Thread 936404540

My gf told me that there was a time in her life where she was having sex parties, orgies I guess idk, every week for about 2 years. Meanwhile I was a virgin until I was 30 and with her.
It only came up because she mentioned seeing one of her friends naked and I jokingly said, "what, like at a sex party?"

Honestly I feel more jealous that she's been to sex parties and bdsm dungeons and such than I am disgusted, but also kind of in shock. Idk. We've been together for 2 years and I love her but Ive hardly talked to her since this shit came up.

Idk bros. Idk

>>936404540 (OP)
>I love her

You love her because she makes you hard in your pants or you love her because you deeply want to take care of her no matter what?

>>936404600
The second one much more so, but feel like I've been totally experience mogged and left out sort of. Idk it's a complex feeling.
Where was my debauchery arc? All I got is a stupid imaginary spell book.
Like I could probably find one to go to with her, but I worry that'll just feel like a pitty orgy. If it had been one or two times and she wanted to go to one with me it would be okay, if she had never been to any before and wanted to experience her first one with me it would be ideal but it's just kinda fucked the way it is rn

>>936404540 (OP)
What's the problem here? As long as she's not doing while she's with you and she doesn't have and STD it doesn't really matter. Also post gf open bob and vageen.

>>936404831
The problem is I've always wanted to experience an orgy or a bdsm fetish party and I've never gotten to and I'm in my 30s and it'll probably never happen. I wish she never told me dude. I wish I never asked. Hindsight is 20/20 I guess.
I'm just jealous and feel under experienced

If her answers scare you OP then cease asking scary questions.

>>936405229
I didn't realize it was a scary question until I heard the answer. I thought she was going to say in a gym locker room or something

>>936404906
Why wouldn't it happen. You're literally with someone who doesn't seem to be against it, has experience with them and doesn't consider any of them a taboo. She's clearly a key to that side of you if you really want to. The fact that she's honest about it with you says way more than you think tbh.

>>936404540 (OP)
She senses your insecurity and she doesn't like you that much anymore.

I was a virgin until I met my gf but not as late as you. She had a few sexual experiences before, but all normal. I use the difference in experience as my justification for banging hot brazilian prostitutes in their early 20s when i'm in London on trips to the office. I've found i'm not jealous of her getting banged by no life fast food workers.
Maybe this information can be of use to you.

>he got the answer for the questioned he asked
>b-but i meant it jokingly
>now he's bothered
>self inflicted wound
you still asked anon. you did it to yourself. next time don't be a dumbass. time to swallow that pill

>>936404540 (OP)
She sounds like a fucking whore, anon.

I always felt like that but even without a gf, anon.
it's like there's a secret exciting world outside your own, where people around you go to, and you find out later... when you feel excluded and left behind.
get used to it, stop thinking about it and enjoy what you have now. you never had that, you never will, thinking about it makes it worse because you can't do anything about it.
this comes from a 28 virgin dude who found out when I was 13 that there was a meeting place for my peers to make out randomly with each other, and most of them were also fucking. of course, when I showed up they all went away.

>>936408360
eh, op reads like row quarity baitu fishu

>>936404906
Anon, do you think people over 30 aren't allowed at orgies and BDSM events? Most people probably don't get into them until their 30s/40s

>>936404540 (OP)
I forgor

>>936404540 (OP)
Get her to take you, you dumb cunt.

>>936404540 (OP)
This is why I will never fuck someone's sloppy seconds. I am well aware of the fact that there is a 99.9% chance I will never get the virgin gf I dream of, but I would rather die a virgin than degrade myself by sticking my dick into one of those disgusting creatures, knowing full well that there will never be a strong bond between us EVER because of how she shared her body with other people before you. I guess it's different if you learn about her whore past AFTER you're already in a relationship with her and have fucked her several times already, that would feel like the ultimate betrayal I'd imagine. It's sad that these days you don't usually know such information until after you've been together for a while, rather than from the very start. Imagine bonding with this beautiful woman that you think is the one, then at some point she nonchalantly proclaims "by the way I fucked like 50 other people before you" like it's nothing. I'd feel disgusted and betrayed, and almost like a cuck to a certain extent. It's basically her saying "oh yeah I've shared all my best memories and experiences with these people before you, all that's left for you now are the scraps"

Imagine getting a pizza, then several random dudes take almost all of the slices, and you're left with a single, shitty leftover piece (that's also cold). The injustice will fester at the back of your mind and never go away while you are with her, it will be a constant reminder of who you're with.

tl;dr don't worry about whores and just focus on your self, if the right one comes along then so be it, otherwise live life for yourself.

>>936409576
>It's basically her saying "oh yeah I've shared all my best memories and experiences with these people before you, all that's left for you now are the scraps"
Damn
Yeah

Maybe I should just do some hard drugs and cheat on her so I have my own cool experiences

>>936409816
If she's had a great sex life before you, and with you it's just 'scraps' ... that might be a you problem, anons.

>>936409938
I was a virgin till I was 30 its obviously a me problem. Doesn't make me feel any better though

>>936409979
NTA but I’m a happily married man, not an incel, and I would find this repulsive as well. There’s nothing less attractive than a promiscuous woman.

>>936409938
>I-I can fuck her better than those other guys though!
I think you're missing the point here anon

What a bunch of pansy ass manchildren. Waaaah! My partner has had SEX before! Of course they have. We're all human. Grow the fuck up.

>>936410362
>>936410362
>Waaaah! My partner has had SEX before! Of course they have. We're all human

>>936410362
Cuck cope

>>936404540 (OP)
How do you even find a sex party?
Is it like a bunch of friends meeting to fuck or an event you find online?
Are we talking like a swinger party?

>>936410489
Idk, I didn't ask her for more details after I learned how many she has been to

>>936410526
Well as a fellow person who doesn't get laid and had the same feeling with my ex I'm gonna give u the advice to not ruin it. You're in a very good situation because your gf can get you into these kinds of parties. You should seriously consider becoming a cuck because the fetish uses your insecurities and jealousy and turns it into a sexual high.
I made the mistake of being too jealous when she was having sex with her 6 foot something friend instead of just enjoying it. She also took me to a fetish party and it was all very sexy and interesting.
I hope she's hot and you're happy with her. It might be your chance to have a fulfilling life. You can always be mad and lonely later.

>>936410419
>>936410450
There's nothing to cope about. Your partner's sexual history has nothing to do with you or your relationship unless they have some kind of infection from it. Just like I wouldn't expect to them give a shit about my own sexual history.

>>936410831
>Your partner's sexual history has nothing to do with you or your relationship
Literal cuck, LMAO

>>936410831
>Your partner's sexual history has nothing to do with you
Galaxy sized cuck cope

>>936410801
I'm not gonna ruin it due to a shocked response, that's why I'm drunk at 9am and posting on here, I don't wanna be a cuck though

>>936410848
>>936411015
You only think it's cuck behaviour because of your own insecurities and inadequacies. Prove me wrong.

>>936411162
If she still liked the sex parties she'd still be going to them. I'd say focus on each other rather than worry about the fact you never got to be a degenerate.

>>936411434
You only think cuck behaviour is okay because you have such low self esteem you can’t imagine wanting better. No one wants to be a loser.

>>936404906
Grow up. Humans and their asshole problems.

>>936404540 (OP)
>A whore and a loser get together in the 30's
>Loser is jealous he wasn't more of a whore as he aged compared to his gf
My guy, you probably saved yourself from pregnancy scares, STD's and all kinds of bullshit drama that comes from entering into any kind of sexual relationship. The fact your gf used to be so out of control is a huge red flag. Unless you're also so what mentally unstable too which I'm gonna guess is a yes

>>936411434
Your past sexual behavior is an indicator of your personality , none of which are good. Someone who can go through that many bodies is far more likely to have personality traits from the dark tetrarchy, most likely struggles to form genuine pair bonds with partners, has repressed self destructive tendencies from trauma or abuse, or might be a literal sex addict.

None of it is good my guy, and since you were a virgin until 30 you probably lack the experience or self esteem to understand why this is a bad position to be in

>>936411162
>drunk at 9am and posting on here
So you were a virgin until you were 30, you are jealous at your gf being a whore before you could be, you want to go out to BDSM parties, and you're an alcoholic?

This has to be some flavor of white trash , reminds me too much of home

Excellent larp thread.

>>936411434
No, it's cuck behaviour because it is, not cause I think it is. Being okay with your partner sleeping with other men is literally cuck behaviour, regardless of which point in time they slept with said man.
>u-um, it's okay because she fucked that guy BEFORE she met me instead of after
Break down your mental gymnastics and you'll realise how in denial you really are.

Now you could say "Damn I'm angry with how she slept with other guys" which would at least give your mindset some merit, but that's not what you're saying. You're openly accepting of the fact that other guys fucked her, in other words you're admitting to yourself that you're a cuck, because if you weren't a cuck you would be against that behaviour, not endorsing it.

>>936404540 (OP)
>Idk bros. Idk
you do know actually

>>936411662
Yeah I guess, but I don't wanna live without ever having gotten to be a degenerate I need the experience or I'm gonna lay on my death bed in 30 years and feel unfulfilled
>>936412071
To be fair I worked a 12 hour nightshift last night so it's basically 10pm for me

>>936404540 (OP)
So she slept around before she settled down, so what?
If she's that open about it you have 2 options: 1) be a little bitch and let your insecurities get the better of you - it will end your relationship or 2) use it to your advantage and coax her in to taking you to a sex party and have a wild sex life.

Personally I'd be down as fuck to watch my wife (32 50kg) get spitroasted by a couple of anons but that's completely off the table for her.
You have a golden ticket anon, don't be a fucking faggot and ruin it

>>936412009
I'm not OP. You're not wrong though. Nympho bitches have issues. It's not impossible to be a healthy adult and live that lifestyle, but there is very slim overlap in that Venn diagram.

>>936412492
You'll be your partner's prince charming, have a white wedding and deflower your beautiful princess when you consummate your marriage. Enjoy your virgin fantasy, kid.

>>936409576

>Ugly turbovirgin detected

OP TITS OR GTFO

>>936412974
>>936413067
Still'd rather be a virgin than a cuck

>>936411767
>projection

Thinking self esteem means the same thing as insecurity.
Look if you want the opportunity to fuck around that much, you can do it now if you can’t ever or don’t want to ok whatever, also life isn’t fair sometimes. Far be it from you to be able to see anyone not you as human though. Truly a waist of fucking space and the lowest form of a human.

>>936413268
Yeah I'm sure it's 100% your decision to remain a virgin because all the girls are sluts and nothing to do with you being women repellent.

>>936409938
>>936411434
>Prove me wrong.
youre female brained

>>936413472
and im sure you sleep around because you want to, not because you cant lock chad down

>>936413472
I don't care about what the girls I don't care about are thinking. When there's a girl who I like (who isn't a whore), then I'll start worrying.
>erm that will never appear tho
Don't care, I'll just die a virgin then. Still better than being a cuck.

Don't shoot the messenger (me) just because they're pointing out a slut when they see one, or how much of a cuck you are.

>>936404540 (OP)
Get out of there NOW OP. With your dignity intact. Simply block her out of everything and never speak to her again, she doesn’t deserve an explanation. Whore will understand. Remember Muslim countries would honor kill her so you’re being benevolent if anything