outfit and wants it and unfortunately teen girls flaunt that shit.
Wanting something in your mind and actively doing that thing in real life are two vastly different things. I never said anything about policing people's thoughts. I'm just talking about action.

>The amount of high school girls I see with full tits, midriff and ass out, wearing the tightest thing they can is too damn high
Sure. I can agree. That being said I'd never have sex with a high school girl. That's foul. Thinking and acting aren't the same.

>>33873913
I'm a 39 year old man. Do you have any reasoning why anything I've said is wrong or is "y-you're a woman!" the best you have?

>>33873725
>Oh but they should vote.
When did I say that?

>>33874325
>and 18 year old is absolutely not an adult in the functional sense
So are you saying that an 18 year old shouldn’t be able to vote, or live on their own, or make their own medical decisions, or be able to choose to have sex, etc etc?

>>33874317
You simply sound like a fag, also you’re 39 and probably currently alone or a permavirgin, no one will benefit from your advice. Get off 4chan and find a therapist so you stop seeing grown adult women as “children”.

If a 19 year old is swiping for 30 year old men on Tinder, guess what, it’s two adults seeking a connection under established parameters. Your moral faggotry is moot, considering nothing being done is immoral or wrong ethically or biologically.

>>33874317
You’re a 40 year old on 4chan, that’s wild man

>>33874418
>40 year old virgin**
Mistyped

>>33874408
It’s the same type that would call an 18 year old literally whoring herself with older men as “empowerment”, but if they actually care about her and want to make her his wife and take care of her, that’s a power imbalance and taking advantage of her.

>>33874400
>So are you saying that an 18 year old shouldn’t be able to vote, or live on their own, or make their own medical decisions, or be able to choose to have sex, etc etc?
I have no clue where you're getting any of this.

>>33874408
>You simply sound like a fag, also you’re 39 and probably currently alone or a permavirgin, no one will benefit from your advice. Get off 4chan and find a therapist so you stop seeing grown adult women as “children”.
Whatever you say, big dog. Make up whatever assumptions about me and call me whatever names you want. The more you type the more its clear your opinion is based on emotion, not any kind of critical reasoning.

>If a 19 year old is swiping for 30 year old men on Tinder, guess what, it’s two adults seeking a connection under established parameters. Your moral faggotry is moot, considering nothing being done is immoral or wrong ethically or biologically.
Your reading comprehension leaves a lot to be desired. I clearly stated that age gaps aren't inherently wrong, its simply an environment in which wrong things can develop, like any relationship really. Its like you didn't even bother reading what I actually said before becoming hysterical.

>>33874418
>You’re a 40 year old on 4chan, that’s wild man
Its true. I get bored at work sometimes. My age is showing.

>>33874458
>It’s the same type that would call an 18 year old literally whoring herself with older men as “empowerment”
Arguments are really easy when you just make up other people's opinions for them.

>>33874725
Woke people do say that stuff so the guy who made the argument is 100% correct. I had a guy tell me that our age gap of 12 years is basically pedophilia if one would put it at earlier ages even if I didnt knew her back then. We met when she was mid 20s. Then he realized she is a migrant and he started to cry because he didnt want to be culturally insensitive.

The entire West is just an open air freakshow with you people and it is getting worse every year

>>33874783
Also I want to add that I envy OP for making that many people seethe.

>>33874783
> Then he realized she is a migrant and he started to cry because he didnt want to be culturally insensitive.
This shit is fucking hilarious. The progressive stack of outrage.

>>33874783
>Woke people do say that stuff so the guy who made the argument is 100% correct
So, in other words, its just a strawman. He's arguing with some stereotype of "woke people" he heard online, not me or the things I've actually said.

>The entire West is just an open air freakshow with you people and it is getting worse every year
All those words and not a single argument. You can't give a single reason why anything I've said is wrong or why you disagree with. The best you have is "Well some other people who aren't you said things I disagree with".

>>33874785
"Everyone who disagrees with me is just haters and disagreeing with me = seething" is the mentality of a small, petulant child.

>>33874783
>hen he realized she is a migrant and he started to cry because he didnt want to be culturally insensitive.
And then everyone clapped

>>33874845
Ok, so, is an 18 year old female an adult? Should she be able to vote? Yes or no?

>>33874841
They are cringe.

>>33874845
Keep coping, the argument is in your mirror. Woke people are trash through and through.

>>33874849
This is also cope, I have far worse stuff happening or witnessed than this. You people if one can even call you that anymore are a joke. I know a guy who is collecting money for the amputation of one of his limbs because he feels it is not part of his body. He also is transgender and married to another man from the Philippines who dresses up as a human cat. The other day I opened the door to feed the cat (my real cat) then this guy walks across the street in full outfit. That is your crowd.

>>33874870
Sounds a lot like Berlin or Los Angeles

>>33874722
>Your reading comprehension leaves a lot to be desired. I clearly stated that age gaps aren't inherently wrong, its simply an environment in which wrong things can develop, like any relationship really

But a few posts before this:
>In actual real life I find the concept of meeting, talking to, and arranging a date with a person I view as a child disgusting. I'd never do it nor would I hang out with anybody who did.

Please stop now you massive fucking gay faggot, you’re 40 and spewing walls of tex about women you’d never be able to fuck anyway and calling them children like a projecting pedophile. Get off 4chan and seek therapy.

>>33874875
Amsterdam. If I weren't a parent I would hope for us to be nuked, hands down.

>>33874880
>But a few posts before this:
Again, reading comprehension. These two things don't contradict each other. I PERSONALLY find the concept of meeting, talking to and arranging a date with a person I view as a child disgusting. It isn't my fault if you don't understand the difference between personal versus prescriptive. I think people should be allowed to skydive. I PERSONALLY would never do it. I also think you missed the "inherent" part of "inherently wrong". Devoid of context a man in his 40's being with a teenager isn't wrong. Its the context that adds the wrongness. I've explained this a half dozen times and I don't know how to spell it out any simpler. This is such a simple concept I don't understand how you're struggling so much.


>Please stop now you massive fucking gay faggot, you’re 40 and spewing walls of tex about women you’d never be able to fuck anyway and calling them children like a projecting pedophile. Get off 4chan and seek therapy.
Still no argument, just name calling. Does it not feel weird to be so strongly emotional about an opinion that you can't articulate or defend in any way?

>>33874870
>No argument
I accept your concession

>>33874885
Brilliant. It is amazing how easy it is to know who the ideologies and people in this thread are. Cheers. Bless you and your children, brother.

>>33874870
>I know a guy who is collecting money for the amputation of one of his limbs because he feels it is not part of his body. He also is transgender and married to another man from the Philippines who dresses up as a human cat. The other day I opened the door to feed the cat (my real cat) then this guy walks across the street in full outfit. That is your crowd.
Its very intriguing how incapable you are of engaging with information in front of you. The only way you know how to communicate is through a series of internally created caricatures that don't have any relation to anything I've said. Its like you've painted a shadow on the wall and are now arguing with it as though its a real person.

>>33874897
>Its the context that adds the wrongness.
Anything is influenced by it’s context, retard, but your “opinion” is a blanket statement meant to discourage OP. Sour grapes from a 40 year old weirdo telling other men not to do something. It’s gay and strange and you again should get off 4chan and stop calling adult women children like a pedophile.

>>33874927
>Anything is influenced by it’s context, retard
No shit.

>but your “opinion” is a blanket statement meant to discourage OP
If he feels discouraged that's up to him. I gave my personal life philosophy and how I make decisions. If that angers you that's on you.

>Sour grapes from a 40 year old weirdo telling other men not to do something
You are actually allergic to giving any sort of argument as to why anything I've said is wrong. I also said in my first post I don't think this is a giant moral wrong, its just something I find personally gross and sad. You've built such a giant strawman out of such a benign opinion. I have no clue why this has stirred up so much emotions for you.

>It’s gay and strange and you again should get off 4chan and stop calling adult women children like a pedophile.
Anybody who thinks an 18 year old is a grown adult you're either under 30 or emotionally a teenager yourself. This is such a normal, common opinion its weird why you'd fight so hard.

>>33874968
>Anybody who thinks an 18 year old is a grown adult you're either under 30 or emotionally a teenager yourself
And yet you think they should vote. You think they should have the power to determine the futures of 100s of millions of people…and yet you call them “children”.

>>33874976
>And yet you think they should vote. You think they should have the power to determine the futures of 100s of millions of people…and yet you call them “children”.
My brother in christ, I have literally never said this. You are either hallucinating or you can't comprehend basic conversational english.

>>33874983
Then declare it now. NO ONE should be able to vote ever until your age of adulthood. And declare it now..that NO ONE should ever be in the military until they are at that older age.

(I can’t wait until the army of old men is obliterated by the 18 year olds.)

>>33874968

>No shit.
The context could be that two people find and genuinely love eachother. Maybe the 18 year old is more mature than the 30 year old. You’re mad at that? You think that’s weird? You’re probably alone and would feel this way regardless.

>If he feels discouraged that's up to him. I gave my personal life philosophy and how I make decisions. If that angers you that's on you.

Your personal life philosophy does not gel with 90% of people on the planet. Imagine telling a woman “hey you’re too young you shouldn’t date this 30 year old”, you’d be laughed at by her and the guy dating her.

>You are actually allergic to giving any sort of argument as to why anything I've said is wrong. I also said in my first post I don't think this is a giant moral wrong, its just something I find personally gross and sad. You've built such a giant strawman out of such a benign opinion. I have no clue why this has stirred up so much emotions for you.

You’re wrong because you’re wrong. Ethically, morally, and mentally. Two adults being together has nothing to do with you, you aren’t the Lorax, stop speaking for the trees (women)

>Anybody who thinks an 18 year old is a grown adult you're either under 30 or emotionally a teenager yourself. This is such a normal, common opinion its weird why you'd fight so hard.

OnlyFans, Porn, and the military signify they’re adults. No, them being children isn’t a widely held belief, it’s new age extreme moralism from people who can’t partake in it. Infantilizing adults with broad strokes when there are 18 year olds more mature than both of us is a mark of someone deeply troubled inside.

>>33875005
It's revealing that people only complain when the man is older, but when the woman is older, suddenly the boy is just an incredibly lucky Chad. It's just the human inclination to view women as prey.

>>33875017
It’s not, this is a thing that’s developed in the past 10 years. No one cared about age gaps ever in human history until woke shit started, many of your grandparents have 10+ year gaps and they loved eachother their whole lives and had families and happiness. Weak men like this 40 year old freak spamming walls of text are in the minority.

>>33875017
Exactly. I knew a sophomore who was banging our art teacher. Bitch had kids and husband. Did he trip? Nope, he only told after graduation and only to his fellow class who were also graduated. Ppl are attracted to youth, some take it way too far but most ppl deep down can admit to wanting to fuck a person whose just of age if they were hot or attractive enough. I absolutely refuse to believe that any millennial male whose straight can see a hot 18yr old and not have a twinge of wanting to mate press her. Teens are hot, its ok to admit to that, there are women that I know who I would absolutely drill if they were still late teens

>>33847501 (OP)
>How do I deal with people calling me a pedophile when they see me with her?
You ignore them? Almost all of that is driven by pure jealousy. Maybe you should stop having people around you who are judgemental fucks. Remember, they think she's old enough to open an onlyfans and spread her hole for men twice YOUR age, they think minors can be transgender, they could care less about Islamic grooming gangs and child marriage, so why should YOU care about what they think about you dating someone who's legally an adult?

>>33875051
>personally know women who were sucking dick and wanting to fuck at 15yrs old
>Yeah it's the men's fault

I swear I miss being younger when shit made more sense cause I understood less

>>33854881
>Your sperm is lower quality due to age.
Women projecting their increased chances of autistic children past age of 35 is crazy.

Men produce normal healthy sperm up to age 65+.

Stop coping.

>>33875579
Anon is right, due to age men sperm become less efective

>>33875713
No shit, but a woman's reproduction degrades way faster. A woman is damn near completely done at 40. A man can produce children well into his late 50's to mid 60s if he maintains himself.

>>33875713
>>33875793
you're talking about different issues
older man having a child -> potential problems for the child
older woman having a child -> potential problems for herself

>>33851192
The dude is clearly not a loser. Wtf

>>33875844
>older man having a child -> potential problems for the child
>older woman having a child -> potential problems for herself
huh? Older women having a child poses problems both for herself and the child
also literally the best counter to the stupidity that "men's sperm is worse as they get older" is to look up the amount of professional athletes who were born to men in their late 30s or 40s. Its actually insane how common it is

>>33848565
Why would I learn this information? Also no women love older men, this makes sense, especially with how arrested developed people are lately.

>>33851250
You may not be a seether but you are a subhuman simp

>>33876342
Oh look it's I won't read guy incognito.

kek

>>33857990
>>33858003
>>33858047
if not bait then you are genuinely retarded

>>33855568
>>33857981
>>33857998
>>33865292
>>33868088
these are bots or NPCs

>>33875713
>>33875844
older men will have harder time getting a girl pregnant but when they do the child will be healthy. not the same for women over 30

>>33866440
but they aren't minors in his country. Do you have an IQ of 80?

>>33880743
>Do you have an IQ of 80?
Ironic you accuse someone of having a low IQ but you don't know the difference between the age of consent and the adult age. 2 different numbers, dipshit. Just because a 15 year old can legally consent to sex doesn't mean they're not a minor. Back to the retard pits with you.

>>33866917
>>33866769
age gap doesn't mean grooming. there is concentrated effort by who know who to muddy the word grooming after they were accused of Discord grooming campaigns

>>33880757
>there is concentrated effort by who know who to muddy the word grooming after they were accused of Discord grooming campaigns
Wasn't it right-wingers who used the word "grooming" as an insult to describe literally everything until the word lost all meaning?

>>33880756
not every country is your own country imbecile

>>33880771
it's both sides. the right accused trans of grooming when they discovered discord servers of them grooming underage children to become trans. this is documented. in response the left mixed grooming into adult age gap discourse. now anyone can be accused of grooming and being a groomer so no one cares anymore. this was a distraction from the discord grooming. if you date a 26 year old and you're 30 she can call you a groomer and no one will question the use of the word.

>>33880782
>Still doesn't know the difference between age of consent and age of majority
Cope, moron

>>33880794
>it's both sides
No, it was 100% right-wingers. "Ok groomer" was literally their catch phrase for like 3 years. It was "Nazi" that the left over-used into the dirt.

>>33880813
it's mostly the left who seethes at age gaps between adults. groomer is over used by them when someone dates a younger adult. that is muddying the waters even more than right wingers

>>33847501 (OP)
If a 18 year old is willing to date a 40 year old, they have a very high chance of being mentally ill.
You get whatever is coming. You signed up for it.

NEARLY TWO HUNDRED FUCKING REPLIES
OP HASN'T RESPONDED ONCE, NOT ONCE. THIS POST WAS BAIT AND GOT TO TWO HUNDRED FUCKING REPLIES AND HAS STAYED ON THE BOARD FOR A WEEK.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ALL YOU PEOPLE? YOU'D ALL FUCKING BE BETTER OFF AS FERTILIZER

>>33881525
lol calm down dude it's just a thread

>>33881525
OP is literally a bot paid for by Russia. there are hundreds of bot posts here shaming age gaps too. this is part of an agenda

>>33880827
>it's mostly the left who seethes at age gaps between adults
Where? Also, defending middle aged people picking up teenagers is a really suspicious hill to die on. Just saying.

>groomer is over used by them when someone dates a younger adult.
That's just not true. This has never been a significant part of the political platform. Calling anybody who is gay a groomer actually is. Conservatives are the ones who tried legally banning first amendment protected drag performances on spurious accusations of grooming.

>that is muddying the waters even more than right wingers
Incorrect. Calling anybody who politically disagrees with you that has any proximity to children a "groomer" muddies the waters beyond recognition. That's the right-wing.

>>33880757
This is grooming. Brain of 18 yo's isnt developed yet plus we arent only talking about the age gap, maturity is important too. 13yo and 17yo cant date even though its only 4 years, the maturity lvl is different so is between 18 and 40. As OP said She graduates high school next. OP is a adult with fully developed brain, he know what he is doing, he probably had his first time, wife (not sure), have job. Meanwhile a 18 just became a adult this year and know nothing about life unlike OP, she doesnt know what she is doing. She though she found a love of her life but its another creep that goes after freshly 18 yo girls and will probably broke her heart (not talking about getting her pregnant because this is fucked up)

>>33881597
>OP is literally a bot paid for by Russia

>>33881645
you sound like a complete NPC who can't think for themselves and just repeats talking points you heard of reddit or x.

>>33881645
>This is grooming. Brain of 18 yo's isnt developed yet
the 25 being full brain development is a myth and has been debunked. Grooming is when you manipulate someone underage into sexual abuse. Dating an 18 year old isn't. An age gap doesn't automatically mean it is grooming, there has to be abuse.

>>33882564
>X
Twitter*

Let's not acknowledge Elon's retardedness.

>>33865051
:3

>>33882577
kys shut up ret*rd pu**y you evil motherfucking idiot people like you piss me the fuck off drop one source that claims the brain is fully develpoed before your mid tenties and i could easily debunk them as gibberish pseuodoscience at worst or misleading narrow statistics at best. OP is an evil motherfucker and will ruin this poor girls life

>>33884096
Im pretty sure that OP is baiting us, at least i hope so but it seems like a bait

>>33882577
When a 40yo looks at 18 like at partner then there is something wrong with him. 18yo is basically a kid that just got into adulthood. Sure, age gap doesnt mean grooming if the younger person isnt someone barely legal. Its simple pedophilia, OP should've seen teenager as a kids not partners. Just because shes legal doesnt mean its right, many teenagers are regreting their relationship with older men

all of this is cope anyway. the truth is that only a tiny minority of men above 35 are physically attractive to young women. even when men are in their prime years 20-30, only a fraction of them are sexually attractive. that little group becomes smaller the older you get

Is this post seriously still going. This shit was top of the page yesterday. You all are pathetic this is clearly bait

>>33884160
The fuck does one single person have to do with any of this? You're baiting yourselves. This thread lives on because of (You).

>>33884170
everything you said is cope roastie
men become more attractive as they age

>>33884195
Who are u

>>33884243
fuck no they don't. maybe in relation to their own age group because the fall off for women is steeper post 30, but no prime women is simping for a middle aged man unless that dude is extremely handsome and powerful/wealthy

>>33847501 (OP)
who cares if they call you a pedo? she's 18 and those people are retarded. I assume you're American where everyone calls anyone a pedo. Just brush it off, you get to bang 18 year old puss, who the fuck cares.

>>33884253
I am the creator of this thread

>>33884096
why did you censor pussy and retard. I know you're baiting now

>>33884165
>age gap doesnt mean grooming if the younger person isnt someone barely legal.
the definition of grooming isn't whatever you make it. being barely legal but still legal makes it by definition not grooming
>ts simple pedophilia
pedophilia isn't attraction to an adult. 18 is biologically an adult
>Just because shes legal doesnt mean its right
morality is subjective
>many teenagers are regreting their relationship with older men
people regretting relationships with those they break up with is common. the married ones don't complain.
you are really just using all the same NPC talking points spouted over and over

Uhmm just dont listen to what other people say. If you are 40 years old dating a teenager there will be a lot of strong feelings, mainly rooted in jealousy. You just have to accept that other people will find it distasteful while you live your best life fucking teenage pussy.

>>33886053
>fucking teenage pussy
mmmmm fuck yeah

>>33847501 (OP)
there's so much cope and seething in this thread https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/white-lotus-gez-z-agegap-relationships-b2733659.html
in the last two years zoomer girls by in large prefer older men in their late 20s and 30s. it's all because zoomer boys gave them the ick and they have so many unattractive qualities. you can see it in this thread with all the zoomer guys crying and trying to shame like women. very feminine and unattractive