how do i cope with fucking up and losing somebody way above my league. she was perfect and somehow was interested in me but i fucked up and ruined it before it could even start. it could've been the greatest thing to ever happen to me, but i just ruined it. i can't get over it, how do i cope? also
>pic unrel

bump. anybody?

>>936287458 (OP)
Probably wasn't gonna be the greatest thing but I know it felt like it
maybe try asking >>/adv/

Honestly, become great, so great that her and anyone else will look at you and your life and be like daym. You that image to drive you, to move on and to become better. That way you don't have to deal with all the what ifs that are going through your mind rn because they irrelevant

>>936288481
that does make sense, but like it's not something i can immediately do rn, i am struggling to cope and feel like shit right now, and don't know how to stop it. this was also months ago.
>>936288414
maybe i'll make another thread there at one point

>>936287458 (OP)
Was in the exact situation but it was my fault so you learn to just move on. I treated her like a cumrag but I was also a retarded 19 year old. She was barely 18 and I basically played her because I assumed she was cheating on me.

Just get over it and find someone that is like her.

>>936287458 (OP)
>before it could even start. it could've been the greatest thing
youre hanging yourself from hypothetical ropes
stop looking at her instagrams and tiktoks and whatnots, let her fade away
learn from this, be better next time

>>936288794
>Just get over it and find someone that is like her.
i don't know if i'll ever find somebody like her, like she was perfect. and if i ever do find somebody i still feel sad that i spent all this time without her.

pretend you're not the monster she knows you to be?

>>936287458 (OP)
You cope by meeting someone else once you’re with some new girl you’ll forget all about the previous one.

>>936287458 (OP)
If you have her nudes and they're good you'll literally never get over her
If you don't have her nudes then just find another hottie duh

>>936288481
You must be 18 or older to post here.

>>936288945
>youre hanging yourself from hypothetical ropes
idk maybe, but it was very likely to turn out to be something great for me.
>stop looking at her instagrams and tiktoks and whatnots, let her fade away
i'm not doing any of that, i just can't stop thinking about it.

>>936289150
Did you at least try to be with her?
Just wait tilll she has 4 kids and you're still jacking off to her nudes from almost 2 decades ago

>>936289150
>idk maybe, but it was very likely to turn out to be something great for me.
it was just as likely to turn sour about 2 weeks in, you dont know. you just dont know.

life fucks you in ways you cant imagine, accept it for how it is now, learn from it, and move on.

>>936289093
i do, but i don't even ever look at them.

>>936289304
Kek yeah you're fucked

>>936289267
well, i doubt she'll ever have 4 kids, she has a penis...

>>936289292
that is also true, but if it never did go sour it would've been perfect, i'll probably never get a chance with somebody like that again.

>>936287458 (OP)
By sharing her nudes

>>936289481
>if
more of that hypothetical rope

>>936289387
>she has a penis...
alright you know what nevermind you should get an actual rope and neck yourself

>>936289387
oh just fuck you loser, waste of time

>>936289535
that's mean... why does that even matter. i'm suffering just the same

>>936289582
wth... why?

>>936289610
its pride month, make your parents proud and walk into oncoming traffic

>>936289610
Dumped by a troon....rip

>>936289633
girls don't have penises, retard. no wonder you're stupid enough to get hung up on some bitch.

>>936289665
what's wrong with you?
>>936289722
but i never said she was a girl...
>>936289684
it was the cutest troon i'll ever find

>>936289790
Maybe try an actual female next time they have slightly more mentall stability.

>>936289864
real females aren't really into femboys sadly

>>936289965
>femboy
more like whinybitchboy

>>936289997
>.<

>>936289304
Post 'em

>>936290149

>>936290274
eww

>>936290357
homo

>>936290396
said the whinybitchboy

>>936290468
oh no please don't call me humiliating names...

>>936290694
ok

>>936290759
oh...

>>936290274
Wtf is the point of a femboy if the penis doesn't work.

>>936290274
More

>>936291109
oh it works. but she wasn't a femboy anyway, she was trans.

>>936291282
Interesting...

>>936291282
Let's see a video

>>936291641
don't have any sorry... had i not fucked up maybe i would've had some and i wouldn't have been alone and sad today but i fucked up so i don't have any videos.

>>936291829
Get your revenge by posting everything you got

>>936291884
these are pretty much all. only had a few pics.

>>936292083
Hot that she liked the cage

>>936292313
yeah... she was gonna lock me up too and be my keyholder and play with me and all, had it worked out of course.

>>936287458 (OP)
Realize first that part about how hot she is it doesn’t matter. It could’ve been any of the girls you’ll date, the problem is you fumbled it. All you can do is reflect and figure out how you can make sure it doesn’t happen like that again. Kicking yourself while you’re down isn’t going to help and if you’re hung up like “oh Ill never find someone as X or Y again” you’re setting yourself up for failure or low effort endeavors. Forget about her and move on, and if you’re ever get a similar opportunity just be a better version of yourself that time.

>>936292415
Two caged twinks in a relationship?

>>936292614
yes :3

>>936292645
OK, show yourself caged then