>>33882199 (OP)
The internet is not real. Over investing in it is a waste of time. I feel sad for all the young men who lose themselves in such safe spaces for degeneracy. I genuinely feel sorry for their minds and what they are doing to them.
There was a friend of mine who's dirty-reddit got found. He was posting pictures of women we hung out with on there and also writing lengthy sex-fiction about them. It was pretty fucked up to realise that a guy who was seemingly decent on the surface of it was actually a bit of an unhinged sex degen online.
Keep away from the cancer online. Put yourself through psychological chemotherapy and distance yourself from over-involvement with online spaces, especially ones that are clearly fucking poison for the mind.
Sanitize your media. Block websites that are no good. Don't bother engaging with the storm that is online communities built around political or societal discussion.
Become your own man. Build your impression of life on what's before you and at your disposal. Don't let these fucking weirdos that are porn obsessed to the point of humiliation.
I've ended up taking the perspective that I should conduct myself online as if my friends will one day see it. My history, my posts, whatever. Keeping a standard of accountability like that helps a lot with fighting back against the cognitive decay that can arise when people think that the internet is some shadow realm for their fucked up fantasies.
Pick carefully the wolves you feed.