i have a huge fear of being kidnapped/killed/raped to the point i don’t go out much is my fear justified?

>>936198660 (OP)
How old are you?
How many people have you been entirely alone with, or opportunistically alone with?
Those are your odds. You still haven't been kidnapped or murdered, so 0 times, over however long youve lived, and however many people COULD have done it.

Tl;Dr no not common, not likely, but possible for anyone, just unbelievably unlikely. Most people in those situations see it coming, and it's even rarer that they don't.

>>936198729
im 18 atm ive recently been alone with about 4 people but not regularly

You're posting on /b/ and there are no girls on the internet. So unless you are a 12 year old boy, you have very little risk. Otherwise just don't relax around blacks.

If you are a 12 year old boy, get the fuck out of here.

If you are a woman, tits or gtfo.

>>936198823
i am a girl but you’re kinda just gonna have to trust me on that im not posting my tits on here again

>>936198968
Post vag instead.

>>936198767
>Ive recently
Not recently
Over your whole lifespan.
You were ALWAYS able to be kidnapped or murdered. There wasn't a time when suddenly people became a threat to you. It was always a risk, probably more so when you were a child.
4, AND?
I assume you've been near thousands of people, if not millions of people having passed by you, whether a repeat meeting or not.

>>936198660 (OP)
Trust me, you're in zero danger. Nobody wants to molest a pathetic adult

>>936198660 (OP)
They're starting project bluebeam, whatever you do, do not board the ships, frens.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/uY_xgaPRYxA

>>936198968
>again

Oh, were you one of the flatties? Then you only have to worry about degenerates at anime conventions.

>>936199014
i guess this makes sense thank you

>>936198660 (OP)
Overwhelmingly, odds are if it's going to happen, it's an existing friend or family member. Going out among strangers is actually one of the least likely ways to have any of those things happen to you

>>936199111
ughhhhhhhhh

>>936198968
Post feet at least

>>936199049
yeah i am pretty flat

>>936199155
I'm starting to think this is actually your kink.

>>936199183
nevar

>>936199190
THATS NOT WHAR I MEANT

>>936198660 (OP)
Why do you assume bad things like that?
It literally says free candy...

Do you know anyone who knows anyone who's been kidnapped, killed and or raped?
There's a reason why the media hypes it up when it happens and it's not because it's a common occurrence.

If you're not involved with criminals or know any criminals, you're safer than millions of other people.

>>936199214
Yeah it is. You're probably getting wet thinking of one us grabbing you, throwing you over our shoulder whike saying "Uoh cunny!", carrying you to a van and raping you inside of it.

>>936198660 (OP)
Unless you're in a warzone you're probably fine.

>>936199259
some of my friends have gotten raped

>>936199155
Parental kidnapping occurs in childhood, usually related to custody.
Murder is most likely from someone you know, but that's not a feature of statistics, that's a feature of the way social systems work. It's not that people around you want to kill you, it's that you can't know for certain if someone does or doesn't. It is irrelevant to worry about it until a sign was present.
Like, would you be comfortable enough around a complete stranger to ever end up in a situation where you were simultaneously; Alone, Unaccounted for, Unable to be heard, and Reliant on that stranger for transport or continuance?
Almost never, if not never. The only time someone could reliably murder you is when you're truly unaccounted for, and that almost never happens when you're with someone you don't know, because of "trust."
So it's usually a close friend or family member, because you'd take a ride in their car into the woods to see their vacation house, where they'd murder you.
You wouldn't do that if someone you didn't know offered it.

>>936199200
It's easy to tell if someone is a chick or not with JUST one foot reveal

>>936199297
so i should be cautious around people i trust?

>>936199291
Randomly off the street?
Actually raped?
Aside from rape being used in place of regret to feel special and a victim, rape as anyone imagines it is far more rare. It happens but the odds of it happening to you is very very low.

>>936199382
me being a girl has absolutely nothing to do with this thread

>>936199421
that’s one of the things im less worried about its more of being murdered or kidnapped

>>936199259
Most women know women who've been raped.
81% of young girls will experience sexual harassment.

>>936199360
me being a girl has nothing to do with this thread

>>936199526
Being told that you're cute =/= sexual harassment.
>>936199527
Then why mention it?

>>936199527
Yes it does. Most men don't have to worry about being kidnapped or raped.

Also lots of women have a rape fetish

>>936199526
>raped
Not randomly like OP is saying they're scared of. Not actually raped against her will in the moment but afterwards when she regrets it.
Sexual harassment sure but not rape.

>>936199494
Like I said, you don't know anyone who knows anyone murdered or kidnapped randomly. Hundreds of people you know indirectly living their lives and they're fine.
There's a reason why for kidnapping and murders they look at family and friends as suspects. It's because random strangers doing it to random strangers is insanely rare, so rare that it endangers victims to first assume that it was done by complete strangers.

>>936199580
it was brought up
>>936198823

>>936198660 (OP)
It is very rare and you're likely not in the group of people most prone to be subjected to kidnapping and getting killed.
So yeah, your fear is irrational if you let it rule you to the point of agoraphobia.
Be aware of bad situations and people who wish you ill by all means, but don't let that stop you from going outside.

>>936199597
thank you like a lot actually
should i still carry defense stuff like pepper spray or it that bullshit?

>>936199642
So is it relevant or not?
Post vag while you decide your answer.

>>936199657
im gonna try walking to walmart alone later i think

>>936199382
No, you should not worry about these things because it's not a reliably predictable issue.
You will dodge many bullets in your life. You are paranoid, and likely have an anxiety disorder, which means that you likely are much more skeptical of people in general. Again, most people this is going to happen to, they have a feeling but they don't prevent it. Most murders just don't happen, that has to be true.

>>936199719
I used to be in your shoes until I realized that the vast majority of people don't care about me and that out of the ones that do, only a tiny minority of them actually wish me ill.
Nobody spends as much time thinking about you as you spend on thinking about them thinking about you.

>>936199689
If it's legal, yes. I'm a Britbong so I can't carry anything if it's intention is for self defence (retarded) but I'd be carrying it if I could.
The only thing that's bullshit is self defence "martial arts", pressure points and shit. The only way you defend yourself is using overwhelming force (kicking their balls into their throats, jabbing your fingers into their eyes, a gun or as you suggested, pepper spray) and then running away.

>don't come to the UK at all, you can't legally defend yourself and criminals won't be punished if they attack you
>people in the UK are basically piñatas for criminals

Exercise normal caution like don't hang around bad people and don't go to bad neighborhoods at night but do yourself a favor, search for homicide statistics for your country (I assume US), and see that the homicide number is in the low thousands, for a country of millions. You are very unlikely to get murdered at random.

>>936199736
i think the reason why im so scared is because i lived in a very unsafe area from the time i was born to like a year ago but recently moved to a much safer area so im just used to not being able to trust my surroundings

>>936199799
Piggybacking off this to tell you that you can't be racist being safe.
If you see people that your mind tells you is dangerous but you're scared of being perceived as racist, stop. You will make yourself a victim by ignoring danger.

>>936198767
Don't travel to the brown countries until you are ugly.

>>936199870
i wasn’t planning on it

>>936199786
Going to the UK, Europe or India alone as a woman is just asking to be gang raped at this point.

>>936199719
Give me 30 min to get my black ski mask and black and white striped shirt out of my closet and to paint "free candy" on the side of my unmarked van first.

>>936199842
i usually stay away from darker people they’re very loud and not very respectful

>>936198660 (OP)
It totally depends on your karma.
If it is your karma to get kidnapped and raped, there's no way to avoid it, even in the safest neighborhood. And when it's not your karma you can walk around at the narco areas in mexico and nothing will happen.

>>936199901
what about australia?

>>936199870
That won't help you. They'll even rape the Fr*nch.

They'll rape anything that looks vaguely feminine.

>>936199924
i have a lucky cricket that i take care of he gives me luck

>>936199580
>I'm gonna just ignore the statistic and say some random shit.
Dude go outside.

>>936199930
It's a coin toss between being raped or murdered by the local venemous fauna.

At least the Abbos are too high on petrol fumes to do anything most days.

>>936199990
Why does that cricket look cute?

>>936199907
No problem with that.

>>936199901
>Europe
No, the UK. Europe might be bad but at least in Europe you wouldn't be took to caught for using your bag as self defence against a rapist. And then your rapist would actually get arrested and possibly deported.
Meanwhile here child rapists can avoid prison because prisons are overcrowding if they're brown, despite prisons being overcrowded due to policing social media.

We recently had a foreign woman arrested for stabbing her rapist. They called it "an escalation of violence."
Stabbing a rapist as you're being raped, is too much force according to UK law.

>>936200056
hes so adorable usually im horrified of bugs but hes my baby he jumped on my arm one night and i caught him under a cup then got an enclosure for him and stuff because its unlucky to kick out or kill a cricket he chirps so much and i love him

>>936199996
Most of it is just women who can't take a compliment without it being seen a threat.
Sometimes men are just being nice and don't wish you any ill will.

>>936198660 (OP)
unlikely, but men some places/times will act creepy if you appear even vaguely fem

i carry some defense/alert items because they're scary, and try to avoid walking alone at night

>>936198660 (OP)

Just checking the get.
>>936200000

>>936200159
i would never walk out at night

>>936200216
Now that's sexual harassment.

>>936200154

>>936198729
this, unless you live outside the west
mexican cartels kill 30k a year in mexico
that's 82 a day

>>936198660 (OP)
That only happens to people who don't mind their own business and rightfully so too.

>>936198660 (OP)
You more likely to be kidnapped by slavers if you're scared.

>>936200096
Tell me you're spending too much time on alt right twitter without saying you spend time on alt right twitter, the post

>>936202712
Oi you gotta loicence for that post?

>>936198660 (OP)
you have nothing to fear unless you are an activist

>>936204942
>unless you are an activist
All activists or specific ones?

>>936198660 (OP)
aaaaaaaaa