best friend is talking about committing suicide
if i lose him i literally lose the only person i love outside my parents
he's my best mate and i don't wanna lose him like it sounds selfish but idk how i would cope thru life without him
>inb4 support him
every day, im an open ear for him to vent to and i don't judge him for his problems just let him vent
he's slightly dyslexic and autistic so he's kind of a retard but he's got a heart of gold and makes me upset that people treat him like shit
sorry anons just need to vent

>>937021888 (OP)

Yeah but have you sucked his dick? Make him cum.

>>937021958
>anons think any male on male affection is gay
every time

>>937021888 (OP)
Checked. That sucks OP

>>937021888 (OP)
I've had many friend threaten this. They just want attention usually.

If he's not giving away possessions, then it is less genuine than if he is.

These fucking people with that threat. It's just fucking rude. The first few times, I didn't know what to do about them. But now I just don't believe them unless they have other indicators.

>>937023391
tbf he's like fully autistic he's not not a manipulator he just breakdowns and can't deal with his emotions
he's had a hard life not gonna dox but here in australia people still don't treat mens mental health with any seriousness so he's going thru a crisis and im the only mate he can confide in
last thing i wanna do is turn him away

>>937023448
toss his salad and give him a reach around.
show him that you care.

>>937023620
im not gay anon

>>937021888 (OP)
Try to distract him from it. Do an indoor activity that you both enjoy. If he's actually autistic then he won't like being outside.

>>937021888 (OP)
tell him that he is one of the few good things in the world and that you would miss him every single day.

>>937021888 (OP)
Print out the whole OP and show it to him. That will stop him dead in his tracks. Sometimes all somebody needs is to hear the truth. Sounds to me like you have a real friend in this guy and he's worth the effort.

>>937023638
you don't have to be gay to eat ass. it's not like sucking dick. everyone has an ass. just pretend he's a latina - they have hairy assholes.

>>937021888 (OP)
Tell him you love him

>>937025905
Grow up

>>937021888 (OP)
Suck him off. It worked for me and my friend.

kill urself first to show him how silly it is

>>937021888 (OP)
You are selfish. It's his life to decide if he wants to live it or not.

>>937022008
Sucking another guys dick is pretty gay.

>>937027573
yea ig

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=ZS4m67ElJzU

run. i dealt with this, it is a mistake not worth the time. they know themselves better than you know them if they want to kill themselves and they seem to have the capacity to reason, they are giving you a warning.

>>937021888 (OP)
sounds like a selfish prick. anybody who kills themselves isn't thinking about others. it's pathetic. everybody got problems and others probably have it worse

>>937021888 (OP)
>he's my best mate
Kill yourself as well since you're both eurotrash that don't deserve to live.
sage

>>937021888 (OP)
There's nothing you can definitively do that can stop him if he's really set on suicide. Hopefully he's just in a bad bout of depression and if so you simply being there for him can be enough. Good luck and nice trips.

>>937027573
>It's his life to decide if he wants to live it or not.

No it's not.

>>937029002
Spoken like a true ignorant basement dwelling 500lb yank being a strain on the US economy.

>>937021888 (OP)
It might sound selfish but honestly tell him that. A lot of people who are in their own mind truly suicidal will put off committing if it’s for another person’s benefit. Sometimes it just takes time for them to get to a better place and this can help. Just be vigilant, outside signs like appearing more happy and outgoing don’t mean anything if he still feels the same way which you should try and help with as a friend. Honestly some individuals are riskiest like this because they “want to leave on a high note” and prefer it’d be unexpected so people don’t feel like they failed them.


On the flip side, if he’s medicated on certain things like benzos and seems like he could have some kind of episode you need to take a much more serious and immediate approach like I’m talking within 24 hours.

Ask him why he wants to kill himself.
Ask him to explain it fully, put it out on the table, every single reason and detail.
Write them down in a notepad.
Have him explain each thing out.
Now ask him to explain all the things he likes in detail.
Write those down.

Tell him that if he kills himself, he certainly won't be able to do those things again.
He won't be able to sit and rot in bed and just "think" about how things will be better, there will be no "thinking" at all, it won't be like he just goes to sleep and wakes up in a better place, it's complete nullspace, gone, dead.
There will be no "peace" from the suffering, there will be an infinite nothing.
You cannot bet on suicide to fix issues, even if you're heavily religious, it's just a gamble. Almost every religion heavily punishes suicide, actually.

After that, go through each of the negatives together and find solutions to them.
One by one.
>We're gonna fix each item in this list together man, every one of them
Most people that idealize suicide don't know what they have around them because they focus on the negatives.
>Life is an uphill battle. It doesn't owe you, me or anyone anything, we have to TAKE what we can get from life, to make our own little comfortable place to live in
>everyone suffers when they are younger, most people don't get their life in proper order until well in to their 40s
For more well off people, that typically falls to 30s, and for super lucky people, 20s.
Life rarely gives handouts, you have to fight for your corner on this planet.
Don't focus on the bigger picture, people suffer and die agonizing deaths every fucking day, you, me, not a single person on this site could fix that, not even if we pooled our total resources and thinking together could we fix that - that's just life.

>>937031241
thanks anon

thanks all anons this is some good advice i appreciate it kings

>>937021888 (OP)
Checked. Let him know how much he means to you and I'd encourage him to seek real support like therapy or counseling or whatever local mental health resources there are. If he says he doesn't want to you could say that you care about him very much and you want to see him get the help he deserves. I wish you and your buddy the best

>>937033151
he is already in therapy been for years

>>937026063
show your friend how much you love him or you might lose him forever. eat. his. ass.

be a good friend and go out together. suicide pact like best bros

>>937021888 (OP)
Why would you post such an obvious bait image to what seems like a serious post? I tried to find an alternative paradoxical message in your text because of it, but I can't find any. Can you enlighten me on that?

>>937036224
kek
>>937036486
first pic i had saved on my phone anon
should've added pic unrel to the OP

>>937021958
FPBP

Great advice maybe you just need to help him.

>>937021888 (OP)
I hope he kills himself wasted trips faggot you kill yourself too retard

>>937021888 (OP)
Y’all should go train hopping or hitchhiking.
What do you have to lose?

>>937037124
ok, then.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wK7GSARUs_Q

>>937032809
Also, to put it in another way, in regards to that "people typically don't get their shit together until their 40s", I'm 38 myself.
My life got raped from serious autoimmune issues at 19.
I could have ended myself easily, I had every reason to. Relationships failed, lost friendships, no ability to work any realistic job for any length of time because my immune system flared up the more active I was.
So I had been stuck in limbo for years, and yet more years.
It is only just recently that I have been able to get some sense of a life together with art, webdev and programming.

Long story short - never give up, life fucking sucks, kick it in the dick and take advantage of every chance you can get before you lose it.
If it means monetizing some of your hobbies on the side, do that too, just know you might end up dealing with awful people, compartmentalize that part of your hobby in to a "job mode" and forget it when you leave job mode. Make a distinct difference in your life between the 2, don't carry anything but your body between those 2 parts of your life.
Learning how to manage your life in these smaller chunks is important and a task most will encounter at some point, some unfortunately never escape that and end up suffering all their lives because they cannot regulate their emotions, which often does lead to suicide.

Over the winter there I met a random girl online.
Does music and art. She almost offed herself, she fully intended on killing herself on the 13th of december after releasing a small music album and art to be remembered by.
Thankfully I got through to her and stopped her.
I told her what I went through and how to escape it.
She got a dream job earlier in the year and has been the happiest she has been.
Yeah there has been issues in other areas, but her happiness is most important.

>>937021888 (OP)
Take your friend out and do something you both will enjoy or something really cool you'll always remember.

I literally lost the only two friends I had and care about. I've been worse feeling every day with loneliness and being an alcoholic doesn't help..

Do more if you really care.

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>>937037777
that's a good idea I reckon.

>>937037777
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>>937021888 (OP)
post his tits or gtfo