>>33900492 (OP)
>One good looking stacy
The stacy will come if you have the skills you need to be with her. This implies being confident, relaxed, funny. When they say they want a cool person they mean someone whose mind isn't deep in problems and solutions. They want to let go of the hardships of the day and be with someone who can take it easy and make them feel easy.
You won't get any of that by focusing your energy on Anything. In fact it's the opposite of that. Better advice to go fuck a random mid slut since then you will appreciate the stacy and not be focused on the circumstance instead of her.