>>936499660 (OP)Dedicate your life to Allah
>>936499660 (OP)you dont im 8 years going dating someone new id drop her in 10 seconds if it meant getting my ex back
>>936499660 (OP)bro Ive forgotten my current gfs at times. Having strong emotions or attachments like that as a guy is some bitch made bullshit. No one woman including your ex is special. They'll emotional and they piss and shit like everyone else. They're gas bags
Take the time to really visualize her getting absolutely plowed into utter ecstatic oblivion by someone else's huge cock, and realizing how much she was missing out on when she was with you.
Then be happy for her being rid of you.
Repeat every time you think of her.
It is easy when someone is out of the picture to imagine all of the good things.
1. Write down all of the bad things. Never forget them.
2. write down all of the good things.
3. Seek out women with the good attributes and not the bad.
4. I'm guessing she dumped you. she wanted a different kind of man.
4a. Do you want to be that kind of man? No? Then remember that it isn't worth giving up yourself to have her.
4b. Do you want to be that kind of man? Then get your shit together. The best thing about not having a solid woman is that you can work on yourself. Whether that is moving up in corporate, or getting in shape, learning a skill, or getting a degree, women only find you attractive when you are moving up.
5. Start fucking other bitches. A lot of them. It doesn't matter if they are dogs. You just start fucking and realize you have options.
6. Trade up. Women want what other women have. They are petty. Once you have 5 bitches on call, other girls are going to want you. Trade up but don't stick with one. Keep going until you get what you want and even then, don't stop working at getting other bitches on the line. Women won't respect you if you can't pull other girls. Be high value. Think of it as those stories where some guy trades up from a pen to a house on facebook and craigslist.
7. Really missing that girl all the time just means your life isn't as full as it should be. Whatever route you take, fill your life up with something valuable. You saw your life on a path with that girl, now you are on a different path. Stop regretting whatever was on that other path and look at the good things ahead on the path that you are on now.
>>936501529Not OP, but thanks Anon. This helps me a lot.