>Im friends with this girl
> Girl doesn’t express herself well but keep talking constantly, sometimes very cold.
>I tell her not to be like that, that I liked her more when she was expressive before.
>She says she won’t do that anymore and will go back to being expressive.
>She did it again lol
>I tell her I value her because I like her and care about her a lot, and that’s why I want to keep the friendship.
>She takes it as a love confession and tells half the world, and now everyone thinks I’m that typical guy who pretends to be gay to get close to girls, even though I’ve always said I’m bi, she tolds to keep the friendship (???) like it wasn't the mf point.
>Before I even knew she’d told everyone, I kept the friendship going, but she sometimes acted distant and meh.
>I later find out from friends that she actually did spread it, and it pissed me off because she treated my trust like nothing.
>After thinking about it coldly for a week, I decided to cut ties and distance the friendship.
>She gets defensive, sends a short message saying she didn’t tell anyone, doesn’t know why I’m like this, and “respects my distance.”I felt like i took the best choice of my 2025 so far.
>I go out with some friends, and they tell me she talked again, and now everyone thinks I went hysterical or something, and people are afraid I’ll distance myself from everyone related to her.
>I don’t regret anything. Even though I still care about her and hate the distance, knowing she was basically a snitch just confirmed what I thought. I can’t take her seriously or as a friend again.
I’m sticking to my decision, even though some friends say I messed up and wasn’t considerate of her feelings—when she was literally the one who started hiding everything.
>Thoughts?
> Girl doesn’t express herself well but keep talking constantly, sometimes very cold.
>I tell her not to be like that, that I liked her more when she was expressive before.
>She says she won’t do that anymore and will go back to being expressive.
>She did it again lol
>I tell her I value her because I like her and care about her a lot, and that’s why I want to keep the friendship.
>She takes it as a love confession and tells half the world, and now everyone thinks I’m that typical guy who pretends to be gay to get close to girls, even though I’ve always said I’m bi, she tolds to keep the friendship (???) like it wasn't the mf point.
>Before I even knew she’d told everyone, I kept the friendship going, but she sometimes acted distant and meh.
>I later find out from friends that she actually did spread it, and it pissed me off because she treated my trust like nothing.
>After thinking about it coldly for a week, I decided to cut ties and distance the friendship.
>She gets defensive, sends a short message saying she didn’t tell anyone, doesn’t know why I’m like this, and “respects my distance.”I felt like i took the best choice of my 2025 so far.
>I go out with some friends, and they tell me she talked again, and now everyone thinks I went hysterical or something, and people are afraid I’ll distance myself from everyone related to her.
>I don’t regret anything. Even though I still care about her and hate the distance, knowing she was basically a snitch just confirmed what I thought. I can’t take her seriously or as a friend again.
I’m sticking to my decision, even though some friends say I messed up and wasn’t considerate of her feelings—when she was literally the one who started hiding everything.
>Thoughts?