My wife and I are new to the swingers lifestyle and she suggested we go to a local swingers club downtown. She’s been before with some friends back in her party days, but I’ve never been or even know what to expect.
Anyone have any stories they’re willing to share?

>>937148693 (OP)
>/b/
>sexual experience
Pick one

>>937148736
Idk what that means

>>937148693 (OP)
I've been a few times. with a couple different women. always "soft" swinging- just watching/being watched except one time when my lady friend fooled around with another lady for while. it was fun. pretty intense fucking with a crowd of people standing around watching. im sure the types of people theremake a huge differnce. this was in a big city so lots of young pretty people there.

>>937148693 (OP)
I use to be the videographer for this privet club In Cos Cob/ old Greenwitch. To be 100% up front with you i feel that you two need to seriously talk this out for a few days or weeks. Perhaps months.. I say this because not only did i witness what can happen first hand when some one who normally would not have gotten upset became upset there wife was fucking another guy . But i also had to deal with my ex who i would bring when the shoot required lighting and better sound and she lost her shit one day because i was simply talking to another women!!! So i feel you should seriously talk every aspect of this with your girl and be 100% Sure.. I recommend if she says shes down take her to a strip club first and test the waters that way first. Just my shitty opinion hope it helps ya some.. Happy to answer other any questions people may have. Other then the address and shit of that nature. .

>>937148835
most people here are faggots or virgins or both

>>937148693 (OP)
Be prepared for another man to possibly fuck her better and if you’re okay with that go for it

>>937148939
We are going to one in Dallas(big city) and she’s been there before but I genuinely have no idea what to expect. I like sharing her and we are hoping to just make new friends that are also on the lifestyle. I’ve shared her a few times with friends but never a random.

I have not, but have a close friend who went with his girlfriend to the one in Melrose Park Illinois, just outside Chicago. He described it as a sausage fest. Usually two to three guys for every girl there. Mostly ugly old nigs, wet back ugly Mexicans, and 55+ year old white cross dressers looking to suck cock.

His girl is a slim blond who is bi curious. She had a bunch of creeps following them around the entire time they were there. All the women were older and fat while the younger ones were grossly fat slobs outta the trailer park. They didn't 'play' with anyone and just left.

They went back on one of the party nights hosted by some guy names "Doc". Same crowd just the women dressed up in cheap Halloween costumes from the Spirit of Halloween store. They left and never went back.

>>937150316
Luckily the one we are going to is couples only so I’m hoping that will help us avoid this problem… but I genuinely don’t know

My wife and I tried it a few times in our early-thirties and decided the people were just too low-class. This was even in San Francisco and DC where you'd expect more. Thankfully we got into a relationship with a woman as a couple which is what we were looking for from the beginning that's been going on for 10 years now.

Yeah my friend convinced me to try, i brpught my wife, she got drunk and fucked raw so much it hurt in the morning, i got one lousy footjob and i Had to wear a condoms for it

>>937149548
How did you find this job op?

>>937148693 (OP)
I’ve been to one and let me say, don’t feel pressured to do anything swinging. A lot of people, myself included, don’t go planning to swing or anything. Just relax and enjoy your time

>>937149548
Shalom rabbi

>>937148693 (OP)
Been to a few parties when I was just out of HS with my gf. One gave out colored wristbands based on what you were there for/what you were cool with.

>>937149548
Luckily we’ve already been in the lifestyle a bit and I’ve already shared her and watched her be with other guys. I don’t get jealous like that and neither does she. I just like to watch her have fun.

>>937151675
What did the wristbands mean?

>>937151765
There were a few and it's been a while but I remember blue meant new/do not watch or pursue. Yellow meant looking is fine but no touching. Red meant anything goes. There were more but I only remember the three. We started with blue the first visit and yellow the second. After that we were far less shy.

>>937150793
stay humbled

>>937152005
What else happened?

>>937154155
I did and she stayed creampied and was begging me to come there again and more often

>>937156862
Did you go back?

>>937156910
I Had no choice

>>937156968did it get better?

>>937157169
Well for her? Yes, she git into so many fetishes that she becane a main star. Those were big one paryies so 8-10 pairs per one, so she Had a Field to practice. There was creampie after creampie.
For me? No. When wife of inviter Saw me waiting for someone, flat already, she just. Jerked me off in pity,still forcing me to wear a condom, then told me to come more often. We took part i think 6 times after this.

>>937157404
strip your wife, post ass

>>937157612
From swinging

>>937157687
More?

>>937157848
Her comparing to my friend WHO invited us

>>937151738
Yes and no. i say this because unless you can find another women once the inevitable breakup happens. Your screwed as you are craving this lifestyle and your other won't go along with it. So again another inevitable breakup will come and the circle keeps happening ..

>>937157848
ive never been but i know a few people who have.

Yeah once with an ex years ago. I was 22 and she was, younger than me. It was a group of about 50 people. Maybe 2 way younger and attractive women besides my gf. Those two were constantly getting tripled the entire hour we were there scoping it out, just a constant rotation of much older guys on them. The rest of the woman weren't even remotely attractive. We left and never considered the idea again.

>>937148693 (OP)
Yep been to quite a few in the UK with different partners, friends, couples etc.

Choosing the right night is probably more important then the club in my opinion. Go to a couples and single ladies only night. Every time I've been to another night it's just been full of weird old men that follow you around all night jacking off. We call them the wanking dead.

The exception to that rule is kink nights. Those people are sound, less normie perverts. Just friendly autistic types.

Going to a fisting night Thursday.

>>937162424
And by old i mean guys in their 50's mostly. Also clubs with night for under 40's only are good too. Again less of the wanking dead