>>936921159Each scenario was different. The first of the four had actually been cheating on me from day one. She was talking to both of us and I made the first move, but they never really stopped. I caught them secretly meeting up and at first I was mad, but she when she privately tried to explain everything, it was very clear she considered him “alpha” but knew it wasn’t going to be a relationship and went with me. It turned me on, so I let it go and just asked that she tell me when she was seeing him. She eventually started hooking up with another guy, again tried to keep it secret, then he actually reached out to me and I ended it with her.
2 was a FWB. She didn’t want a relationship. Made it clear she was with other guys and she had no problem divulging details. I did once sleep with her after she got done blowing one of the guys I lived with.
3 was a head case. Low self-esteem with daddy issues. She went to the bars with me and a co-worker, we wound up back at his place, and I truly just told her to strip and fuck my co-worker and she did without too much of an argument.
4 (my wife) already traveled for work when we met. She was in Europe very early on in our relationship telling me how her and her co-worker were getting hit on. I suggested she go for it and that it’d be really hot, then I got a selfie of her with this guy behind her at the bar and I oddly felt like she was probably a keeper for that. A few months later a male manager made a pass at her with some quid-pro-quo type of thing and again I suggested she go for it. I’ve watched her flirt with one of my best friends, witnessed her naked twice around another friend, and watched her get groped by another friend. In the past 3 years she’s mainly hooked up with the same 2 male co-workers while traveling. We even went on a little 3 person date with one of the guys and it was honestly kind of sweet to see him be so sweet on my wife.