It's friday night and while I'm jacking it to porn my crush probably has some dude's cock deep inside her.
Weird how life works don't you think ?

>>937288546 (OP)
It happens. Maybe go out with some friends tonight?

>>937289199
I don't know how it happened but I don't have any male friend to hang out with anymore. Also I always hated going out so I guess it's my fault if I'm alone and someone else gets her

>>937289351
What about female friends?

>>937289351
you gotta make friends. having a social support structure is one of the most important things in life, pussy or no pussy

>>937289489
What this guy said. Get some friends. Then worry about a girlfriend.

>>937289435
One texted me earlier then stopped replying.
Even when I go out with other people I compare them to her and feel the need to leave ASAP I'm just sad as fuck of a human.

>>937289669
Dude, no disrespect, but what does that even mean?

>>937289561
Nta but how do you get friends when you have no connection to old friends left
Where do you find new people from scratch when you're over 20 ?
Where did you find yours ?

>>937289717
What it means is I'm obsessed with her and hanging out with other people doesn't help

Nice to see how you guys are not just insulting one another in this thread

>>937289723
Well, when I moved to the town I currently live in I was 24 and I met my first two friends in a Burger King about a week in.

I went to a local cafe and chilled with a book several times a week.

I joined a meetup for people who wanted a comic book reading club.

Be open to people. Be chill. They will surprise you.

>>937289778
Fuck you, nigger. :P

>>937289761
Because women are social. Why would they want someone with no friends? (Just like you wouldn't want a woman with no friends).

So get friends who enjoy what you enjoy.

>>937289723
It isn't hard at all. Go where people do a thing you like. If you like nothing then find something new to try. Go there. Then go again and again. Eventually strike up conversation with the other people you see there often. If it clicks then meet somewhere else. Repeat until you have people.

>>937290042
This. It takes WORK. And persistent effort.

But it never fails. And it never feels like work because presumably you are doing something you enjoy for its own sake.

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>>937289812
Thanks guys
Actually gave me a bit of hope
Im not antisocial at all...just have habits and had depression that made me lonely
:)
Thx
>>937289833
Likewise Lol :)

>>937289812
you just walked up to stangers at a BK?

>>937290220
Oh and OP...
Lets both try to get through this
Maybe itll help us both to know that theres someone out there whos trying to make it too

>>937290220
That sucks. Depression is it's own beast. I have (now treated) bipolar disorder. Hard as fuck to get moving during a depressive episode. But I promise you, friends who like you for you are out there. Just get your cracker ass out the door and park it somewhere you enjoy being.

And if you become rich in friends who like you for you, you will be desirable to women as a happy side effect.

>>937290242
No, I was in the booth and they were behind me talking about Gilla Band. I was like "Gilla Band is fucking rad" and we just shot the shit for a while.

Happy accident. I don't even live in that city anymore and we still talk.

>>937290390
thats awesome gilla band is based

>>937289723
FWIW a lot of 20- and 30-somethings feel that way. Luckily there are plenty of meetups and things. Pickup games, book clubs, fucking sewing circles.

Met a girl at a book club. Went on a few dates, but there was no romantic spark so we just started hanging out as friends. She became one of my closest, dearest friends. My wife loves her, she even came to our wedding.

>>937290042
i took an improv class. improv is cringe and gay but it made me some friends.

>>937290653
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>>937290327
You guys are cool
I gotta go but thx for all the positive feedback and advice...Itll help me :)
And sorry OP for derailing your thread a bit...best of luck with your struggles !!!

>>937288546 (OP)
What does your crush look like?

>>937291105
A mix of the pic in OP and pic rel. She looks a lot like them
I'm an ogre next to her. We cheekkissed one time and I couldn't stop thinking about it

>>937291269
Sounds hot. Lucky for you, ogrish looks on a man aren't an impediment. Serge Gainsbourg bagged Jane Birkin.

Learn to groom yourself and don't dress like a slob and you should be okay.

But make some friends first. I cannot stress that enough.

>>937291269
Post her for real