Thread 33881098

how and/or DOES this even happen in metropolitan areas? it seems like there is a huge boom in social club type programs for the dating scene, but circles of couples are extremely cloistered and standoffish in my area. i wish we had 2 or 3 couples we knew at similar age and income levels that we could casually invite to weekend brunches or other activities. i guess it mostly happens through work? or people preserving college/high school friends? but my business is remote, and at hers, shes the boss of a bunch of girls 5-6 years her junior

>>33881098 (OP)
A fair number of evangelical/Protestant church have Community Groups, usually all attendees are around the same age and life-stage.

couples already have someone to spend time with, focus on making friends with people who are actually lonely and need friends

>>33881098 (OP)
>shes the boss of a bunch of girls 5-6 years her junior
make those your friends then you both sleep with them. this is your chance to make a harem

>>33881098 (OP)
>how and/or DOES this even happen in metropolitan areas?
It happens incredibly often in metropolitan areas and mostly not in a good way. Well, at least in the metropolitan areas I have lived in.
A married couple gets introduced to another married couple through a mutual acquintance base on shared interests, they get together for shared activities - group fucking/swapping, getting high together, recruiting people for realestate fraud, etc.

>>33881098 (OP)
Just invite your Neighbors round for dinner. Normally a BBQ or some shit.
It gets easier if you have kids, because you can just befriend your kids friends parents, and then do the same thing as above.

>>33881098 (OP)
The most common pattern is for two people (probably but not necessarily of the same gender) to meet at work, PTA, supermarket or wherever and become friends and then "Oh, you and your spouse must come to dinner with me and my spouse" or some similar invitation

>>33881098 (OP)
Doi you HAVE to do absolutely everything as "a married couple"? Go out and have fun, each on your own. It will do your relationship good. Living like conjoined twins turns stale and samey.

>>33885113
If you actually love your spouse you genuinely can't imagine the idea of being separated from them forcefully. That's why your best friend finding a true soulmate feels so bittersweet because you know you'll never see them again.

>>33885132
*without forcefully happening.
If there's no need to go they'll just stay together.

>>33885132
Nah thats just simp shit.
I love my woman dearly, buthanging out together nonstop for several months almost killed our sexlife.
If you want to do couples activites, why not do exiting stuff? Go bouldering together, suprise her with concert tickets and stuff. Be a bit unpredictable , in a positive way.

>>33881098 (OP)
>extremely cloistered and standoffish
Welcome to multiculturalism. It was designed that way.
Only solution is leave for a culturally superior area.

>>33885148
Definitely agree with being physically active and having frequent sex is good. I eventually got a budget home gym set up just because it means I can work with my wife and be as horny as I want.

it's funny because when i was dating i couldn't find time to get away from social shit. being single, pretty much no one has time for me. it's actually quite easy to makes friends when you're partnered because you automatically pass the first vibe check of normalcy.