Hey, i fucked up and have to own up to a big decision now. Got tired of being a faggot and dating men and went on a few dates with a girl to change things up but recently ended up getting her pregnant. Now she's asking me to commit to her and be a dad, even though my orientation isn't quite there. I want this to work but still don't know exactly what I want. What do I do?
>>936946600 (OP)there is the right decision and there are many wrong decisions for you iguana
you know the right choice is to stay and not be a faggot
>>936947695Damn. I know, but it means not running anymore.
Figure out your life you're in the big leagues some people wish they were you. I find the healthiest thing to do is to figure out yourself how to raise children and be a good dad. You can lie your ass off to your kid. Like say when you get old enough and concentrate you can have xray vision and then when you snoop say I was in your room and used my xray vision I found xyz explain yourself. Or say my phones a lie detector i know your lying just tell me what you did. Be creative when you parent. Hell talk about God even if your not religious they'll think God watches over all children and waits to get back at them when the bad kid gets in trouble at school say see God punished him. And for God sake learn how kids work i watched a YouTube video and kids don't have object permanents until 2 and around 6 they start to learn about right and wrong. So don't really punish a kid until that point . don't hit them. Hitting them makes them more agressive
learn creative punishments like time out or standing in the corner and don't look away. For 5 minutes. Feels like a lifetime to kids. Then when they grow up a little more take there devices they'll hate you for all of 10 seconds but don't give in raising kids is hard work change diapers don't be a loser to your wife try and be more respectful after all she decides weather your a dad or a dad on the weekends
>>936948433Damn. That's good advice.
