>>935667944 (OP)I don't think anyone's going to agree with this except guys who don't know how to get a gf anyway, and so are basically preemptively rejecting all women so they don't have to feel the rejection they'd have to feel and deal with if they continued to admit they do desire companionship and actually know plenty of women they'd like to date, but aren't having any luck in the dating game, which is hurting their self esteem and making them feel a lot of anxiety about the whole dating process
Like this seems like a whole lot of words to say, "I'm single and never date but it's DEFINITELY my choice, guys..."
Believing and internalizing shit like this is a recipe to be alone forever, because no woman wants to hang out with a guy who thinks women are the reason he's alone
I can say that learning to be comfortable around women did not come naturally to me at all, and so I had no success in the dating world until really late in the game, but finally I learned how to be "comfortable in my own skin", to like myself, to see women as people just like me and not as things I wanted to possess.
Learning to do that was only possible because I didn't have the mindset of "women are really the problem here". The real problem was that I was viewing myself and judging as broken or not good enough, when what I needed to see myself as was a work in progress. I needed to accept that I wasn't perfect but could improve, and be willing to fail, over and over, as I did the work to improve myself.
Don't internalize a mindset like OP. It's toxic, and I'm not saying that to say it's offensive. I'm saying that to say believing stuff like this hurts you little by little the more you let yourself believe it, and in the long run it kills you