>It's a baseball quote, about competitions not romance
The quote is not dating advice. The quote is not a direct quote. The dude who said it was a baseball coach talking about his 7th-place team. He was talking about competition, and there is
>no
>love
>in
>competition

>>936614702 (OP)
Okay but it is still solid advice for dating

The problem is guys think the option is to be a pushover or an asshole


The truth is you can be confident and nice it’s just a lot easier I to “fake” confidence by being a dick

>>936614702 (OP)
jim carrey is a god damned hero for saving that dog at the beginning of ace ventura

>>936614799
Basically, there's no hope.

>>936614702 (OP)
it's still applicable to dating though, who cares where it came from?

>>936614702 (OP)
do you genuinely think there's no competition in mate selection? you deserve to die a virgin in that case.

>>936614799
>it is still solid advice for dating
Fuck no. Unless you have a specific reason to, don't take a quote about loveless competition to love. Is there a benefit?

>>936614702 (OP)
What is the exact quote, and who made it?

>>936614892
No love in competition, anon

>>936614702 (OP)
Why would nice guys be bad at baseball? It doesn't make much sense

>>936614905
I dunno, contents can be pretty loveless

>>936615193
>don't take a quote about loveless competition to love
I don't know how to tell you this, but dating is absolutely a competition, that's even more brutal than sports

>>936614942
Knowing the quote is about sports not romance, what do you think?

>>936615337
Exact quote is by Leo Durocher, he said
>The nice guys are all over there, in 7th place

>>936615370
The coach who said it had a 7th-place team. He was like, they're nice but they're last

>>936615385
>even more brutal than sports
What are you, Mario fighting Bowser with 1 life remaining?

>>936615544
no, you're fighting for the continuation of your genes through creating offspring with a woman, and you have to convince her that you're worth fucking and having children with

>>936615612
>you're fighting
Fighting how. A nice smile?

>>936615752
fighting by being more attractive than any of the other men she encounters
best of luck

I am in my 40s and my highschool crush said she never knew I liked her because I was so nice and wasn't just trying to fuck her. My current wife didn't know I was hitting on her I was being so nic. I would ask her to coffee or to lunch and she just thought I was being nice. Both of them told me straight up that I wasn't direct enough in pursuing them.

>>936615838
Exactly how aggressively did you brush your hair