>>937464349 (OP)>>937464532>>937464718>>937464813>>937464763Only read about this far into the thread so far. In a sense, you were given an emotional pass to get over the relationship easier... The dude was clearly a piece of shit if doing things like smashing your head into stuff (and it not be part of a kink dynamic), and seemingly self-centered as well if he's gonna cheat. Had he not cheated and you not found out, you woulda been with him for, likely, much longer and having the justification of cheating to break up is MUCH easier to deal with, emotionally, than it would be to deal with the headspace of leaving a toxic relationship (or at least it sounds like it could have been).
Now that that seriousness is done, I'm not gonna NOT comment on how cute you are. Nor am I not gonna comment on just how fuckable you are. I simultaneously wanna gently make love to you, but also wanna collar you and use you how I see fit (and perhaps, as my friends see fit too).
That said, to touch on things seriously again, I'm sure I'm not the only one thinking like that, here. And I'm sure it's not just here that people think that. At LEAST one person out there who see you and wants those things will also want a serious relationship, and actually really want just that- a serious relationship. Rather than looking for someone to be more convenient than a hookup, primarily, or as something to control and use then toss like your ex seemed to be (based on what I read, that very much seems his type).
