I have a very sweet girlfriend but I am a degenerate and I keep having thoughts of thick and busty women, I would never cheat since I think it's the lowest thing you can do to your partner but it's true that I get bombarded by sexual thoughts and I feel like I am disrespecting her

How can I stop being such a degenerate?

>>935695656 (OP)
feed her fucking mcdonalds ice cream all day
get her thick. if it doesn turn up okay dump her,,,

Lusting for multiple women is what men do. Judge yourself by your actions and treat her well unless given a reason not to.

it's only bad if your gf isn't ugly, post a picture of her so we can tell if you're being a dick or not

>>935695656 (OP)
To be honest if you simply aren't attracted to her body type and it is that strong for you then leaving her would be the best thing to do. Ending up in a marriage to a woman who you don't find sexually attractive in a way that fulfils your particular preference leading you to cheating is not where you want to be.

>>935698078
>To be honest if you simply aren't attracted to her body type and it is that strong for you then leaving her would be the best thing to do
The thing is that I won the lottery with this girl and I know I will never meet someone who loves me as much as she loves me. Is there a way to increase my attraction to her?

>>935698716
Not really no unless you are going to go in for some wacky electric shock conditioning thing. When you love a woman your attraction morphs more to be focused on her. If you already do love her and yet you still just don't find her body type attractive then that is just how it is, not your thing.

You can make a conscious decision that you are willing to forgo some your strongest preferences for this relationship but that is a choice that will remain and that isn't just going to disappear over time. Bullshit like "visualising your attraction to her" and "writing some love diary" isn't going to change what you are attracted to. If it isn't altering through your relationship providing it has been a while it isn't going to change more.

>>935698962
I was planning on quitting porn and masturbation. Maybe that could work? It's true that I love big boobs a lot but leaving her over something like that would be a huge mistake that I'm sure I would end up regreting deeply. I hate myself for being this vain and superficial

>>935699231
Well it is definitely worth giving that a shot. Pornography does mess with your mind. Even if it doesn't there is plenty of benefit in having the self control to reduce and quit pornography. Some guys really get warped away from anything normal with porn.

>>935698716
yes bro.
here some tips.

-teach her to give awesome bjs , look up videos for perfect bj, no need deep.

-improve her pussy, teach her to pussy grip and give handjobs with her pussy, for that need to practic keggels. just stop the pee 2 or 3 times each time and continue.
-tell her to touch your croch daily, preferably morning and night , and that she has to get u off daily.

-give her gifts, yes work ur ass off and give her gifs that will conditione you to love her.

get her super tight tops, have fun on public places like the car, rooftops and cinemas. basically u want she be ur bitch.

feeling that she loves u is the best thing u can have in a woman. dot waste that being unfaithfull because she will dump u faster than say bye

>>935695656 (OP)
Try dedicating yourself to Garfield.

>>935699476
>>935699513
Thank you Anons, you are right. It's worth the shot, being a porn addict only is making my thoughts of unfaithfulness spiral even more. The only way is to quit masturbating altogether. Nothing else seems to be working. And if I quit masturbating, watching pornography will be pointless so it's less likely for me to frequent that.

>>935695656 (OP)
Honestly, the fact that you care enough to feel conflicted about this says you’re not as far gone as you think.

We’re all constantly exposed to hypersexualized content, and intrusive thoughts aren’t the same as actions. What matters is how you handle them. You’re choosing not to cheat — that’s already a major line most people don’t even hold anymore. Respect that about yourself.

If you want to strengthen your relationship and your self-control, maybe shift focus from guilt to growth. Try cutting down on whatever feeds those thoughts (social media, porn, idle scrolling, etc.), and put more intentional effort into deepening your connection with your girlfriend — not just emotionally, but spiritually and intellectually too.

You’re not a degenerate. You’re a guy trying to be better. That’s worth something.

>>935695656 (OP)
she doesnt sound like your type.
she sounds like a desert and youre begging for an oasis.

yes

>>935695656 (OP)
At least you have a girlfriend, nigger

>>935695656 (OP)
You're not that bad Anon. I'm the shithead.
>I have a Japanese GF. Loving, supportive, and nerdy (but unfortunately in a medium distance relationship that only lets us be together once or twice a month.
>Old flame comes to town. Never dated but fooled around together 30 years ago. (yes, I'm an old fag)
>Suddenly feels like old times. Chatting and flirty like the good ol' days.
>Old flame leaves town, but we've reconnected and keep chatting.
>she comes for another visit with me and other old friends.
>Fun, hang-out time with the old crowd.
>share some kisses and happy times, with plenty of spicy talk and familiar jokes.
>GF even gets to visit and meet everybody.
>Visit over, old flame back home, Me and GF back to our usual relationship, but also both talking to old flame as friend.
>Have side, spicy conversations with old flame.
>6 months of spice chats and pics with old flame without telling GF
>GF visits. left alone with unlocked computer.
>Spicy chats discovered.
>GF heartbroken
>Me feeling like shit ever since.

>>935710677
Yea, youre a pos mate

>>935700011
>>935695656 (OP)
Tell her you've been fantasizing about thicc girls. Maybe your gf has too. You could turn mutual fap sessions into a bonding experience.

>>935695656 (OP)
>I have a very sweet girlfriend but I am a degenerate and I keep having thoughts of thick and busty women, I would never cheat since I think it's the lowest thing you can do to your partner but it's true that I get bombarded by sexual thoughts and I feel like I am disrespecting her
>
>How can I stop being such a degenerate?

Your retarded. ITS CALLED BEING MALE AND YOUNGER. Thoughts are just that. Thoughts. "Oh my god, I have thoughts!!!!!!" Grow the fuck up.

>>935695656 (OP)
Learn self control, stop watching porn
It helped me
Get off this website and start doing something more productive and if you get such thoughts force yourself to replace them with thoughts of her