Thread 33878502

I'm so miserable that unexpected kindness from strangers can me me so happy. Yesterday I was at a lecture and was struggling to find which page the professor was reading in a certain book. So a girl (a cute one, btw) who was sitting behind me noticed and whispered in my ears: "It's page 9."

And today I was at the line on a supermarket and a man who I believed had entered the line earlier than me told me that I got earlier and let me go ahead of him.

These two interactions made my day. It's so uncommon to have strangers doing these little things to you in a metropolis, especially a cute girl. I'm happy but I wished I could be intimate with a girl as cute as her. I'm so lonely desu.

>>33878502 (OP)
Guys like you and I aren't meant to have nice things. Sorry bro. Embrace it, dig deep and embrace it. It's how things are meant to be. No one's in the wrong.

>>33878502 (OP)
Spread some kindness to strangers like this in return, it's nice to see people mirroring that back at ya or others

>>33878528
>Guys like you and I aren't meant to have nice things. Sorry bro. Embrace it, dig deep and embrace it. It's how things are meant to be. No one's in the wrong.
Ignore that fuckwit, OP. You project weakness, and maybe give the impression of being retarded, is why the strangers took pity on you. Work on your self-confidence and avoid getting panicky just because you can't find a page straight away.

>>33878528
>no one's in the wrong

>>33878621
Until you say hello to random people and they look at you in fear

>>33878502 (OP)
Happy Halloween

>>33878502 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSTd1LuiVUs

>>33878502 (OP)
Sad to read but I was / still slightly at heart like you
The thing is that the less experiences you have, exposure, you feel more.
It's really simple, if you're around girls a lot - you'll get used to them. Example is me. I used to attribute every interaction with a girl as something romantic, it disappointed me a lot of times. Nowadays, I'm talking to hot girls every week. And I look them in the eyes and we laugh and they are people to me
Without the element of me getting disappointed as badly as I did before.
And yeah man, going to events helped, dancing helped.. Singing helped, talking to a fuckload of people and hanging out with them is mainly what helped though. And I did that at events
So
I have been through exactly what you're going through, down to the letter
And so so so many other guys did
And it's easy to feel isolated but, your experience is shared by many
Just go out more and expose yourself to social interactions. I go out so much nowadays that I started not to miss people, because I know that they will be there next time I go out. Which is crazy, because I always felt like every time I go out especially to some amazing event it's like a core memory before I go and sit at home for another year or two

>>33878502 (OP)
were they white?
These altruistic actions are pretty common where I live.

>>33881967
They were both white.

>>33878502 (OP)
You're alright, man.

>>33878502 (OP)
Take it as a sign that you haven't given up yet. Lonliness is like hypothermia - if you are cold it means your body is still functioning. The pain means you can still feel. Take these small moments and enjoy them without shame. You deserve to feel happy about whatever makes you happy unless you're a rapist or something.