Thread 33882869

What is the ugly side of dating?

>Ball and chain
>Women are mostly ugly
>Women use makeup and filters as a cope
>Women age like milk
>Women feel entitled to your finances
>"my company is a privilege you should pay for"
>Honeymoon phase ends
>Women will miss Chad
>Women love validation and attention from Chad
>Marriage isn't worth it for men no matter how you slice it

>>33882869 (OP)
>Marriage isn't worth it for men no matter how you slice it

I still fail to understand why anonye would want it or what is so desirable about marriage besides some obsolete socioetal garbage from the 50s.
Seriously, everyone on this board seems to be crazy about it. For the life of me, why?

>>33882980
>Seriously, everyone on this board seems to be crazy about it. For the life of me, why?
Some of us find good women. Just because it can't happen for you doesn't mean it can't fit the rest of us.

>>33882980
Because marriage benefits men.

>>33883050
thats the exact point. I have a great woman I will most likely spend the rest of my life with. Never caused me the urge so run off and involve state authorities in my private affairs while not benefitting me or her in any way.

My favorite is the friend, mom, sister, cousin, etc all talking in her ear, putting ideas in her head, and ruining your relationship. Tell me how I know.

>>33882980
religion

>>33882869 (OP)
>my company is a privilege you should pay for
Always makes me laugh when I see some social media post about a dude who got laid for christmas or someshit instead of actual thought requiring gifts

>>33882869 (OP)
All of the above +
>only .01% of women are actually worth dating but you'll more than likely never find that person so you're better off just getting a dog

>>33883101
Havign a beneficial relationship benefits men, yes.
This is not related to a piece of paper that grants a woman the right to grab half your stiff anytime she likes for nothing in return.
And lets not even talk about lawyer fees, you can break up in the most amicable way possibel and will still be force to waste a five digit sum of your common net worth on paying some -stein just so he signs a bunch of papers. Its an industry.

What's going on here?

>>33883117
Don't people get married for the tax benefits?

>>33884242
The tax benefits are pretty minor and pale in comparison to the amount you will be paying in settlements and alimony, which are statistically likely to happen.

>>33884249
And to restate, lawyer fees alone.
My parents had a perfectly amicable divorce with no lawsuit, and we as a family STILL had to pay thousands to a bunch of useless parasites, far more than those tax returns ever saved. Which made me decide that I'm never going to invite bloodsuckign bureaucrats inot my life voluntarily, thats pure insanity. Its not like those people aren't hassling the average citizen every day anyways.
Its an administrative scam. If you want to be with a woman forever, just do the marriage ceremony without the bureaucratic part.

>>33884266
Also don't like inna state that has """common law""" bullshit

>>33884272
Not from the US, my country is fairly "feminist" but apparently not nearly as bad. "Common law" only extends to child support here. Which I consider fair, as you shoudl be paying for your childs welfare voluntarily anyways.

>>33884226
I believe that's called a scar anon.

>>33882869 (OP)
I can tell you've never been in a relationship and you're basing your entire opinion on women and relationships based on retarded shit you read online.

>>33885866
Online discourse has really fucked up a lot of people, especially young men. Straight up fake shit gets taken as fact and fags like OP end up absolutely cucking themselves out of a happy and fulfilling life.

>>33883101
>Because marriage benefits men.
It LITERALLY was created to do the opposite of that. You’re confidently incorrect.

>>33886100
Thats because the administrative state of marriage gets confounded with being in a healthy relationship, which is indeed highly beneficial.
Marriage contracts primarily benefit a gaggle of lawyers,secondarily divorce raping gold diggers. and is wholly irrelevant to leading a good relationship.

>>33886100
You have never been loved by a woman lmao

>>33886163
Not related to marriage.

>>33886234
Didn't say it was, still true.

>>33882980
I like the companionship

>>33882869 (OP)
Whenever I see talk like this, I wonder what your family and friends are like. Are your parents divorced? Did you not have happily married neighbors? Are none of your coworkers or classmates married? Do you just pretend not to see the bevy of average looking couples walking in public? How do you reconcile your obsession with "chad" with the countless women dating men that are probably uglier than you? What causes this complete rejection of proof that all women aren't evil chad-hunters that hate YOU specifically?

>>33887399
It's all just one big cope. They have no idea what to do because their dads failed them and they're too afraid to learn.

>>33887171
>>33887399
The thing that bothers me is conflating all that with marriage.
Perhaps because it already fell out of use with the older generation in my country and area, so I know tons of senior couples who have been together for decades without ever signing any papers.