I just hate that you can like the same things as someone and both be attracted to each other and like spending time together and have similar religious and political beliefs and you can treat this person with the utmost patience and care and love and really prioritize them and it can still fall apart as if it never happened. It makes me not even want to try. Pic unrelated

>>935750494 (OP)
>like spending time together

IN my experience the more time spent with someone the less I begin to like them.

>>935750494 (OP)
You and I understand each-other perfectly.
Even if you found the perfect counterpart, she and you would be parted by death. Then, you would feel loss and pain that may make all the good times you shared together multiply to a negative.
It's a contract in pain. It's nice while it lasts, though. It really is paradise on Earth.

Your fortune: Godly Luck

well anon sometimes opposites attract

>>935750761
I mean if you know her to be a human who wants to be treated as such by you, then your love is a very wholesome thing

>>935752695
>if you know her to be a human
Why do you type like this? Are you a bot, or is this a type of reductive 'newspeak'.
It's odd you didn't understand my post either, and replied with something implying I have a significant other, when my post made an argument against relationships.
I just don't understand, but maybe if you explain, I will.
I'm willing to hear you out, but you need to explain what you are trying to say here.

>>935750494 (OP)
One night, here on /b/, a true genius posted " i have never been happier with a partner than i have been without one" and I don't know if he quoted somebody or actually said it but, I never forgot that. It's true for me.

>>935753008
I don’t know, Anon. I’m alright alone I guess but I just want somebody to give my love to. All I want is to hold and be held. And I’m just feeling down right now because I almost had that but I jumped the gun and asked her to be my gf too soon, and it scared her off so bad that she ended things entirely, and it just sucks because outside of her fear of commitment she’s basically a perfect match for me and I really enjoyed the times we spent together and now I’m in my own personal hell having to see her at work every day until September. So I mean it is what it is I guess but I wish I hadn’t fucked that up and I wish there was some way I could fix it but I can’t control how other people feel so all I can do is stay in my own lane, keep enjoying myself and spending time on my hobbies/skills, and hope for the best

>>935753253
You didn't mention that you're going through a breakup. You're probably angry at everything right now. I'm just saying that "alone" is where it's at for me. Not having to put up with other peoples shit. The mind-numbing Drama.

>>935754621
Well it feels like a breakup but it technically isn’t I guess, since we “weren’t actually dating” according to her even though we were actively and regularly going out on dates over the span of a month, and it’s been like 2 months since it all broke down and I’m still not over it because like I said I really felt like she was the one, plus she’s the only woman who’s ever pursued me first and I’ve been single for over 3 years so yeah I got my hopes up and it’s just soul crushing that it was shaping up to be so good and I ruined it without even trying to. I’m trying to find my peace in the storm of regret and anger and sadness but man is it hard. It doesn’t help I was abusing the fuck out of caffeine and alcohol to throw my mind into a haze so I didn’t have to think about it as much too so now I’m being forced to actually confront my thoughts and feelings and it doesn’t feel great

>>935750494 (OP)

>>935754948
how much were you guys having sex?

Want a little tease? Ask me nicely. hoiyo83

>>935750494 (OP)
OP, answer >>935755284

>>935750494 (OP)
The simple fact is you have no control over somebody else's emotions or mental health. Maybe the fact that things changed has nothing to do with you. Maybe they just got hooked on a substance that altered their brain on a fundamental level and it's not your fault at all.