Mainly Costa Rica and Mexico. Yes I have a girlfriend and no she doesn’t know about it. Strictly prostitutes and I have never and will never tell anyone.

I believe that the male biological imperative for sexual novelty has been ignored for too long. Men can have a stable and loving relationship while taking care of sexual needs on the side. Just keep them separate and never forget who the queen is. AMA

Okay I’ll start. I’m in my late 20s and I spent my college years plowing a bunch, but never women I was incredibly attracted to. I was young and broke and unconfident, but I went to college in California so fucking was not that hard. But I wasn’t rich and fratty so I never got any sorority skanks.

5 years out of college I’m rich and successful and way more confident. So I can finally pull the girls who ignored me. Only issue is that I have a great relationship with my girlfriend (except the bedroom is 100% dead). We kiss and cuddle and are super affectionate, but after 6 years I just can’t get to that place of pornstar hot sex. So I wrestled with whether I should stay or go. I realized I didn’t want the 10% that is lacking in my relationship (sex) to screw up the other 90% that is perfect (companionship, affection, loyalty, shared vision)

So I realized that my desires are totally natural and won’t go anywhere. Back before the third wave feminist movement, it wasn’t a big deal. Men would fuck their secretaries, go to brothels, and the whole “wife in the suburbs, girlfriend in the city” trope was widely accepted. Of course, you keep the two worlds separate. And if you got caught, people hated you for humiliating your wife, not for fucking another woman. So you keep your family in tact, keep your wife happy, and show up for her 100%. And understand that she doesn’t need to be your best friend, confidant, mentor, co-parent, AND fuck doll. That’s too much to ask of one person and those unrealistic expectations lead to long term unhappiness in marriage

>>935824165
Post pics of the girls

>>935824269
This was one of the Costa Rican girls. $300 for two hours. Fucked her twice and got a massage in between. Used a condom each time but she swallowed my cum on the second time. Cute little 5 foot tall 18 year old. Gigantic ass and tight pussy

I just told my gf I was getting a massage (partially true) and never contacted this girl again

>>935824002 (OP)
Do you ever get worried your gf will find out or feel guilty about what ur doing?

>>935824526
Guilty about keeping a secret, sure. But healthy relationships have at least a few secrets. You don’t need to be fully transparent. Guilty about fucking them? The average wage in Costa Rica is like $2 an hour. I’m paying 75x that. I’m not an ogre, so sex with me for two hours then resting the rest of the week isn’t a bad gig at all

>>935824366
Nice, still have her contact info? Reverse search yielded nothing.

>>935824791
Her name is Megan, not too hard to find if you search her name plus Costa Rica escort

>>935824641
would u be ok if you found out ur gf was doing the same? I bet not

>>935824990
Found it. Nice one although a tad expensive. How's your Spanish OP? Also, any other nice tica finds?

>>935825011
It’s not the same. Men have a biological need for tons of sex partners and women do not. That’s why women can often forgive a random hookup with a bar slut but not an emotional affair with a secret gf

>>935824002 (OP)
Last time I tried, they were dry and skimped on lube.
I gave up early because I didn't want to condom to tear.
Might be a dumb question but whats your experience in that regard? That bad experience keeps me from going back

>>935824641
$300 is still kind high for 2hrs. That's Average American hooker prices.
Can you dog them out? Like with a 12 inch cocktail sleeve, pass on them or something?

>>935824002 (OP)
How many have you racked up?

>>935825426
Tons. But I usually go to jaco or somewhere else by the coast so massage parlors are the way to go. It’s super easy to just tell your gf or wife you’re getting a massage, bust a nut, then come home rather than coordinating a whole other hotel stay with a hooker who has to come in from San jose

>>935824002 (OP)
what places do you recommend? I've only been to hong kong (the place in tj) an another place in ensenada.

>>935825666
It’s average American prices for some pig. In Costa Rica, $300 is the top dollar for an IG model tier girl for two hours. You can go lower for like $100-200. Picrel is a standard $100 Costa Rican hooker

>>935825649
Nah personally I haven’t had that. Worst that happened to me is that a tica rode me so fast and hard that I didn’t have a chance to hit it from behind and came too fast

>>935825669
So far about 5. Just started doing it last year. I struggled so hard with whether or not to dump my gf for sex with random girls, last year I came to the conclusion that I could have my cake and eat it too

>>935824165
>Back before the third wave feminist movement, it wasn’t a big deal. Men would fuck their secretaries, go to brothels, and the whole “wife in the suburbs, girlfriend in the city” trope was widely accepted
No, no it wasn't. Those people were seen as degenerates and if you were found out you would be disgraced. It is like you are handing feminists the credit for viewing marriage as sacred and treating wives well. Feminists destroyed marriage and enabled degenerates like you to fester and spread in society. Like how they harp on Andrew Tate but they created him and the society in which he thrives.

>>935825686
Costa Rica and Amsterdam have been the best. Costa Rica has no shortage of big booty latinas, Amsterdam has a ton of hot Eastern European whores. Last time in Amsterdam I got a blowjob from a girl like picrel

>>935825845
Lmao you’re stupid. It was always done in secret, but it was widely understood that men needed sex and it was normal to do it with tons of women. You don’t ever embarrass your wife or make her not feel like your number 1. But you’re delusional if you think it wasn’t more understood back then

Why not just watch porn you degenerate nigger

>>935826114
Porn isn’t a substitute and it just makes everything worse. Men need sexual novelty, not just a bunch of orgasms. That means the sounds and smells and the warmth of a wet pussy and the softness of a woman’s skin. Porn tricks your lizard brain into thinking there are a million options available and leaves you wanting more. After I fuck a prostitute, I’m good for a while. I have no interest in sticking around and I want her out of my sight. After I whack it to porn, I want even more right after.

It’s like when you’re hungry and you chew gum vs. eating a big meal

>>935825956
By SOME men. You are assuming all men are alike - they aren't. Assuming that every person's desires are alike is a key sign of low empathy, the inability to understand others. Some men's evolutionary strategy is boning tons of women, others is extremely loyal 1-1 bonding. Perhaps your family going back has always been philanderers, don't assume everyone has your genes. Not all men want that and Northern European society has never been like that in the majority as far back as we have history of them.

>>935826190
What are you talking about? Successful men have always had concubines. I don’t care if you’re the king of Denmark in 1550 or a business man in 1950 or even a successful man today. Having sex with tons of women but bonding with just one has always been a thing.

Now you are correct it doesn’t apply to all men. But I’m speaking in generalities. I’d say it applies to 80% of men which is enough to make it a common trend

>>935824002 (OP)
How do you deal with the guilt? I fucked some random girl on a business trip from the hotel bar 7 years ago and never told my wife. I still feel shitty about it, but I’d be lying if I said I haven’t not masturbated to the memory about 100 times

>>935826716
By realizing that the need for sexual novelty is very normal in men and makes sense when you consider our evolutionary nature. This is a very real issue and monogamous society has two terrible answers for it

1. Stuff it down with shame and religion, pretend like it doesn’t exist or is not a big deal
2. Have an “open relationship”. Women pretend like they want novelty but they really just want someone better and better. Men naturally are repulsed by female sexual promiscuity, as is natural and evolutionary

My system isn’t perfect but it’s a million times better than these two bull shit solutions

>>935826883
Roll

>>935824002 (OP)
>>935824165
Why not just break up with your gf? If the bedroom is dead and you’re both young, why bother?

>>935827288
A few reasons. For starters, I’d have this urge with anyone regardless of how much sexual chemistry I have with my girlfriend. It’s just a natural urge that I learned to channel and control privately and discreetly

But the main one is that I love my gf more than anything. But to expect one person to be your best friend, lover, co-parent, confidant, and to have satisfying sex forever is way too much to ask. So I’ve basically offloaded some of her responsibilities

>>935824002 (OP)
Rolling for that stank hole

>>935824002 (OP)
>Costa Rica and Mexico
why? No whore in your area?

>>935828059
Cheaper for an IG influencer type porn star hooker. Plus it’s legal. Plus I love latinas

>>935828253
Seconded. You haven’t lived until you go to Costa Rica, surf in the morning, have fish tacos for lunch, drink a few cervesas, get a massage then fuck an 18 year old tan skin big booty moaning in Spanish in your ear, head to the beach, take a nap, then fuck another Latina all for like $250 total. Perfect day

>>935828253
Post more pics. I’m booking my trip now