Thread 938045557

I just got told that it’s a red flag that I’m single and have no kids at 32. “If no one has wanted you yet why would I?”

>>938045557 (OP)
Do you have a proper job?

>>938045557 (OP)
>32
Was this honestly the first time anyone warned you about this?

>>938045557 (OP)
lol, I wouldn’t worry about it, she just wasn’t the right one for you.

>>938045557 (OP)
good, fuck em
you don't need em

>>938045557 (OP)
That’s weird given the very toxic culture right now in relationships. Go look at the divorce statistics currently of marriages between 24-30 age wise of the past 5-6 years. It’s not good, statistically you avoided your first divorce and alimony payments

>>938045557 (OP)
Honestly, I think SHE'S the red flag. Just like any woman who wants an "alpha male". You're fine, and you don't need HER.

>>938045557 (OP)
You listen to boomer speak. Kek

>>938045557 (OP)
Youre reply should be, oh no, ive had realtions but nobody caught my attention enough for me to claim them. Girls control sex, men control relationships

>>938045593
Paramedic
>>938045633
Yes
>>938045638
She didn’t even let me fuck
>>938045836
She wasn’t a boomer

>>938049075
That should be more than good enough of a job to meet girls lol. Hell, there are tons of zoomers that are in their early 20s looking for older dudes to mess around with.
Where did you meet the bitch that said your age was a red flag?

The fact that she said "red flag" points to her personality. You wouldn't want shit like that in your life. Considering the remarks from anon about if you have a "proper job", that's shit as well. If someone is only willing to be with you because of your job they are not worth your time or the heartache that comes with it. Take it from me and my experience. 50, single, no kids. I have been married twice and many relationships in between. Being by yourself is grueling, true. But the flip side of that is being with someone who doesn't love you is worse. In a way you are still alone, lacking that connection and love, while chained to a person who doesn't give a rat's ass. You will be in constant grief wishing for that freedom you once had. You need someone who will be by your side come rain or shine, good job or no job- who will still be there holding your hand when you're both 95.

>>938045557 (OP)
Women dont exactly have the ability to make that claim wholeheartedly considering that they its considered "geriatric" if they get pregnant at 35 so really it sounds like she was projecting. Fuck her. Stop crying and move on 32 ain't shit for a dude, im 36 with a 9 month old son and my wife is 32.

>>938045557 (OP)
>if no one has wanted you yet
Wear a wedding ring. It's worked for ages. Indicates that you've been vetted, are desirable, etc.

>>938045737
This.
>married at 26
>divorcing at 28
Also OP, bitches always project. They tell you it's a red flag because they know they will hit the wall at 30 and by then nobody will want them. You as a male are lucky because what makes males attractive to the other sex is muscles, low body fat and masculine features. Those can be there at 20 or at 50. It just takes more effort.

>>938045557 (OP)
Red flag is a blessing.
Focus on saving. Buy an apartment or house, or upgrade. Every month take as much as you can from your paycheck and save it, invest it safely.

Seriously, once you have a gf, wife the money is just gone. Want kids? You are looking at falling into debt.

>>938051962
if a woman is unattracted to a guy its a red flag.