Thread 935819700

Does this actually work in real life?

>>935819700 (OP)
yeah

>>935819700 (OP)
Yes. Insane whores will jump anyone who gives them the time of day.

>>935819700 (OP)
The point was she was retarded and a sex addict

>>935819700 (OP)
Yes, 20 years ago. Before rise of e thots, simps and OF. It was a lot easier getting laid.

It used to, but nobody reads books anymore.

>>935819704
Eh, OF pornwhores are still 'only' ~4-5% of the female population, as disgustingly high as that is, it's far from the majority.

The bigger effect on the average man is from social media in general. Now instead of running into 5 potential dating options a week a woman has access to 500 every single day, all pumping her ego.

Swap Steve Carrell with a guy who looks like Henry Cavill and yes it would.
If a Steve Carrell looking dude tried that, he'd be considered weird and creepy.

>>935819700 (OP)
do...you want it to work in real life?

Shit like tinder has ruined dating. Every average woman has 50+ guys chasing them, complimenting them, buying them stuff etc. They don't even need to play along with guys pursuing them in real life anymore, unless it's chad.

>>935819704
this. i'm genuinely surprised at some of the dumb shit i said/did that got me laid back then.

>>935819706
Last time I dated a girl was back in 2019. I looked through her DM's and texts one time when she was in the shower, biggest mistake ever. Zero desire to ever even entertain the idea of dating again

>>935819711
Kek she was cucking you?

Only way stuff like that works, is if you do it on a woman significantly less attractive than you.

A fat girl would probably lap it up and enjoy the attention.

>>935819712
Not him, but brother when you realise how much attention the average woman gets, you'll understand. They get literally hundreds of messages a day from guys. It makes you feel helpless in a way.

>>935819712
no, just keeping several men on "hold" in case things changed. she brought her new boyfriend into work 2 days after I broke up with her

Lmao 6 more years and I'm basically him.

>>935819700 (OP)
elizabeth banks looks so fucking hot here and still looks fucking hot. the guy who locked her down really lucked out

>>935819715
>she brought her new boyfriend into work 2 days after I broke up with her
How did you find that out? Did you work together?

>>935819713
Even fat girls nowadays have laughable standards (mostly because they have dozens of simps in their inboxes, lying to them for a wank or possible sex)

>>935819700 (OP)
Basically, yeah. But not like that exactly. The only way to attract a girl is to make her feel you don't give a fuck about her. Beyond nonchalant, downright disqualifying. It triggers their hypergamy instinct and they literally can't help it. The fact that fathers don't teach this to every male child anymore is a tragedy.

>>935819706
>OF pornwhores are still 'only' ~4-5% of the female population, as disgustingly high as that is, it's far from the majority.
Anon I don't think you're comprehending what this means for the general population. That means the general population of females is so inclined *towards* prostitution that 5% of all women are now prostitutes.

>>935819715
Was he fat with cheeto fingers?

>>935819700 (OP)
SHE WAS A 20 YEAR OLD EMPLOYEE YOU 40 YEAR OLD SICK FUCK!!!!

Step 1 - Look like prime Brad Pitt and/or be rich
Step 2 - Say any dumb shit you want to women
Step 3 - Have sex anyway because you're handsome and/or rich

>>935819718
Yeah I met her at work but by that time we had different shifts, I was there in the morning and she worked nights. I only found out because my coworker told me the next day that she introduced him to everyone as her bf

>>935819700 (OP)
Works literally 100 percent of the time

>>935819700 (OP)
>>935819704
>>935819706
>>935819709
Alright, no bullshit, just get straight to the point and answer this.
In the position of a mid 20’s-30’s male who only goes to work and doesn’t have much of a social life or friends, WHERE do you meet young women, or join a social group where you can regularly meet new women?
It feels like no one has been able to give a concrete answer to this, and many here seem to be in a similar situation.

>>935819727
You would meet them at work. Either customers or employees.
But you should really get a hobby. I volunteer at some Indian Hindu temple like twice a month and I’ve met three girls there that I eventually smashed. I’m white btw.

>>935819727
Wish I knew that answer myself lad. I keep telling myself a good one will come along eventually, even though I never interact with women. Life isn't some romcom where you fall in love on a bench at the park anymore.

>>935819700 (OP)
yes it works but like every other scheme you have to change it up every 2 weeks or she'll get bored.
be yourself is the only thing that really works

>>935819727
You could sign up for classes at your local community college. Some just bullshit creative writing class or something. I guarantee that you will meet girls there.

>>935819727
Yoga class. I'm not kidding. Grow a pair and fucking go.

>>935819727
Retirement homes. Those bitches be horny as fuck.

>>935819733
But anon they're like 80 years old

>>935819734
Yeah. I know.

>>935819727
>How do I meet people without socializing
You don't. Get a social life, loser.

>>935819732
>just join a cult

>>935819731
>local classes
What classes were you thinking of? Have you ever taken any yourself?

>community college
Not sure what they’re called here, never been to one. What about individual courses at university, are they about the same?

>>935819736
>>935819736
>>How do I meet people without socializing
>You don't. Get a social life, loser.

>or join a social group where you can regularly meet new women?
Learn to fucking read before you act all high and mighty dumbass

>>935819711
>>935819711
and people give me shit for siding with Jin here and unironicaly saying that going the jincel route and just paying for escorts and moving on with you live is the best play.

>>935819727
Go to a diner in Baltimore and tell the waitress you are a cop. You can get anything you want.

>>935819727
Go to church if you want an actual good woman. Go every sunday, attend every meeting and event. Make an effort to dress nice.

>>935819700 (OP)
For a moment, yeah. I kinda thought it would.

>>935819714
>Hi sexy girl freind

>>935819700 (OP)
Woman who wants to jump on your dick is just looking for an excuse, but generally no. You'd just be a weirdo and no cute girls are working retail anymore.

>>935819739
Just pet the dog.

>>935819738
Courses at a traditional college are usually more expensive than a community college. For example, I could sign up for a writing course for 120 usd at a local spot. That same course would cost me 1000 at a traditional school. Anyways, yeah I’ve taken a bunch of classes and have met numerous women. You’re going to meet a lot of 18-20 year olds that will still look up to you since you get buy them alcohol, drive a car and have a job.

>>935819727
Tinder is free pussy in most places, you just have to tell them that that’s what you want and you’re not looking for anything serious. But in terms of actually meeting young women in the wild, same as it ever was just random places. I asked out an REI cashier and that went well. Another girl in my apartment thought I looked cute walking my dog and we dated for a minute. But work, and any co-ed activities. I’d try going on Meetup and just finding a group of people who do things you’re interested in doing, and then make inroads and friendships there and see where that takes you. Certain church services are also not a bad way to meet people, orthodox services have a pot luck after and they’re all very nice, good way to stretch your social muscles and just talk to people since a few people will probably go out of their way to talk to you after church. >>935819731
Also a good suggestion, I met a lot of people through a painting class I did last summer when I was new to town.

>>935819700 (OP)
Yeah but you need have the kind of weirdo charisma that Steve Carrell does to pull it off which is "act like an autistic dumbass but with the obvious subtext that you're just playing it up for kicks and aren't actually that unironically retarded". Although if you're lucky enough to find a hot girl who loves men so much that she'll sleep with any loser who'll approach her, you don't even need that.

>>935819713
I am in this weird area right now where I get in conversations with fat women and we flirt to the point I can literally say "Lets go have sex" and they will do it. But then I'm like "she is a whale, I cant do this".

Then I have a conversation with a woman who weighs less than 150 lbs and they want nothing to do with me.

>>935819727
Honestly man, I don't want to sound defeatist but I really do believe if you don't have a solid social circle by like your mid 20s, you may just be fucked for life.

Don't listen to any normies who give you retarded advice like "just go outside and talk to people", "join a hobby", "go to bars". Because at this age, most people have an established insular friend group and don't want to add more people. Adult life is busy and most people don't have the interest or time to make new friends

>>935819751
30 year olds move for work frequently. Just pet the dog.

Before you start trying to meet women you gotta learn how to talk to women. I present to you this book. It’s required reading.

>>935819751
Nah, you're probably just an antisocial loser. I had no problems making friends in my late 20s after being awkward for years before that, heck you can even be friends with younger zoomers. Not everyone is gonna like you but that's OK.

Depends entirely on your countenance.

>broke up with girlfriend a month ago
>lost my virginity to her at 28 while she was 20
>only go to work and gym
>work is only male coworkers and don't talk to anyone at the gym
>no chances to find a new gf now
I thought I was back but then suddenly it was so Joever.

This may sound stupid but is it possible to be a decent looking guy but still be a chronically single permavirgin because you simply just aren't social enough and don't ask out any women?

>be me
>have been complimented on my looks by men and women alike a decent number of times
>also fairly tall (6'2)
>that said, have basically no friends, go to bars/clubs maybe once a year, not on dating apps, and the only time I leave the house is to either go to the gym, work, or go shopping, all of which I always do alone

I know, "anon doesn't ask out women yet expects to have a girlfriend", but the way I look at it, in the thousands and thousands of hours i've spent in public places like university campuses, shopping malls, grocery stores etc not ONE woman thought I was attractive enough to approach me and ask for my number or something?

It's weird because for all I know, I could actually be attractive and could have success with women if I actually asked them out, but I also think that if I was at least somewhat decent looking, I would've had at least one or two women ask me out by now. Or is women making the first move really that taboo?

>>935819727
Go back to school. Join uni clubs and hobby groups. Become socially active, (dunno how social people distribute their time commitment) and meet women by referral.

>>935819757
Women are horrified of rejection. The difference between them and men is they have no pressure to get over that because enough men---by virtue of being hornier than women---will ask them out and women are willing to just select the best from the men that make the first move.

>>935819700 (OP)
Actually, yes.

>>935819727
You simply don't. And it's no longer acceptable to talk to women in random places. The best chance is having a decent social circle that would allow you to meet in new people on a regular basis at a party or gathering outside. And I gotta say women get disgusted by men who try to score. You should just get into a situation where women would reveal themselves to you naturally.

>>935819700 (OP)
You get called weird at best and she just walks away.

>>935819740
>escorts
You're going to get scammed, extorted, robbed or killed. I'm going to assume you probably hate cops so don't bother calling when the extortion starts. To make it go faster just give them everything in your bank account PLUS as many loans as your credit rating will allow.

>>935819756
bro. You're free. I mean you lost your wizard powers to a harlot but hey, try to enjoy your summer. Show off them gains at a pool party (this involves talking to your coworkers)

You should try.
At the very least you'll have a giggle.

>>935819714
Do Indians really count though?

>>935819766
Interesting how this white woman did not block the person

>>935819746
That dog is obviously racist.

>>935819727
>>935819729
There was a girl at school (at least one, no matter how fucking ugly or how much of an outcast you were) that was deeply attracted to you. That was it. If you didn't get with her (or one of them if there was more than one) you've fucked up. Every year after you lost that chance you're playing a crazy game when it comes to dating that starts with 50% divorce rate as a nice welcome-number for you.
Sorry for the doompill but that is the modern world.
PS if you do have kids and then get divorced you are making the future world worse than the modern world. You are creating fucked up kids that will become fucked up adults with compound interest.

>>935819704
It's the same easiness lol the men now are just weak betas

>>935819767
indians aren't exactly that intimidating over the internet. only when the rape gangs roam your streets do you need to worry. Worst he did was drain her phone battery faster by all the notifications, which she most likely muted

>>935819757
Do you have any male friends at work? If they are friends/coworkers with any girl that strikes your fancy tell them that you're interested in her. They relay the information and if you sufficiently good looking she just might get interested in you as well. Then you just have to talk to her and not be sperg about it.

I'm >>935819756 and that's how I met my first gf.

It's mirroring, which is a common "cheat code" of body language.

It should be done unconsciously, however, or it comes off as manipulative.

>>935819700 (OP)
I think he tried this later in the movie and was called a fucking retard lol

if an actual autist tried this it, even saying the same things, it would sound way different.

>>935819771
No I mean she clearly wanted the validation

>>935819756
>only go to work and gym
How’d you meet your girlfriend then?

>>935819719
Defeatist faggotry. Are you a Jew or something trying to demoralize a nigga

>>935819759
This is true. Women crash out like crazy if rejected strongly enough.

I haven't had sex in 8 years

>>935819728
pagan faggot

>>935819776
At work. There were a bunch of women that worked there. According to my ex a lot of them were interested in me and I never fucking noticed.

Changed jobs since then though. New one is a lot better but only men as coworkers.

I once met a Chinese girl on the street and ended up going back to her apartment and fucking her on the same day after a conversation and a coffee.

>>935819753
I tried reading this and doing what it said and I ended up having sex with a bunch of old men. It turned out I accidentally bought the version for teen girls.

>>935819779
I think I just I hit 10 yrs. Meh

>>935819781
>At work. There were a bunch of women that worked there
Was it a retail job where a lot of younger people work part time? How’d you end up there in your 30’s?

I once met a Chinese guy on the street and ended up going back to his apartment and fucking his on the same day after a conversation and a coffee.

Going on three years without a crumb of pussy bros. Am I a virgin again? I've noticed my visions have been clearer while pondering my orb as the months have added up.

>>935819785
It was at a car dealership as a low lever manager. She was an intern there. New job is a senior manager but only men work there for some reason. People there think it's because HR is afraid of harassment and shit.

>>935819775
I think the fact she did reply several times is more indicative of that

>>935819763
kek buddy I've been doing this for about a decade now. only catalog ones, anything below including strippers is too risky.

>>935819700 (OP)
No, not even a little. Speaking to a woman now is considered rape. Don't do it.

>>935819700 (OP)
Only if you look like this and have at least $10 million.

I'm handsome so women approach me. It's annoying but I enjoy sex so whatever. I have never once actively sought out sex yet I've been getting pussy since I was 14. I have that charming serial killer type of autism too so whores are like moths to a flame and the flame is my benis.

>>935819700 (OP)
Have you ever worked at a place like that? People there are too busy to get into lengthy interactions with customers. 100% male fantasy

>>935819714
Why would somebody just go on the internet and tell lies

>>935819700 (OP)
it's called flirting

I don't flirt. I just squeeze the tit and run away.

>>935819751
Im 38 years old I make new friends everywhere I go. Be it at the gym, work, random fitness groups like running clubs or indoor climbing, join a book club, go on tinder and literally write that you're looking for FRIENDS girls will be alot more open to meeting. You just sound like you dont have social skills or maybe zoomers are all autistic

>>935819727
Bars, pubs etc. That is kind of THE place where we go to meet people.

>>935819763
>>935819790
There is literal adult work.com a worldwide prozzy market, you can find botches anywhere and bang them.

>>935819778
Men also have no pressure to reject girls politely. When I’ve rejected women it was in the most rude and brutal way possible. I had to literally knock a woman down once.

>>935819700 (OP)
Yes, women love talking about themselves so just ask questions, they don't even need to be good questions

>>935819802
>literally knock a woman down once
what did she do, throw herself at you vagina first and you had to scrap to get her off of you? Was she armed?

>>935819804
Was doing laundry in my apartment buildings laundry room, which is very narrow. She came in and put her hands out, one on a washer, one on a dryer and blocked me in. I tried to scoot past her but she wouldn’t move her arms so I panicked and flailed about knocking her to the floor. I ran downstairs and into my apartment and spent the rest of the day looking out my window to see if she called the police.

>>935819769
Sad but true, I had one. She was the first girl I ever loved but she got yanked out of elementary school by her neurotic mother after some kid threatened to shoot her at school, spent quite a few years in middle school working out so I could protect her or something. Saw her years later and she had a bf, kinda just tried to forget about her throughout the rest of high school. Yearbook day came and handed her my book without thinking much, she wrote that she had had a crush on me the whole time, leaving her phone number too. I was already poised to move away in a few months, it ate at me bad and I caused a lot trouble out of frustration in the last months I was there. I despise women too much now to have a meaningful relationship.

>>935819757
I'm 5'10 and no one I that remember ever told me I was attractive. One time I was in Walmart alone as always and I was at the Panda Express line inside Walmart, I got my food and when I was walking towards a table I mildly look at a table with 3 women in it and I mildly smile towards them and go to my table. Suddenly this bitch came over and started asking about someone we apparently knew in school, she said the name and I said I don't know this person, I said I don't think I have ever met anyone with this name and kept eating and she left. She insisted like 2 or three times. Later on I thought she may have been trying to hit on me but maybe she just wanted to figure out where this person was idk.

>>935819742
Churchies are some of the biggest whores I've known. I've fucked so many... I tell them I'm an atheist and they just want to talk about god until they get horny and cheat on their husband.

>>935819700 (OP)
If the woman find you attractive than pretty much anything works. If she doesn't then nothing works. Pickup artists try to confuse the issue to sell you shit, but it almost all comes down to looks.

>>935819720
Somewhat, but not quite.

The woman needs to know you’re interested. You can’t just act like you “don’t give a fuck” about her and expect her to pursue you out of spite or curiosity.

But your interest has to be expressed casually, lightly, and once. After you’ve done that, you gotta back off. Persistence is NOT a virtue these days. You need to give off vibes that you’ll still be perfectly fine if she doesn’t reciprocate. Once she feels like you’re not a fucking desperate loser, she’ll reach back out if she’s interested.

But no, you can’t be sooo nonchalant that she doesn’t even catch on that you’re interested. Women a new dense and selfish. They assume everyone is interested in them by default. You at least need to do *something* to stand out and make your interest clear.