Thread 33881488

Im going to come out and say it: Im a 22 year old bong and I hate my country. I hate the people, I hate the fact that it never gave me a chance, I hate the fact that every time I try and put my foot in the door to begin my life I end up getting rejected. Military, police, fire service etc rejection, rejection, rejection. I hate the fact that I don’t share the same values and I cant see the world the way other bongs do. I hate the fact im not like other people in this country, that I never had the same experiences or milestones that others had while growing up. Never did drugs, had sex or partied or went clubbing. It also doesn’t help that I’m a closeted atheist from my muslim parents. I have no connection with my cultural identity that they raised me in. Ive made so much mistakes that cost me a lot that I just had enough and It made me realise something: Im not British. And you know what thats fine. I have to make my peace with that but Im also making a promise to myself that Im not going to die here. Fuck this place, I’m not going to be buried here. My plan is to gain a paramedic degree via apprenticeship here then apply for an emt position abroad. I wish I was born in America so thats my wish. I have to bite the bullet and realise that in order to leave I need to gain valuable skills and purse higher education. But are there any other routes that I can take to achieve this?

if you are an incel, your parents are doing you a favour raising you a a muslim. they just want you to reproduce and pass your/their genes on and that is what arranged marriage is for.

and nobody expects you to feel British. I have a German passport but will always be Ukrainian. As for your plan being a paramedic abroad, check what the requirements are, likely your certificate will not be accepted in another country

>>33881488 (OP)
I won't read invasive species threads. You're not British, it's not your country, and you don't belong there, regardless of what your passport says. Return to shitistan and marry one of your cousins.

>>33881488 (OP)
Have you ever lived in a different country?
If it makes you feel any better people suck everywhere. If you do move to America I would advise you to move to a Northern state, preferably a big city. Do your research and find which ones have a higher immigrant population so you don't feel like the odd one out.

>>33881614
>no one expects you to feel British

National identity is all I fucking have anon. Its easy to say shit like that when you have strong cultural links to your own background. But this fucking country is all I know and I am about as British as a clown in a funeral.

The short answer is that it's feasible. There's a threshold of effort to achieve most things that isn't as low as people wish, but it isn't as high as they inherently fear it to be. It's at a level where it will feel challenging while doing it, but oddly disappointing after it's done. That's life, so yes, it's feasible. Do the research. Do the work.

>>33881488 (OP)
Rejection is success, it means you tried.

>>33881614
I don't have strong links. I was born in Ukraine but grew up in Germany. I have a mix of a slavic and germanic accent when I talk. I almost forgot my first language by now. People hate me for being Ukrainian and think I am a refugee relying on mercy or I am responsible for the recession in Europe. I could not care less about national identity. I go wherever my family has the best opportunities and quality of life. If AFD nazis get into government, I will be off to another country, Netherlands, Spain, Ireland, New Zealand, Japan, anywhere far away from hostile people and a collapsing economy