I turned 30 recently and I am still a virgin.

I had a date my parents set up and I got nervous at the last minute and didn’t go. She was 33 years old and was cooking dinner at her house (her parents were gone) and I cancelled at the last minute but I only got nervous once my parents gave me a bottle of wine to bring and it made me panic because alcohol always leads to sex and I felt pressured.

I want to get another date but my dad won’t set another one up.

I have recently started watching videos about performing oral sex on women and how to make it feel good for them so I could attempt to appear like I know what I am doing in bed because my penis is kind of small small (only 4 inches) so that’s why I have to learn how to eat pussy and be good at it

My parents do not want me to vent to them anymore so now I am posting on here to vent

bump!

>>936754572 (OP)
>I have recently started watching videos about performing oral sex on women and how to make it feel good for them so I could attempt to appear like I know what I am doing in bed because my penis is kind of small small (only 4 inches) so that’s why I have to learn how to eat pussy and be good at it
oh don't worry about that dude, you won't even get that far

Brother, you just have to knock that first fuck out by any means necessary to get those jitters gone. Have you considered fucking a prostitute? Literally no pressure on your end and even though you'll probably feel some nerves, that's nothing a little (or a lot of) booze won't help. Your parents knew what they were doing by giving you that wine. Don't be afraid, dude. The booze will help you tremendously. Don't overthink it.

>>936754572 (OP)
Post more belle. I am gooning with my 7 incher.

>>936754572 (OP)
>I only got nervous once my parents gave me a bottle of wine to bring and it made me panic because alcohol always leads to sex
If that's true then how are you still a virgin?

>>936755703
Ya so I was right to assume that it means I’m supposed to have sex with her that’s why I was so nervous
>>936755813
Because I haven’t had sex yet lol

Do I have your attention, or are you playing hard to get?

>>936756140
What you should have done was have a couple drinks before you even got there. Seriously dude, the booze will help you. Just let it take the reigns and get that monkey off your back. Get some booze, get a prostitute if you have to and blast the fattest fucking schnutt of your life inside that whore. You don't have to eat her out, and your dick size means absolutely nothing in that situation. Or just go crazy swiping on dating apps until you get a hit on some fat bitch, more than likely. That's another one of those situations where eating pussy or your dick size is not going to come into play. Just have a couple drinks and mount that fat hog until you blast. Or just let her give you head. Fat bitches tend to give the best head, for obvious reasons. You're seriously overthinking all of this shit, and I get it, but you just need to relax, brother. Find you some sloppy fat bitch and get your nut off. You can do it.

>>936754572 (OP)
Bro stop being autistic and just get it over with already. You backed out and got nervous over an arranged date? Jesus kid your parents are right for not wanting to hear you vent you sound autistic as hell. Stop being a bitch and just do it.

You know what's worse than a bad experience? Languishing away endlessly with no experience ever

>>936754572 (OP)
>media personality
haah a spade is a spade and a stripper is a stripper, oh i forgot she is a full blown whore now. lol

>>936756434
I was supposed to drive over though so I don't really want to drive drunk. I'm not really into paying for a prostitute either tbh.

I do have a thing for plus sized women though and would gladly accept head from one if she was willing to give me it

>>936756529
It's hard to 'just do it' when you reach 30 years old without kissing anyone and every one you know had sex when they were 16

>>936756619
I didn't have sex until I was 23
I'm literally you but i broke free from the autism 7 years ago. I'm telling you bud the only thing stopping you is yourself, your fear of failure. Your fear of being inadequate or looking foolish.

Don't be afraid. We are all going to die eventually. Do not die without experiencing something. The life time of regret will torment you.

Just fucking do it guy, go for it, be afraid, fucking embrace the feeling and run directly into it like you're charging into a cold ocean. You must overcome yourself anon stop fucking around you know everything I'm telling you is true because you've likely already told yourself this.

>>936754572 (OP)
Stop watching porn or educational films about oral. You will not have sex/lick a hypothetical median woman, it is a unique individual you will meet, you will learn what she likes together with her. 4 is not small, you have only focused on the wrong region or compared to what it looks like on film when very small women handles unusually large penis. 4 is over medium size in Asia and their small hands will make your look big

You left out the part where your dad called you a faggot this time

>>936757348
ya well that's not really relevant right now

>>936757455
have you done the research to figure out why most men remain virgins?
you'll need to do your part if you want to be in the 20% that actually get laid

OP
Your problem is that you keep putting it off and putting it off. Dude, you ran out of time like 5 - 10 years ago. Women in their 30s have expectations and will never take you seriously. You are a child to them which is why you need to put this shit behind you and fix it ASAP. You are fucking your entire life up by avoiding this but I'm willing to bet it eats away at your daily thoughts and emotion.

The only thing stopping you is your fear and yourself. You need to just go with that feeling and ride against it. Burst through the door and conquer it once and for all. Cast away your fear of failure. Let the fear of failure wash over you like water. Let it be no different then the air you breath. With women they are fickle and judgemental. Failure will come as easily as the breath which enters your chest and you must cast this failure away just as easily and just the same. Do not be afraid to fail! Failure is natural and recurring.