Thread 33900118

>too ugly and short to get GF when I was young, rejected hundreds of times
>get an education and a good job, finally in a good place in my mid 30s
>can finally get dates now and even had a couple GFs, but women my age are no longer dating for fun and thrills, now they're dating for stability, marriage and kids

What's the point of dating, if I didn't get to have fun in my teens and 20s? I'm locked out of the fun part of relationships and only have access to the BORING part where you basically pay a woman to live with you and take care of all her bills. when I finally lost my virginity I thought incels were wrong but now I realize that life just isn't worth living if you're born a non-chad male. Only chads are allowed to experience the fun parts of life.

dating is supposed to be fun and a committed search for a life partner at every stage of your life, serial monogamy is for sex fiends with burnt out dopamine receptors who will never be happy and always wonder what they could trade up for

>>33900118 (OP)
Well you're not wrong but you forgot about raising kids.

>>33900150
serial monogamy is never on purpose. it is the literal act of committing your life to one person and it ending up failing. resulting in serial long term, committed, singular relationships

>>33900167
or, if youre not an emotional wreck you manage to pull together a bond that will last until you are old and have nothing else in the world
dating with the intent to break up after some "fun and thrills" is people do when they were raised without a father

>>33900118 (OP)
I won't read what's the point threads. They're simply venting, and this is an advice board.

>>33900118 (OP)
Hey anon. In your same situation minus being short and ugly, just autistic.anyway the answer is you missed out. Simple as. You missed out on fun exciting flings. Youre the boring low status male that women who had their fun settled for. Any answer in this thread saying otherwise is cope, especially that first reply jesus what a cuck statement, like normal people werent fucking around as teens and young adults lmao. Anyway yea just accept it and try to not to get too depressed. Theres nothing you can do to change the past after all.

>>33900118 (OP)
Most people (men/women) are just superficial whores, you'll be better of by just getting a real prostitute.
Benefits of using prostitutes outweights any relationships since you get to try most kinks you're interested in and you dont have to keep paying if they start to nag or demand anything more.