As a lonely sad virgin, why is this so attractive and perfect for me? Why does it feel like i’m the perfect consumer?

>>937404379 (OP)
you've been kiked, anon. I honestly can't explain it but just a few years ago it was rare to find a BMWF thread and even rarer to find a cuck thread. Now you see them all over the place at any given time. I am not against race mixing, but it is very odd to see the sudden increase in BMWF combined with cuckold

>>937404379 (OP)
Because you're a self hating retard with low self esteem.
Either that or you are doing gif related, while trying to convince lonely sad virgins to fuck up their lives instead of bettering them.

>>937404525
It's a meme that has been forced harder than Milhouse, intended to make people think that way more people are into this cringe than there actually is.

>>937404379 (OP)
>As a lonely sad virgin, why is this so attractive and perfect for me? Why does it feel like i’m the perfect consumer?
I've no idea. It is so far from real life your fascination with it makes no sense. I could understand it better if you said you were a furry

>>937404379 (OP)
You kinda answered your own question there lil buddy.

>>937404803
So the porn language and the faulty logic derived from it seems true to you?

>>937404838
NTP but where did he say that?

>>937405053
Bro's brain is fried.

>>937405178
I don't think he's as honest as that, I think he is pretending to believe that shit for malicious reasons.

>>937405178
Not an answer

>>937404379 (OP)
take meds, faggot…
>alternately, rope yourself

>>937405314
He was indirectly agreeing with the op on his reasoning, by saying that he had answered his own question.

>>937404622
I wouldn’t say I hate myself, but I got really low self esteem. Doesn’t help much that I got no friends

>>937405379
Well done. See, you can make a reasoned post rather than just reply in memes, which makes you look so stupid.

And I don't believe that poster was agreeing with the porn language and logic; what he was agreeing with is that, being a lonely sad virgin is why OP finds it attractive and perfect.

Then we have to add in the fact that OP is, in all likelihood, a race-baiting faggot, so agreeing with the self-deprecating status of lonely virgin is a way to turn OP's post back on him

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>>937405492
Giving yourself even lower self esteem and consuming porn that tells you that you have no worth and can't better yourself, is a super retarded non-solution to having low self esteem anon.
You find friends and love by getting to a point with yourself where you actually believe that you are worthy of those things, you solve nothing by leaning into your mental illness and developing the dysfunctional coping mechanism of getting aroused by it.
>>937405575
I didn't post that meme and replied to it here >>937405307
I get where you are coming from, but I think that playing into the notion that sad lonely virgins are made for this fetish is counterproductive, even if you are using it as a diss against the op.

>>937405751
No. No I didn't.

I hoped you might, but expected you wouldn't

>>937405775
> I think that playing into the notion that sad lonely virgins are made for this fetish is counterproductive
I didn't say that - I said that it explains why he thinks it's "attractive and perfect". But you can't ignore my third sentence.

>>937405792
If you thought this was the serious discussion board, you were mistaken.

>>937405889
>But you can't ignore my third sentence.
I wasn't intending to, in fact I addressed it with the words "even if you are using it as a diss against the op".
We both oppose racist cuckoldry shilling for similar reasons it seems, I have no beef with you anon.

>>937405902
You're an overexposed copy of a copy of the trolls that used to frequent this place anon.
Pissing people off the for the lulz used to be a cerebral art form on here, even if the troll didn't take the discussion seriously, he seriously discussed it in order to create a larger and funnier amount of butthurt.

>>937405775
> tells you that you have no worth and can't better yourself
I ”can” better myself but to what cost?
I have no worth. 22yo virgin with no friends and no experience. Bettering myself would only involve stuff such as working out which I already do alone. It still doesn’t help with nothing.

U seem sincere anon, thanks.

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>>937406117
>I have no worth. 22yo virgin with no friends and no experience.
Congratulations, you are incredibly and immensely normal, as in you are in no way unique for feeling like that since countless men has gone through that before you.
>I ”can” better myself but to what cost?
Sure, it isn't easy, but bettering yourself and sorting out your life in a way that you will find satisfying, costs less than giving up from the get go and ensuring that you will never have friends or romantic relationships ever.
You're in the situation where you still have time to unpack your mental baggage and sorting it out, while improving your material conditions at a gradual rate.
Making the decision that you are a lost cause and just leaning into a fetish that enables that decision is a path straight towards more mental anguish and a likely suicide.
Consider it like this, adulthood is changing from using a tricycle with a stick on the back of it that your parents can steer, to getting onto a regular bicycle that you are in charge of steering and staying safe on.
At the age of 22 you are still an adult with training wheels on and here you are complaining about not instantly being able to win the Tour de France and feeling unworthy because of it.
Practice biking anon, it beats wallowing in your own misery and complaining about doing nothing not working for you.

>>937406117
Cheer up, buddy
Hard work pays off, you've still got so much ahead of you
- another rooting anon

>>937404379 (OP)
I tried it when I was 19-20. I had a long term gf, but I put her on a pedestal. I had friends, but no one I felt that actually gave a shit about me. My self-esteem was non-existent, but I thought I could solve all my problems by sharing my gf. If I could convince her, then I get:
>Confirmation I was enough/not enough for her
>Assurance I did everything in my power to make her happy
>An end to the size debate
>Friends thinking I was cool for setting up NSA sex for them
>Friends being jealous of how good I’d had it for years
>A memorable live porn experience

She did agree to try for me and the lesson learned was that I had an unhealthy view of sex. Also that she had her own issues letting herself be objectified like that (her words, not mine).

>>937404379 (OP)
Cucking is the greatest rush ever and the reclaiming after is amazing.

>>937408652
Nah, you're a huge liar.

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>>937406753
When is it too late? When do you know it’s too late after consistently fighting?
I can’t see myself going out alone, everytime i’m outside I see couples which demoralizes me to hell.

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>>937412346
>When is it too late? When do you know it’s too late after consistently fighting?
Once you are dead. Until then you can always improve on the things that you care about.
>I can’t see myself going out alone, everytime i’m outside I see couples which demoralizes me to hell.
You're getting ahead of yourself anon, improve how you feel about yourself for you own sake and once you get to a good spot with that, then you can work on finding someone to share your life with.
Your goal now is working on not constantly kicking your own ass and getting more comfortable in a social setting.
I've been in a similar position to what you are in now and the first step of being less anxious in a social setting is realizing that no one uses the same amount of time and energy as you do on being hyper critical of you.
I'm willing to bet my entire life savings on the fact that no one has as low of an opinion of you as you yourself have.
Heck, it can even be endearing to people you want to befriend, if you admit that you're a bit nervous about doing so and asking them to let you know when you need to chill out about it.
Socializing is like every other skill you can acquire, it takes practice and failure is part of that package.
Just make sure that you notice the lessons contained within said failures and learn from them.
I was literally born without a blueprint for social interactions and after many years of study, practical experimentation and consistent implementation of what actually worked, I've managed to become rather proficient at socializing and forming friendships with people.
While the destination is obviously important to you, your focus needs to be on the individual steps that take you there.

>>937413295
How fast will it take to be fully confident?

I start panicking when I need to stay in a queue, go to the cashier, speak in public. One random day I might have the balls to do it only because i’m so fed up with myself for being such a coward. Then the days after that one day I regress again and end up hatejerking, it goes around in a circle.

I still live with my mom and she’d fed up with me too. It’s her anger and comments towards me that sets me in a ”idgaf anymore” mode, where I manage to go stand in a queue, ask questions to personel/staff e.t.c.

>>937414036
Sorry for typos, typing from my phone.

>>937414036
>How fast will it take to be fully confident?
I cannot tell you that, because it depends on you and your judgement.
What I can tell you is that it entails you recognizing your own agency. Your life is what you make of it, so if you feel victimized by it, you have to realize that you made the choice to feel like that.
Some things are out of your control of course, but all of the things that are under your control are influenced by how you deal with and react to them.
With the level of anxiety that you speak of, I'd recommend that you find an older male cognitive behavioral therapist who can provide you with the tools you need to take ownership and control of your own psyche.
Every single human on this planet has the power to change the world just a little bit and they are ultimately responsible for how their own world/life treats them and where it is headed. So if your personal world isn't to your liking, you have to pick up the power of change that you were born with, recognize it as yours and then use it.
I can't hand you an easy fix for your life, I can only tell you that I know for a fact that you are capable of fixing it for yourself if you put your mind to it.

>>937404379 (OP)
that's because you are

>>937418485
Stop I don’t like that this turns me on

>>937418523
Because it’s so degrading well done and hot.

>>937418662
No it’s not right I shouldn’t even think about it

>>937418684
You can’t help but stare and admire it.

>>937418719
No I’m just glancing at it I’m not staring

>>937418749
Why does it turn you on anon?

>>937418797
It doesn’t! My cock is just getting hard…

>>937418815
Why are you getting hard to this?

>>937418865
It’s clearly because of the pretty girls and nothing else

>>937418886
Do you like seeing these pretty girls get defiled by black cock?

>>937419012
No of course not these nigger cocks are gross. They’re just so big and veiny and…

>>937419012
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