Thread 936658895

Please don't give some retarded >lereddit answer about how its the "connection" and "love" that makes it feel better. i'm talking about only
physical pleasure here. is it actually as fucking amazing as the entire world, movies, society, social media and our own body and mind makes it out to be?? reading people's stories tells me otherwise tbh but watching porn or my friends describing their hookups makes it seem worth it. im a 20 year old virgin and going to an actual university this fall full of sluts. i wanted to wait for marriage and would but this isn't the 1950s. so should i even bother hooking up? im a decent looking guy and decent height. but tbh jacking off seems more pleasuresble. im the type of guy that my whole body shakes from even one finger on my dick when im gooning, and holding a load for a week and jacking off feels amazing. i never use lube or lotion either because it reduces the pleasure. so a slippery wet loose pussy thats already been fucked by a bunch of guys doesn't sound too appeasing tbh. maybe trans girls are tighter? idek. im only looking for physical pleasure. the tighter the better. it also seems that women experience way more pleasure fron sex than men. bitches are always moaning, rolling their eyes, creaming and squirting and going crazy meanwhile the guy just keeps doing the same stroke without even making a sound. but if sex didn't feel so good for guys too i doubt the entire world would be fighting for it lol. in that case i might wait for marriage since im a 20 year old virgin and can get married to another virgin through church. better than hooking up with random loose ran thru college sluts. idk. let me know bros
>t. 20 year old virgin

No. Its just masturbation with more steps

>>936658895 (OP)
I didn’t read your blog post but I’m assuming you’re talking about eating female ass, so I’ll just say this: it’s delicious as fuck.

>>936658895 (OP)
Depends how big your dick is.

>>936659071
as I expected
>>936659080
you have the attention span of a squirrel. I can read what I wrote in 5 seconds max. i'm not eating some bitch's ran thru pussy let alone her ass unless she's a virgin like me.
>>936659129
6.5 inches x 5.5-6 inches girth uncut, jacking off has always felt crazy good for me

Married now, but back in my prime I slept with 14 women and I can honestly say that it's not all that they make it out to be. I get as much pleasure from fucking a woman as I do from jerking off, but orgasms from a blowjob seem to build slower and hit harder for me than with regular sex.
The best part of sex for me is getting my partner off, even if it's just with my tongue. Even now at 40 I feel like my wife gets way more pleasure than me when we have sex and I in turn usually end up jerking off afterwards thinking about the act of making her cum more than how I felt during the whole thing.

>>936658895 (OP)
Yeah it's pretty alright.

>>936658895 (OP)
Uh, I guess if you're a robot whose only metric for sexual pleasure is a straight line on how much physical sensation it gives you, and you think anyone to the contrary is a "leredditor" or whatever, no. Just nofap for a month and then destroy your nasty little shit with a kung-fu grip your whole life if that's your whole shit, I guess. Hope this helps.

>>936659229
Nah, I come here to look at pictures, not read some whiney and crying journal entry, made evident by the question itself. If you lack the determination to find out yourself, then just keep playing your mario games and leave it at that.

>>936659298
well shit. unc speaking facts. why does it seem the woman always gets more pleasure from sex??? also would you say the tightest bitch you slept with felt better than jerking off? it also seems blowjobs felt better pleasure wise than pussy
>>936659444
yeah but is it as good as everyone makes it out to be like some mind blowing experience? why do girls always dress like sluts and try to have so much sex? seems like it seems better for women because you don't see no guys doing that shit to the extent women do for sex eg makeup, wearing tight yogapants and shorts, posting themselves as sluts, flirting..its unfair for women to get more pleasure from sex than men

>>936659574
I already knew a leredditor was going to reply with that mushy gushy bullshit. Women's only metric for sex is literally physical pleasure lmao. Have you ever heard a group of women talk to eachother about? Rather have kungfu grip than loose roast beef hole with 20 cocks in it bud.
>>936659587
Right I'll keep paying "mario games" while keep sticking your tongue in literal shit. Enjoy eating poop I guess

>>936659626
>also would you say the tightest bitch you slept with felt better than jerking off?
I've only actually slept with one girl who had a pussy tight enough to make that much of a difference. I mean it felt good, but it wasn't some mind blowing nirvana inducing experience. Before you ask, no she wasn't a virgin. She was kind of a slut, but she did Kegels and just had a naturally tight pussy.

>>936660108
thanks bro. i'm probably just gonna wait for marriage then. or stay a virgin forever and acheive nirvana as a wizard

No, even if you find a girl worthy of consideration for "an amazing fuck", chances are higher that she'll leave you or only sleep with you a handful of times. Then you spend the rest of your life chasing dragons.

>>936659726
>leredditor
>have you heard how women speak
>women are soulless sex seekers
>women this, women that
>roast beef
Okay, poltard, wasn't aware I was speaking to an apex predator alpha male chewing down Alpha Brain supps quicker than he can suck golf balls through a garden hose, my bad king.
Kid, only thing I can say that you'll listen to is if you're so flustered about roast beef dishes or trans asshole — why not just try it out and see for yourself?
A real mean green chicken nuggy machine like yourself should be able to pull, right? It's not like you're some retarded redpilled incel, right?
(there's always Vegas!)

>>936658895 (OP)
I randomly come on /b/ after years and this is the first thing I see lmao

Yes sex is fun, no getting laid it's not life changing or w/e (notice how in those shows and shit you mention there's always more at play than just the act itself)
Also I know we're on /b/ but you seem a bit weird about the whole thing, ease up broski

>>936658895 (OP)

I'm really going to try not to give a le-reddit answer, but what makes sex better than jacking off is kinda the bits on-top of the outright cock-feel.

There is more to titillation and pleasure than the pure physical sensation your cock is getting, but that is different too, and that's your actual question, so I'll start there.
I've always held that a good fleshlight or equivalent will get you 90% of the way to the feeling of a real pussy, probably 100% of the way if you're wearing a rubber. But there's nuances to a living organism that you can feel, the subtle clenches and loosening of the vagina can create fantastic sensations, and having her move with you can really enhance the feel of the fuck.

This then ties in with your love for the virgin-wife. Put whatever biases or per-conceived notions of "ran thru college sluts" you have out of your head. Sex is a co-operative experience that takes practice, communication, and patience. Literally everyone's first time is underwhelming in some way, some are outright bad. So there's a good bet that if you wait and have a mutual cherry-pop with your new wife, you can be certain it will meet your expectation that sex is no better than jacking off, because neither of you will have any experience.

Now I said there's more to it than just the sensation on the cock, what tf am I on about? Here I will again state that I'm NOT referring to "connection" or "love", these things of course play a part in attraction, but you're "talking about only physical pleasure here", and physical pleasure encompasses more than cock-feel.

Maybe you're really turned on by the smell of a woman in the throws of passion, maybe the gentle grazing of her hair on your nipples as she rides you is going to send you over the edge, maybe your earlobes are an erogenous zone you didn't know about until she bit down when you hilted in her cunt. These are all things that provide physical pleasure, and jacking off can't give you.

pt2 incoming

>>936658895 (OP)
> is sex even actually that worth it?
yes, it's very good

> so should i even bother hooking up?
You know there are options between 1950s turboprude and being a whore? You can get a girlfriend. Sex gets better with someone as you do it more times because you get to know what they like and such.

>bitches are always moaning, rolling their eyes, creaming and squirting and going crazy meanwhile the guy just keeps doing the same stroke without even making a sound.
if you haven't had sex, how would you know this? Stop talking about porn.

>>936658895 (OP)
turned 30 last month. as a teen i thought getting laid was going to fix my social awkwardness/insecurities etc. i got laid at 17 and nothing changed. spent 18-24 focusing on getting pussy and it never made my life any better. it felt good, but it was a waste of time and there was the occasional retarded drama. focus on building a life that's meaningful and finding a long-term partner you enjoy being around. unironically, jerking off is better than wasting your time fucking random girls. bitches love to waste your time. god forbid you catch something, or even worse get some random whore pregnant.

>>936658895 (OP)
>>936660745

Plus, you know how important visuals are to arousal, that's why you watch porn right? You know it's not as simple as "the tighter the better", you also like something to look at, you like watching them get off. Now that, but in person!?!? There's truly no comparison, watching a girl "cum" in porn is one thing, but feeling a girl cum on your cock, as her pussy spasms and clenches around you, fcking nirvana man.

And you can actually touch them!!! I've fucked around with real-doles and fancy fondle toys as sexpo and the like, nothing compares to real tits'n'arse. The feeling of actually playing with those tits while she rides you, or actually smacking that ass and hearing her squeal... *chefs kiss*. These are all things that undeniably enhance the "physical pleasure" of sex.

And finally, don't write-off the unknown factor. You're a gooner, so I know you love the sensation of an edge session. Imagine how much you'll shiver and buck when you're tied up blindfolded, and you DON'T KNOW when the next touch is coming.
Are the nerve endings on your dick feeling anything different? No.
Is the pleasure enhanced because it's not your hand? Absolutely.

So TL;DR:
Is the cock-feel of sex any better than a skilled fap - no, not really
Is the physical pleasure of sex better than same - With practice, sure!
Is sex even actually worth? Up to you :)

>>936659626
You seem porn brained anon

>>936658895 (OP)
I didn't read all that shit but a good, tight pussy will make you cum buckets harder than your hand ever could.

>>936659626
>why does it seem the woman always gets more pleasure from sex???
Because most men actually blow their load instead of learning how to control their pelvic floor and become multi orgasmic. You don't have to blow your load to have an orgasm. But blowing kills all the drive and expends a LOT of energy so yeah, of course women have more pleasure from it when men settle for that.
>why do girls always dress like sluts and try to have so much sex?
Because they're children who seek external validation instead of internal validation, despite how "independent" they say they are.
>eems like it seems better for women because you don't see no guys doing that shit to the extent women do for sex eg makeup, wearing tight yogapants and shorts, posting themselves as sluts, flirting..its unfair for women to get more pleasure from sex than men
You're basically saying "why do women act like women? I don't see no men acting like women". We don't act like that because we aren't emotional, validation seeking pussies. Look at faggots. They do the same shit women do.
>.its unfair for women to get more pleasure from sex than men
A man on his purpose has a much better life than women do. The amount of power and control we can have? Vs a woman who's basically made to be our helpmate? Also, as I said before, men can be multiorgasmic if they put in the effort. It's not womens' fault most men don't care to do that. Also doesn't help that society has been conditioned to cut some of the most sensitive and pleasure inducing parts of a child's dick off as soon as they're born.

>>936658895 (OP)
millions of years can't be wrong u weird fucklord

>>936661500
>>936659626
said another way: it's not the sex itself that women are going for. It's the validation from getting a dude they're attracted to that they're after. It's all the likes they get on social media. This shit is like air to them. But it's misguided because most dudes will fuck almost anything. But whether or not he commits to her is another thing entirely. This is part of why you have 4s thinking they're 10s just because a 10 guy fucked them. Not taking into account that the guy wouldn't be seen dead with that bitch in public, never-mind actually being that sluts boyfriend or husband.

Depends on the context and the woman's enthusiasm. If they want to just lay on the bed and just let you get your rocks off, use your hand. If there is enthusiasm behind her actions, I take that kinda action everytime. Married nearly 15 years and still hitting it every day atleast once.

>>936661528
>TRILLIONS OF YEARS OF MUH EVOLUTION
>MUH FISH GROW LEG AND WALK ON LAND
>SO MUH BENIS FEEL GOOD NOW

Threads like these really do attract the retarded atheist reddit neckbeards that blow their washed up roastie wife's boyfriend. OP asked specifically about physical pleasure and the replies are about muh evolution and being a beta loser for BBC leftovers. This board is truly dead.
>>936658895 (OP)
Physical pleasure wise, a good fleshlight is pretty much the same shit as a pussy.

>>936661788
Nice dubs. Never used a fleshlight. Are they good? Do you cum in them, then just rinse it out? Do you add some kind of lube? Are they warm? Are they dishwasher safe, atleast top rack?

Last ones a joke, the rest are serious questions.

>>936660401
>poltard
>alpha male
>redpilled
>incel
>real mean green chicken nuggy machine
Holy fuck please stop typing. OP already called it before any replies to thread. Betas are out in full force while their blackhole wife is drunk tonight "out with her friends".

>>936661939
Yeah, I'd never let my wife go out at drink with her friends without me there. Too many horror stories even if you have a good gf/wife/ect.

>>936658895 (OP)
Good sex is underrated. You just can't get enough. Even when spent and satisfied, you're already warming up to the idea of more. I've been hospitalized from marathon amazing sex.. Something deep within you is just wildly obsessed with breeding the fuck out of that girl.. It's only possible when she's desperately wanting to breed with your seed as well. Had it like that 4 different times, one time in a threesome with a hot lesbian couple. The most intense was this girl I went to high school with. Giant tits, beautiful White Hispanic face, giant ass, tiny waist and thick thighs. Tall girl, 5'11.. When I say giant tits, she had super tits, K cup super tits. We put each other in the hospital with exhaustion and dehydration despite having sports drinks in our apartment. We had two kids but never got married. Sex was always intense, to the point it adversely started affecting our lives. We lost jobs and had a hard time staying employed because we would spend days fucking ourselves raw. We just couldn't control ourselves with each other.. Odd thing was, we didn't actually like each other. In fact, if we weren't fucking, we would argue about damned near everything.. We both agreed, it wasn't love, it was some kind of deep lust we just couldn't really control. First kid was something we agreed to and even tried to make things work. We broke up half because both of our families wanted us away from each other and half because our doctors told us to stop. The second kid she cheated on her husband with me. Our families got suspicious when they recognized certain patterns in us, mostly the occasional ER visits and disruptions suddenly in our schedules and daily lives. Hell, I'm getting rock hard just writing about her and what we're like.. We haven't seen each other in 15 years now. But yes, sex that good is absolutely worth it. Honestly, if one of us won the lottery, we'd likely drop everything in our lives and just spend our lives fucking each other to death.

>>936661932
Czech'd. They're good but depends on which one you get. They have ones modeled after pornstars pussies and assholes. I forgot the website but there's a fleshlight website ranking all of them. It all depends on which you get and what material it has. You can cum in all pretty much but they come with instructions on how to use clean properly so they don't get moldy and shit. You can use lube, spit, or even go raw at first. Some take a while and a couple uses to "break them in" at first. So it may feel good the first time using but amazing the 10th as it molds to your dick and opens up. I still fuck them over gf sometimes. Kenzie Reeves and Riley Reid ones are pretty damn good

>>936658895 (OP)
yeah. it is.
culture has ruined it but its pretty great.

>>936660819
>>936659626
I'll expand since anons ITT want to look like a cool older mentor instead of being in touch with reality
>why do girls always dress like sluts
Because being hot is fun and, in a way, useful. Also, not "always". This is pornbrain.
>and try to have so much sex?
Again, pornbrain. A fair amount of women go out dressed like absolute whores and then not actually fuck anyone. It's not exactly about getting laid. Men are always trying to get their dick wet, in constrast.
Also, sex is fun. Most chicks however aren't out to get dicked by randos
> you don't see no guys doing that shit to the extent women do for sex
Makeup etc is, again, not for getting sex, not in the way you frame it
Also men do insane shit for pussy, what are you on about. Even on the more sane side, all that hustle culture shit you see online is for getting laid, they just don't want to come out and say it for obvious reasons
You seem a bit sheltered, I mean it nicely

>>936661500
Kinda shit your uncle spits at the family bbq
You're not entirely wrong but you're being very self serving

>>936658895 (OP)
>20 year old virgin
once you fuck someone, you'll get why this is all horse shit.

>>936658895 (OP)

Marriage is no longer worth it, women will do everything they can to get you financially obligated to them and frankly 99% of them suck at sex and you will likely also suck at sex leading to the eventual situation where she daydreams of someone like me fucking her to toe curling bliss.

Buy a fleshlight, buy a sexdoll torso, stack your cash from now till about your forties and just escape the hellhole of masculine bossy drama filled girl bosses for a quiet life in some southeast asian country where some village girl will jump your dick every other day and her sister she brings into the economic prosperity jumps it the other half.

Unless you fall into the statistically small minority of men you are wasting time trying to 'build' a family with someone who gets bombarded 24/7 by bigger dicks better finances nicer houses and girlbosses telling her she deserves 10x what you are.

>>936658895 (OP)
Yes, real sex is better than masturbating. Real pussy and good sex can't be beat but a pocket pussy is way cheaper, quieter, and agreeable than any woman. If you're a virgin just don't bother. Stick with gooning.

>>936662041
larping? going to the ER multiple times? nigga are you Zeus and was she Venus? post pic of her. tell us moar because this sounds crazy if not larping. only time i've been hospitalized is from breaking a bone not having sex lol

>>936662118
I always kinda saw them at giving up on sex. Any specific reason you'd use it over your gf? If for any reason me and my chick are arguing or I'm not getting it, I save up everything i got, then pound that ass into the ground for the inconvenience.

>>936658895 (OP)
You’re going to have a hard time in life until you quit thinking you’re better, smarter, faster, <insert favorite superlative here>.

We’re all just a bunch of drug addicts jumping from one neurotransmitter high to the next. If it pleases you to break down human sexual interaction into its basic components, you’re going to be on antidepressants some day (or are already).

Sex in general can be amazing or absolutely depressing. The partner and your dynamic make it or break it.

But seriously, your responses to other comments speak volumes about your current maturity level and understanding of interpersonal relationships. Do yourself a favor and get some therapy like…yesterday.

>>936658895 (OP)
Yes. And if it’s a woman you’ve never touched it is even better.

>>936662262
Not even gonna lie, mainly travel and she is loose. She's got a pretty qt face and sexy bod, but loose. Also I use it when travelling for job. She might be loose but I'm not a cheater.

>>936662151
>You're not entirely wrong but you're being very self serving
Maybe, but we're talking about a 20yo virgin. Way easier to speak more generally than getting into nuance he definitely won't understand, upon the backdrop of literally questioning whether or not real sex is actually worth it lol. The fact that men still pursue women despite the copious amounts of porn and jacking off precludes the entire question. As if men who fuck never jack off.

>>936662170
Fuck, I'd hate to have your life. Sounds like it fucking sucks. Op, don't be like this faggot. All you'll get, if you follow his instructions, is the equivalent of a 3rd world prostitute who literally wants you for nothing but your money and half assedly fucks you to the point you'd have been better off fucking your fist.

>>936658895 (OP)
>Please don't give some retarded >lereddit answer about how its the "connection" and "love" that makes it feel better. i'm talking about only
>physical pleasure here
can't separate the two
if you and your partner are skilled at sex, it's way better than masturbation, but most people (you included) are only vaguely not-incompetent at best, so it's frequently poor
BUT
there's also the relationship factor to consider
it has a multiplicative effect on the fucking's quality
for a random slut you gamed at a bar, this factor is 1; no change, fuck can be pretty good if you're both not morons
for some beer-goggles fat pig you hatefuck because you're both drunk and your stupid hormones are nagging your butt all the time, it's down to 0.5 or 0.1
for the love of your life whose soul resonates with yours in a totally chick-flick romantic way forever, it's 10, or 1000
once you're both skilled at playing each other like music instruments, it breaks reality, there's no earthly comparison to anything

>>936662286
Curious what your wife's boyfriend is doing tonight

>>936658895 (OP)
No. The sex part is fun at first, but after a while gets old fairly quickly. once you figure out what you like and find someone who’ll do what you like, eventually you get bored of that and run through every fetish you can find until you’re just left with babysitting this shockingky ignorant person and getting nagged to death forever trying to meet the endless string of expectations and demands she thinks it’s her job to dream up, and if you object you’ll lose your house and life’s savings. Marriage is a medieval rite of bondage for barbaric power hungry morons who desire to own, possess, control and dominate another person as a plaything. And both parties fantasize that they’re the owner. The whole fucking thing is pathetic and everyone who does it is a filthy savage.

>>936662433
have to check that
cuz its true

>>936662476
>The whole fucking thing is pathetic and everyone who does it is a filthy savage.
Basically, this guy is projecting his incompetence onto you because he didn't pick the right woman. And now every relationship is that hellhole to him, because that's *his* experience. It's true that it happens to a lot of people. But if a man is about his wits and knows how to read women properly, he'll never end up in that situation because he skipped over the bitch in the first place or ended things because of his bullshit detector. I can guarantee you that this anons woman gave oh so many countless indicators that she wasn't shit that it's not even funny. Ignore this pessimistic faggot.

>>936658895 (OP)
FYI, I teach a psych 101, lgbtq psych 101, and a sex Ed class at the state uni. Most of your classmates graduating are also virgins. Your generation is sexually intimidated bc you’re socially inept from 99% of your social interaction happening over text on internet chat, where you’ve learned fuck all about nonverbal & sexual social cues. Instead your peers are trying to make excuses for this by making 13th century moral superiority claims against all that is known worldwide about healthy sexual development. And as predicted, after a few years of that practically your entire generation feels sexually rejected, isolated and suicidally depressed.

But keep interacting via text and shop for a human-shaped object out of a catalog on your phone and base your relationships on how you think that person will confirm to some preconcueved wishlist you have in mind, instead of basing your relationships on shared experiences with people who like & care about you. Keeps psychologists in business.

I may be half in the bag, but you’re all fucked, tbh. Thank fuck I never put my kids through a life in this garbage.

>>936658895 (OP)
some sex is better than other sex, and as with everything, what it's worth depends how you value what you get out of it versus what you have to give up to get it
the only men who don't really pay for sex are high-rizz gigachads, which you are definitely not, so we'll ignore them
all other men pay:
if you visit prostitutes, you pay with cash (and risk, if it's not legal, and health risks, which can be minimized but never eliminated)
if you get a gf/wife, you pay with money, time, effort, stress, etc.
if you rape, you pay with significant and potentially life-altering risk, even if you're a psychopath and don't have any negative feelings about it to add on top
if you're a virgin, you have zero basis on which to even guess whether jacking off is more or less pleasurable than sex
re: your tranny question, assholes are generally tighter at the entrance than the average vagina, but not as tight deeper in; for me, and most men i've talked to about it, the appeal of anal is much more psychological than physical
for me, I've been celibate for 13 years
i call myself an incel, but i'm technically a volcel because i have had at least 3 sure-thing opportunities to have regular sexual partners in the past 13 years, but my standards (physically and otherwise) are a lot higher now than they were when i was a young man, and my own cost-benefit analysis has made me say no, thanks
i've never paid for sex, but i'm planning to take a vacation to Thailand and see if i like it, and if i do, i'll probably spend at least a couple months out of every year absolutely destroying ladyboy ass
let me know if you have questions about anything i've written

>>936658895 (OP)
Good sex is worth it, but you're gonna have to find a girl who knows what she's doing meaning she's gonna have to have a little bit of a ho streak at some point. Get that "need a virgin" shit out of your head because that's sex that's not worth it and quit being so uppity about who other people are fucking. You sound like you're stepping into incel territory.
Also a pussy is loosest when she's actually attracted to you. Especially around your age range, vaginas tighten back up within hours to days. Work on being better at sex and then start bitching about it. You're basically whining about not liking a car you've never even sat in.

>recently busted in my gf with no condom on for the first time in my life
>felt no emotional connection at all
>physically it was kinda like a fleshlight but warmer, somewhat more textured, and looser
>had to fuck her very rough to cum at all
no it is not worth it if you don't get anything else out of it

I'd give it maybe a 2 or a 3/10 compared to expectations. Disappointing massively.

>>936662433
And if you don’t find that by the time you’re about 23 you can forget it bc all that’s left after a couple years of bar whoring are the leftover slags everyone else has run through and picked over too many times to want to keep. After 25 single girls are too emotionally battered from getting routinely fucked & dumped by every guy in every bar in town, and unfortunately girls don’t turn into mature women until at least 27. So what you want is some bookish chubby with a face you can stand to look at, who makes it to 27 alone. Then you find things to like about her and invite her to join you for bike rides and light outdoor sports stuff. Before you know it, viola, she’ll be fit, ready to fuck you upside down to make up for lost time, and won’t be a leathery old sea hag that’ll make you hate your life. Once she’s hot she’ll likely leave you for the next richer or slightly better looking guy, most Americans are just selfish materialists in the end, but it’s ok, you can do the same, and you’ll remain good looking longer than she will.

>>936658895 (OP)
I'm 31, just got diagnosed with mild autism.

I lost my virginity at 19 to a female friend. Ended being in a situationship turned relationship with her for a year. Haven't been in a relationship since, but had sex with about 10 girls since.

Honestly, sex is great but it seems much better than it actually is before you've had it. I had zero social skills until i was 18, and when you're horny in high school and a virgin, sex seems much better than it actually is. Especially when lots of ppl in your age group are getting laid.

I feel like I lost years of my youth in a relationship which was only motivated by my sex drive.

Afterwards, racking up a body count just became a game to me. The dopamine hit of scoring the chicks was more stimulating than the sex itself.

Is sex good? Absolutely. I think i have more fun sex than the average male. But even still, there are better, more exciting things in life. When i was a virgin, I thought sex was the best thing in life. After that, sex is like maybe the 10th best thing in life.

If you take care of your health, appearance, and life in general, you will meet more women, and they will more likely want to have sex with you. But obsessing over sex for it's own sake is setting you up for disappointment

>>936663061
>you're gonna have to find a girl who knows what she's doing meaning she's gonna have to have a little bit of a ho streak at some point
pathetic
this is classic cope from the kind of guy who can't get a woman who hasn't been ran through
it's the same kind of guy who desperately wants a new Corvette but settles for a used Impala and constantly tells himself that it's so much more value for the money, and gets better gas mileage, and oh, the insurance would be so expensive, and who needs a car like that anyway, when the simple, cold reality is that he just CAN'T FUCKING AFFORD IT
i'm not saying you have to go for a virgin, or that you can't fuck sluts all you want--it's what they're for--but don't ever make any commitment to a slut deeper than "i'll pick you up in an hour, yeah, tell your roommate you'll be back later tonight"

>>936658895 (OP)
>t. 20 year old virgin
You really didn't need to clarify this.

>>936658895 (OP)
>better than hooking up with random loose ran thru college sluts.
But how would you know if you don't try? This is big retard energy right here.

>>936658895 (OP)
adults having sex is what causes cancer
choose to be a part of the cure not part of the disease

>>936658895 (OP)
Yup. Blasting your load into her warm pussy while she rides you, her soft ass and thighs pressed up on you with a big pair of tits in your face is pretty good.
But the best part is just rolling over and going to sleep afterwards cause you didn't make a huge fucking mess. Get her to reach down and play with your nuts while you do it and you cant beat it.

Like i think that connection shit plays into it for some people but on a physical realm

At best sex is like 1.5x better than a nice jerk.

Expect your first time to not be fun, either you nut too fast, cant get it up or you dont nut at all.

Yeah i think its something you should definstely try but going from virgin to non virgin changes nothing. I still felt like the same bum i was after i fucked a 19 year old paki slut when i was 21, honestly was kind of worried about stds for a bit too.

Porn is fake, dont expect any of that shit. The stuff you think looks hot, feels terrible and there are lot of smells.

You not missing out on much if you not looking for the intimicacy side of it.

Oh but being drunk and high does make it feel a lot better

>>936658895 (OP)
Nah it's really hard sometimes and not worth it.

If you're with the right woman who works your cock skillfully and perfectly, it's great. Otherwise it just feels like work.

Casual sex sounds great until you have to perform and then it usually just feels like work.

Would rather fap, tbh.

>>936658895 (OP)
It's simultaneously 10x better than jerking it and completely not worth it at the same time. Just got out of a long-term and in the end I was basically just paying $1300/m for a fwb cause my ex didn't do shit for a while. Committed relationships are only worth it if she works or works around the house.

OP, if you are talking physical pleasure on your dick, then I'm going to re-iterate what others have said here...a good fleshlight can feel better than pussy.

What a fleshlight can't do, is the amazing feeling of a soft woman skin against yours, a tongue down your throat, tits slapping in your face, the pulling of hair, the panting close to each other, the feeling of accomplishment when she trembles from orgasm, the joy of you both collapsing, trembling, gasping for air in a wet puddle on the bed.

Honestly, sex can be mind-blowing, I've had sessions where I physically felt like I was on MDMA for an hour afterwards.