Thread 937392873 - /b/ [Archived: 286 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/21/2025, 10:53:51 AM No.937392873
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>20-29, male, white
>homosexual, completely attracted to skater/alt guys
>have 2-3 boyfriends during this time, good relationships but some difficulties navigating relationships
>find love of my life at 28, together until last month when I turned 30
>wake up one day feeling weird
>see women on my instagram feed
>cavemanbonerbrain
>all my gay feelings are gone
>wtf
>"Is the meme about aging out of homosexuality true?"
>wait a few weeks
>body is screaming at me to be inside pussy, make kids
>confide in female friend kiss, >leads to we fucking (i even type dumber)
>most energetic sex of my life
So, do I just wait for the gay feelings to come back, wtf happened to me?
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:10:35 AM No.937393106
>>937392873 (OP)
Enjoy the heterosexual relationship make a couple of babies so you can be a dad maybe a grampa, you can always find a boyfriend later on when the desire comes back,
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:13:01 AM No.937393135
>>937392873 (OP)
Idk bro, I don't think being gay for the first 30 years of your life and "turning" straight is a thing but sexuality is weird. If you have no feelings left, you only want pussy, then enjoy your new life
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:17:52 AM No.937393211
>>937393106
>:3
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:26:13 AM No.937393343
>>937393135
I think it's very easily a thing.
Have a teenage kid that thinks he's gay, "comes out" and now their identity is tied around being gay. First time he has gay sex he realises he can't turn back and it confirms his identity of being gay to himself. Any doubt is immediately shut down by himself because it'd cause an identity crisis and he's in too deep.

OP is starting to hit his prime and because of that, his hormones are different than they was in the past and finally caught back up to him.

That's the problem with gays tying themselves up around having sex, it creates a feedback loop that is impossible to get out of. OP might have 0 interest in men for the rest of his life, but his peers will always consider him gay for having gay sex and boyfriends. Right on time for him to have an identity crisis because of his actions, losing who he thought he was and his peers never letting go of what he's done.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:27:02 AM No.937393352
>>937392873 (OP)
>is gay
>has, apparently, never seen a woman before
>sees woman
>becomes straight
>OMG, what the fuck happened!

>least retarded LARP
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:31:57 AM No.937393439
>>937393343
What's a good way to move forward?
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:35:47 AM No.937393502
Children!
Children!
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>>937393343
>a male
>thinks that he's straight
>has sex with woman (female)
>confirms his "straight" identity and masculinity
>in too deep
>ties himself up in his heterosexual masculinity
What are "THEY!" doing to the kids!
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:37:40 AM No.937393531
>>937393439
Are you OP? Realistically the only thing OP/you could do is just privately accept you made a mistake, move forward and take whatever insults come on the chin.

You can't say it was a mistake publicly or else gays and shit will take offence and attack you, plus it won't help your situation anyway. You just have to go with it, moving could help but possibly not if you still use social media, keep in contact or anything.

You also have to accept that you've put yourself in a situation where the women you can and will get, aren't the best. The majority of women are turned off from guys that have done anything with a man, even a mocking kiss on the cheek would put off most women. Make sure none of the women you go for thinks you're gay and they can have gay threesomes with you, are fetishising you or whatever.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:40:34 AM No.937393575
>>937393502
You're joking but that's a genuine thing that happens..?
It doesn't happen as much now because kids can say they're gay earlier and no one really cares but I expect OPs situation to be on the rise in the future.

Many women are unfortunately divorcees to men that was homosexual but tied their identity to being straight as a form of suppressing themselves for one reason or another. It's never not going to happen either way.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:42:17 AM No.937393595
>>937393531
The friend I slept with was a bit younger (20, f) and ive noticed the gen z girls are more chill. Im really attracted to them. If anything I think I can keep going for younger.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:46:47 AM No.937393650
>>937392873 (OP)

can you share the speicifc image that made you straight? maybe the profile as well? I want to show her to some of my gay friends and see if it works on them
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:47:31 AM No.937393663
>>937393595
There's a big difference between the guys a woman will fuck and the ones they'll get into serious relationships with, plus birth control and other hormonal controls impact the kind of man they're into regardless. You're fine if you just want to fuck randoms though.

The younger you go the more likely they are to be anti lgbt, which is bad for you. Millennial teachers forcing it into classrooms really made the younger gen z absolutely hate it.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:49:41 AM No.937393685
>>937393343
I meant more it isn't common, I'm sure there are people who were genuinely confused about their sexuality, tried several things out, and eventually landed on something. But is it the average and common experience? Doubt it. most people are straight, a few people are gay, and they know it from a young age.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:52:59 AM No.937393731
>>937393663
>anti-lgbt
Why is that bad for me? Homophobia is kinda cool for me now.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 11:56:06 AM No.937393775
>>937393731
Because you're gay.
You've kissed men, even as a joke that's gay. You've kissed men romantically and had sex with them. Nothing you can do will make you not gay to anyone who knows that about you.

Because like I said, the only way to not be known as gay is by moving, losing all social media and contact with anyone who knew you and memory holing everything you did. Otherwise, you're simply a faggot.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:01:54 PM No.937393866
>>937393685
>average and common
No one can know. Straight men are the highest statistics for killing themselves but is that because straight men are killing themselves more or are gay men that killed themselves wasn't out to their family, how many families deny their dead sons homosexuality, how many are labelled as straight because there's no evidence of the alternative, how many had gay sex and was filled with guilt they couldn't handle? No one can know how many of the straight men killing themselves are gay men that was suffering.

Killing themselves is the extreme but I can see it being a cause 100%. An identity crisis paired with not being able to fix the mistakes, feeling lesser, never being allowed to live it down, possibly rejection from family and friends, friends turning on you for not being gay anymore? That'll make a mountain out of a molehill very quickly.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:09:47 PM No.937394009
>>937393866
So you're saying there might be more men than will admit or we will know who might've experimented or had gay sex, like op in a way, but will live their lives as if they're "straight" because that is what is socially better? Or something like that? Closeted and repressed men exist, the out and open percent if like 3 to 5 but based on anecdotal experience, i'd say the true gay number can be anywhere from 10 percent to maybe 20. I don't mean maybe, maybe, once got blown or had a one night stand with a tranny, but are regularly homosexual. 10 to 15 percent of men. Sexuality isn't always one and done. That is why I'm not saying OP is lying. He could be larping, this could all be a larp, but even as a larp there still is a layer of dimensionality when it comes to sexuality because of how complex it can be
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:11:25 PM No.937394039
>>937394009
How do those closet gays actually put up with women and fuck them for so many years? It's bizarre.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:15:12 PM No.937394111
>>937394039
They're closeted "gays" because their dicks can also get hard for men, assuming they're bisexual and not full blown homosexual. They might fuck trannies, they might fuck men, they might actually be attracted to women or attracted to the woman that they're married too, or they could be faking and forcing the whole thing. I don't know how fully gay men do it. Men you wouldn't believe because they're not wimpy or stereotypically "gay" with flamboyant mannerisms but your everyday man, might even be "masculine" or "macho"
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:17:05 PM No.937394152
>>937394111
Is the pressure to be closeted because gays are STILL secretly looked down on? Or something else?
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:25:35 PM No.937394326
>>937394152
It is my personal opinion and theory that while women say they're okay with gay men, they only say that when a man who is gay is a gay bestie and preferably is one of those bottoms that act like women more than a man. They still want a man to be a man, and that means being masculine and not gay. You have women that are more open to dating bisexual men, but like another anon said, once you cross that line, there is no explaining it, it is a hard line. If you fuck one man or experimented once, you're 100 percent gay, gay for life, like dick, you're a gay in denial, you no longer like women, even if that is totally and completely untrue. Sexuality is still black and white and weird, and I get it because you can't fuck a man and not be gay if you're doing it out of enjoyment and regularly do it.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:37:17 PM No.937394530
>>937394009
Yes, 100%. By the definition of the average straight guy, which is anything sexual or romantic towards another man.

How many men have kissed their friends and both never told anyone? How many have sucked a dick, felt another dick or done anything like that? It's impossible to know but what I'm saying is I do believe there's a correlation between straight men being the highest suicide demographic and huge numbers of men hiding homosexuality, no matter the degree. Sure a lot of them are actually straight but there has to be a reason why it happens more and we know full well repression creates suicidal thoughts, as does regret.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:43:23 PM No.937394645
>>937394152
Because of the lgbt community, how women react to it and the effects of it.
I already mentioned it and so did the anon who already replied but women do not like it. They're fine if you're anyone else but if you're their partner, that's the limit.

There's probably millions of closeted men who don't be open because it'd impact their straight relationships, because accepting being gay means they have to accept that they'll never have children, not by infertility but by choice and because they're nothing like the lgbt community.
The "lgbt community" is for all intents and purposes, a globalist entity. There's no reason why gay men aren't nationalists who just happen to like men but nationalists gays will be shunned and have their closeted private conservations leaked as a weapon.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:54:48 PM No.937398875
OP was always straight. He just got confused about how to have a relationship with a woman
Now he's normal
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:56:00 PM No.937398921
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>>937392873 (OP)
The vast majority of people claiming to be either gay or lesbian are actually bisexual. Unless you're severly mentally ill you're going to have at least some baseline attraction towards the opposite sex, and your sexual tastes will change as you age. As a teenager I was almost entirely attracted to older women, but once I hit my twenties I watched the movie "Mute" and realized I had completely flipped. It's normal tbh.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 4:53:29 PM No.937400614
>>937392873 (OP)
Does your dick still smell like man shit?