What do I do /b/? She doesn't listen when I talk to her about it, cheating seems tempting, am I crazy for thinking this? How do I get her to want it with me?

have you talked to her about it?

>>938078748 (OP)
Tell us about yourself. Height, weight, physique, ect. Married anon with 17 years, 2 kids and we still get it on atleast 5 times a week

>>938078916
Yeah she just says she has low libido but like... if you're passionate can't you push past that?
>>938078921
I'm 6ft, currently 100kg but I've been mostly around 80kg until recently. 5yr relationship.

>>938078748 (OP)
what birth control is she on?

>>938079110
I think it's called "Brenda". She had a lot more enthusiasm before starting on it ngl

>>938079072
BC can play a major factor. Take it into consideration. Consider libido boosters. My wife takes 2 different types and is always wet and ready. Body type seems good. The other thing to consider is why doesn't she desire you? Does she work? Could it be stress? Could she be talking to someone else?

>>938079072
well lose weight first of all. also it is probably the birth control tbh but I used to think my current gf (3 years) had a low libido but it turned out I just needed to be more forward and dominant with her. Women don’t like “agreeing” to have sex, they like when you fuck them. It’s a tricky position though

>>938079200

every single form of hormonal birth control that contains progesterone will fuck up chicks libido. My wife was on Diane for 10 years, it not only made her have no libido at all but also fucked up her cortisol levels, meaning she was always in a constant state of stress, nowadays I much rather use a condom than have my wife being angry and not willing to have sex. Maybe that could be the cause.

>>938079283
I can try and be more dominant. It's not my preference to be "booking it in" at the moment but it prevents me getting all wound up waiting for sex and then she changes her mind 99% of the time on a "special night". She rejects me in many ways, will push me off if I tried.

Great idea asking a bunch of virgins how to have sex.
If she says she doesn't want sex and you force it on her to be a dominant alpha male, be fully aware that you are raping her and don't be surprised when your relationship falls apart.
The real answer to why sex isn't happening is that the emotional connection is not there, and nothing the incels in this thread tell you will help you repair that. You need to get off the internet and think more deeply about the human being you're spending your life with.

t. beta cuck loser soyboy effeminate low t male

Damn that sucks for you man. My birthday was the other night and my wife invited her best friend over for a threesome. We've been building up to it with her for about a year and she's always flaked but she finally came through.

>>938079748
Think deeply as in what, we're not compatible?

>>938078748 (OP)
It’s most likely her birth control.
Have had this issue with my gf. Low sex drive started shortly after getting put on the pill.
Maybe have her talk to her doctor about switching which one she’s on

>>938079994
Definitely try the libido boosters. They make a world of difference

>>938080034
What are they called?

>>938080034
Have any recommendations? My girls drive went up after switching what pill she’s on but I’d for sure want to help her drive get back to what it used to be

>>938080228
>>938080280
First one

>>938080399
Second one. We went through a few before we got to these two. There were others, but the taste can be very off putting for her. Also, do yall smoke or take edibles? They are fucking amazing at getting her horny as fuck

>>938080437
Thank you for the help brother much appreciated

>>938080513
Also, have you ever heard of a book called rational male? If not, check it out. Biggest takeaway, make her want you. Easiest way, make yourself desirable to other women and make sure she knows it.

>>938080399
>>938080437
Are you retarded or something? What kind of imbecile literally believes taking a capsule increases libido in a female? LMFAO

Hurr-durr, buy our dust or goopy shit. Give money. There is not even any prescription shit that works, moron.

>>938078748 (OP)
An asian female with no sex drive? Say it ain't so. Do you think this is abnormal? Not for asian women. FYI, they are all like that. I'm asian, and asian women only use sex to get what they want, and then at best, they fake everything. You'll learn at some point that the stereotype is spot on, and they learn this from an early age.

>>938081119
Could be a placebo effect. Don't give a shit. Went from fucking 5-7 times a month to a week. She's non-stop on my dick. If all it cost me was this, I'd say it's worked

>>938080437
Umm, that garbage is garbage.
Ashwagandha (withania somnifera), which is nothing more than the root of a common evergreen shrub found throughout Africa and now in the Middle East and Europe, does absolutely nothing. It is an Nigger myth that it reduces stress and anxiety, and even the dirty niggers never claimed it has shit to do with sex drive (quite the opposite). It's also bee studied extensively and while it contains phytochemicals (almost every plant does) and steroidal lactones (again, common in plants), neither of these have ever been proven to do anything at all in humans in vitro, in vivo, nor succeeded at the FDA, and at best there are a handful of studies (funded only by companies that sell this garbage) that claim it "may" help improve sleep, yet all of them state that their data is inconclusive. Companies that market this as doing anything at all get sued. By the way, Ashwagandha literally means "wet horse" "ashwa" (horse) and "gandha" (smell) because it smells putrid and is nasty.

There's also a shit ton of studies that show it is actually harmful to humans and kills rats long term, everything from inflammatory bowel disease, digestive issue (you are literally ingesting wood if you take this shit), headaches, causing autoimmune disease, thyroid disorders, stomach ulcers, liver disease, prostate cancer, diabetes, hypertension, and a whole host of other permanent diseases in humans.

So yeah, take your medical advice from some idiot like this >>938080399
>>938080437
on the internet, eat this wood, because some nigger myth says so. Brilliant.

Sorry you have an Asian girlfriend and are also so dumb that you think a pill will fix her.

>>938081699
Nice dubs, got any sources?

>>938081253
Ok, dumbass. It had nothing to do with that fake shit. You have no idea if there was a change at all or it was instead you, what caused it (did she finally get sick of fucking the guy she's been cheating on you with?), resolve some other unrelated issue, etc.

You are about a supreme dumbass if you think some shit in a jar makes chicks fuck. If it were true it'd be mainstream and everybody would be buying it. Instead, you are paying for snake oil, and a certified dumbass that finds a way to justify your stupidity.

>>938081798
Awe, somebody is mad cause they aren't getting any pussy. Don't worry anon, you'll get it someday, or not. Let's start by you getting a shower. Baby steps

>>938081253
not him, but you are either trolling or just stupid
if you actually think that is true, you may be mentally ill
are you trying to kill op?
ashwaganda is not for sex, it's a sleep aid, at best and it has a lot of negative side effects
at best, it will put your girl to sleep, or may even kill her

>>938081253
>I'd say it's worked
Any M.D. would say you're an idiot. It has nothing to do with sex drive and is only actual claim is that it helps some people sleep, but those claims have never been proven. It can in fact kill you though and that has been proven. We have had at least 3 deaths here in Netherlands from this stuff.

>>938081766
Yes. Source: Me. I looked into those and a bunch of other things for precisely the same reason as op, and my brother in law is a licensed M.D. and a Board Certified Internist so I asked him to. He sent me a shit ton of journal articles all above my level but was very clear that not only is there no proof that these products are nothing but garbage from garbage companies that set up shop, push their product, get criminally prosecuted and shut down a year later (mostly overseas companies based in Africa), but he was also clear that there have been plenty of people that die from taking these things.

>>938081923
Did a quick read of the research and most of the negative effects were very uncommon. Actually learned that nausea was probably the only side effect she got and that's very sporadic. She has blood work on the next few months so we'll see. Here's a summary of the study.

Ashwagandha for Stress, Anxiety, and Sleep: A Health Professional Fact Sheet

• Ashwagandha, an evergreen shrub, has been used in traditional Ayurvedic medicine as an adaptogen, potentially aiding the body's response to stress.

• Clinical trials suggest that ashwagandha extracts may reduce stress, anxiety, and cortisol levels, with some studies showing greater benefits at higher doses.

• Research indicates that ashwagandha may improve sleep quality, efficiency, and total sleep time, particularly for individuals with insomnia.

• While generally well-tolerated, ashwagandha can cause mild side effects and has been linked to rare cases of liver injury and potential thyroid effects.

• Experts advise against ashwagandha use during pregnancy and for men with hormone-sensitive prostate cancer, and it may interact with certain medications.

https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/Ashwagandha-HealthProfessional/

>>938082145
i want it too and i dont know if my gf is a cheater but she says she dont want it so i dont know what to do but i have this urge to fuck my gf

>>938081863
>Awe, somebody . . .
Lol, it's "aww", dumbass. "Awe" is a noun or verb referring to when one is in profound respect for something or someone, amazed or inspired by something. "Aww" is an interjection used to express sympathy or tenderness, such as when something is cute.

THIS is how fucking dumb you are, and good job proving it for all to see. No wonder you reply with no more than an infantile response that demonstrates that you have the equivalent of a 4th grade education and can't even use words properly.

>>938082437
Aww shit, you got me. Alright, enough fun for the night. Don't forget that shower!

>>938082308
>Did a quick read
Not him, but . . .
So we're supposed to listen to you, after you spent 10 seconds on google.
Also, you grossly understate the case in stating "negative effects". Did you bother to research any of the deaths or chronic diseases it causes? That's far from "negative effects".
Further, that you understate that, and then follow by (mis)characterizing them as "very uncommon" makes it clear you either have an agenda in pushing this ineffective substance. You can't claim an appeal to authority under your use of the word "research" and then go on to call it "negative effects" and then "very uncommon" and precisely what refereed scientific journal article do you cite that claims they are "very uncommon". Oh, that's right, none. Why? Because no scientist ever says this, but instead precisely quantifies the frequency and incidence instead of generalizing in nonspecific language as "very" and "uncommon". Then you go on to literally claims that "learned that nausea was probably the only side effect" and then lie claiming "and that's very sporadic".

We all stopped reading there.

Maybe you should not try to sound smart. Nobody is fooled, and you just sound dumb, and clearly like someone who is biased and with an agenda.

>>938079748
I also used to be super charismatic but recently had a schizophrenic break and that plus the meds made me lose that spark to give her the princess treatment. Don't get me wrong, I'm still objectively good - I'm there for her when she needs, I support us both financially even though she works and I think I give her what she needs but I'm fundamentally depressed. I'm not my usual flirtatious self so it's been a chicken and egg thing... when I get laid I get that confidence boost I need to go for more but in reverse it's just hopelessly chasing tail I'll never catch.

>>938082517
Awe shit, you got me. Awelright, enough fun for the night. Don't forget that showawer!

Dumberer of the Dumbestest thinks he's witty when all he displays is how retarded he is in every post.

Tell us a third time about your "shower" come back, lil guy. Everyone is so interested.

Fucking loser.

You should totally be spending time on 4chan, and not reading a book or something.

>>938082308
you don't really deserve a response as it's pretty obvious you are either an underage minor who shouldn't be here or perhaps just really of low I.Q.

perhaps you don't understand that you cited to nothing there
the link is merely to an NIH internet brochure and only pertains to whether or not ashwagandha is helpful for stress, anxiety, or sleep
op's issue is solely with respect to his girl's sex drive, NOT SLEEP
so are you fucking stupid or just underage and trying to pretend you're an adult?
what the fuck does some wood from africa that "may" and "might" and "suggests it may" (according to your "citation" (not) to an NIH e-brochure directed to lay idiots) potentially have something to do with sleep?

also, that (non)reference to a (non)scientific study which is a mere e-brochure for morons, discusses only efficacy (and poorly at that, and only in reference to stress, anxiety, and sleep, NOT SEX), rather than safety at all (to which you are responding in your ridiculous off-topic post
with respect to safety, your own citation to the NIH e-brochure states, "Ashwagandha appears to be well tolerated for up to about 3 months of use, but its long-term safety is not known."
did you read the "SAFETY IS NOT KNOWN" part, you fucking retard???
do you even know what dose they are talking about?
the 600mg MEGADOSE in the image (likely you) an advocate for that stuff with bias posted will fucking KILL someone
and 100% sure no one is going to take the doses studied for only 3 months, so you are wrong all the way around
despite that, you conclude (out of thin air) that "most of the negative effects were very uncommon" and "was probably the only side effect she got and that's very sporadic"

go on, now, dim
give her the ground up african wood in capsule form megadosed and believe it will increase her libido (a claim not even these sham nigger companies make in selling idiots like you nothing but pigshit) and when she dies, good luck telling the prosecutor your tales

>>938078748 (OP)
Take her to a clothing optional beach like Haulover or Playalinda or resort like Caliente or Cypress Cove if you're in Florida. Turned my wife into a total slut who sucks/fucks on command now. There are nude places in every state.

>>938082386
she's either frigid or not into you
nothing is going to change that
certainly not some crap some scammers make and claim if you ingest it then magic happens
scientist have tried to find some pill or substance that makes women horny for hundreds, if not thousands of years
there is nothing
one has to be about an idiot to think that something someone ingests would do anything like that at all, anyway
stomach acid will eat your skin off
the properties something might show in a study as to what compounds are in something has nothing to do with how those compounds wind up in the body after being subjected to an arsenal of digestive degradation
all you would be ingesting is a whole shit ton of toxins
none of that shit is ever safe as it is not a single substance like actual prescriptions (that have also cleared the FDA and been proven to be effective) but instead a whole bunch of chemicals that will fuck you up some way, some how, if not kill somebody
use your brain, and a bit of common sense
if it actually worked, they'd make that claim on the outside of the bottle
if it actually worked, doctors would be prescribing it
if it actually worked, everybody would know about it and it would be selling like hotcakes
if it actually worked some retard on 4chan with a 70 IQ wouldn't have to be pushing it

this >>938082637

and this >>938082308 is easily the most retarded post i've read on 4chan in years

what a fucking idiot >>938082308

>>938078748 (OP)
This is what I do.
While we are in bed I will pull up porn next to her and start masturbating. It makes her fucking jealous as shit so she ends up riding me.

>>938083179
>how to get std's and lose your wife at the same time
>how to be a loser and be oblivious to what you are and how pathetic your life is

>>938083179
Pawns his wife off like cheap trash at loserclubs with dried up cum stains all over the walls and sheets he sleeps on from NiggerAIDS. Thinks he's winning. Tell's other loser anons to follow his way of life. Lol.

>>938083455
>>938083371
Wow, lots of hate. She doesn't fuck anyone but me but she'll blow most anyone if she likes you.

>>938083179
omfg, is this lowlife for real and does he really think he's got a sex life
hint: your wife thinks you are a loser, she is not into you, and uses you like dumbass to get what she wants, and she actually has you believing YOU are in control
if your wife fucks other guys, and gets away with it in your face, you are the lowest form of emasculated male and should maybe look in the mirror and reflect on the reality of what is going on and whether you duping yourself into a false reality is living at all
YOU don't have a sex life
SHE DOES
YOU are disposable
SHE GETS HER PLEASURE FROM OTHER MEN, MAKES YOU WATCH, AND HUMILIATES YOU PUBLICLY
lol, so fucking dumb

>>938083587
I get other women when the circumstances work out that way, duh

>>938083179
sad really
and she actually has him believing her lifestyle is something in his best interest instead of her pronouncement to the world that he is a loser amongst all losers at the camp of losers

>>938083698
kek you talk like an incel

>>938083559
backpeddle faster
if you do so, maybe you can even convince yourself that it's ok that she literally blows other males
your not married, imbecile
you have a cheating wife who betrays you in body and soul
she was never actually into you and your marriage and whole life is a sham
keep justifying it and ignoring where you actually are and what this situation makes you, and her

>>938083761
Well, given that you don't know me at all, I certainly hold your opinion in the highest regard. We've been married nearly a quarter century so it should be falling apart any moment now. I'll keep you posted!

>>938083616
yeah, because she doesn't give a fuck about you
you seem to miss the point every time
i certainly hope you are unemployed and she is the breadwinner
else you are literally the biggest loser i have ever heard of
that you know about some of what she does only confirms she was never yours and never will be
that's just the reality of your fake "marriage" in name only
it's a farce
and your whole life is by definition fake because of it
you are at a dead end
only suicide is left
else live out your miserable existence in utter humiliation until you shrivel into nothing, and are unaware you have been shriveling daily, including in her eyes, into nothingness and misery

>>938083736
Not him but it's 2025. No one uses "kek" for decades, grandpa. Wtf are you even doing here on a teenager image board if you're that old. No life much? I sincerely feel sorry for you, like all the other anons.

>>938083847
I don't think so. We have lots of friends in the lifestyle. Been at it for a while now, but you never know, there is still time for everything to fall apart as you describe. That's quite an essay your wrote there. You seem to know a lot about being a loser. Thanks for the tips!

>>938083886
>No one uses "kek" for decades
Lurk more

>>938083810
>Well, given that you don't know me at all
umm, yeah, your on an anonymous image board, gramps
that's how it works
nobody knows anybody
what's your retarded argument again?
literally any response on this board could start with "Well, given that you don't know me at all . . ."
oh, and btw, we know enough
we know that you believe you are a male, yet have been completely emasculated by a female who openly forces you to abide by a life where she cheat on you in front of you, and somehow are so low and dumb that she actually has you believing not only that this is ok, but that it's the life you want, and that it's any relationship at all
that makes you a confirmed loser and far less than even the lowest manlet
know that she never fucks you even if you dupe yourself into thinking you are fucking her
every part of her is focused on any other man other than you
you don't have a wife, you have a whore, and one that abuses and betrays you in every way, and has you believing that it's what you want and you are the architect of this
really fucking pathetic

>>938083954
except he's right
do you even know what "kek" means?
are you gonna say "guffaw" or "groovy" or "rad" next old man?
why are you even here tho?
you do know 4chan is nothing but teens, right?
if you are older than 20, you are already too old to be here
how old are you? seriously, how old?

>>938084029
>we know that you believe you are a male, yet have been completely emasculated by a female who openly forces you to abide by a life where she cheat on you in front of you, and somehow are so low and dumb that she actually has you believing not only that this is ok, but that it's the life you want, and that it's any relationship at all
But it was my idea so how am I the one being forced?
>know that she never fucks you even if you dupe yourself into thinking you are fucking her
She can think about whatever she wants when were fucking. We both masturbate to our vids made with friends.
I'm guessing you're going to be single for the foreseeable future. Based on your shitty controlling attitude, my wife would never blow you. Try something else.

>>938084097
You have to be 18 to use this site.

>>938083917
it's not a "lifestyle" any more so that rolling around in a pigpen full of mud is a lifestyle
it's certainly not a marriage either and has none of the things that make a marriage worthwhile at its core
how sad your life must be that you think you are living a "lifestyle" or for that matter "living" at all
you have a beat up prostitute for a "wife" and she pushes you around and you are completely oblivious to it and to how she cut your dick off and stole your dignity and whatever small amount of self respect you may have had at some point

>>938084137
You state the obvious. How about responding to his inquiry as to your age, gramps? That is what we are all talking about. Afraid to tell the truth?

>>938084173
>you have a beat up prostitute for a "wife" and she pushes you around and you are completely oblivious to it and to how she cut your dick off and stole your dignity and whatever small amount of self respect you may have had at some point
But we both enjoy it, so you seem like you don't understand. We're going to a party this weekend, where two women there have blown me in the past. I'm hoping to get both of them on my cock at once, which is something I absolutely love. She'll probably blow several guys there, because she likes that. You just seem too incelly to really understand life. You'll likely be alone forever in this day and age.

>>938084137
>have to
yes, id's are checked at the door, moron
this is how dumb you are

>>938084204
we're both mid-40's, a time when many couples get into swinging. But you'd have to get a gf first which is something I don't see in your future, unless it is with a tranny, which is just a faggot, which you may be kek.

>>938084264
nah, she makes you think you enjoy it
or you are a beta cuck
you choose

>>938084323
>nah, she makes you think you enjoy it
So I'm faking enjoyment when I'm getting a bj from a chick who isn't my wife? Make it make sense.

>>938083886
you are trying to hard

>>938084264
lol, i've literally 21 (and frankly feel like I'M too old to be here), and have fucked well over 80+ bitches since the last time i tried to count them all and keep coming up with more regularly
i don't have to drag my beat up prostitute "wife" (non-wife) to a nude camp to have her humiliate me on the offchance i might also get some action
i go to any club any night of the week and am guaranteed to get laid whenever I want, and with a different bitch any time I want, not even counting those I've fucked from work, parties, friends, you name it
i'm actually living a lifestyle
you are in a cage and don't even know it
AND you are stuck in a deadend "relationship" where you get laughed at by your prostitute owner (wife, or whatever the fuck you delude yourself she still is) and have no clue what you even are anymore
tell us more how you know something about anything
you've lived to whatever ripe old age you are with grey hairs on your dick and bald as fuck no doubt with a fat belly and a wife you secretly finds you repulsive on most levels and openly demonstrates that on a regular basis through her actions

>>938084315
>we're both mid-40's
CHRISAKE!!!
Are you fucking serious?
What the fuck are you even doing here, old man?
Are you seriously THAT PATHETIC???

>>938084315
40's?
i assume you are joking
if not, and you are actually older than like 25 which is already ancient for a teenage image board, i really feel bad for ya grandpa

>>938084584
4chan is actually old now.
The userbase isn't that young anymore.

>>938084511
>i go to any club any night of the week and am guaranteed to get laid whenever I want
You are spending a lot of time on a message board for someone who can "get laid whenever I want". Writing walls of text no less.
You know who isn't on these boards in the middle of the night? People who can get laid anytime they want.
Quit LARPing faggot. Are you good at anything at all? You certainly are not good at this basic shit.

>>938084315
Imagine being mid-40s and walking onto a middle school playground and staying there and trying to mingle and chat with people less than half your age
totally not a creepy fuck at all
irl you'd get arrested for being a fucking creep
you seriously need to get the fuck off our boards, old man
go ask your so-called 'wife' if she will give you permission to beat off to some other man's dick slamming down her throat like a cheap whore
you don't belong here and you are creepy as fuck for being here

>>938084640
>4chan is actually old now.
>The userbase isn't that young anymore.
Apparently this board is now for people who can get laid at anytime kek bawahahahahaha

>>938084659
>you don't belong here
Been here since 2013 so I doubt I'm "not supposed to be here".
Does your Mom know you're up this late? When does summer vacation end?

>>938084413
Are you like unemployed or disabled or something? That's the only thing that might make sense here. Must be she earns a lot of money and you can't work or something, else your notion of you being in some fucked up "lifestyle" delusion makes no sense.

>>938084726
I didn't post this >>938084413 but I presume you're talking to me.
Sold a business in my mid-30's and retired. My wife still has a business, but only part time.

>>938084640
>4chan is actually old now
What does the age of board itself have anything to do with the age of it's users?
Are you this dumb that you can't even basic logic?
Hurr-durr, tic-tac-toe is actually an old game, therefore those that play it are old.
Hurr-durr, teething rings have actually been around for thousands of years, therefore those that use teething rings aren't young anymore.

How fucking dumb are you?

Oh, and fyi, the most recent series of surveys shows that the average age of 4chan users has actually decreased substantially post-Covid. That's also true of all the other similar sites.

It takes 0.2 seconds to look this up, yet you spent longer typing out an outright fabrication you made up out of thin air that defies both logic and basic common sense.

You are truly dumb.

>>938084991
So much anger. This guy seems like a tranny school shooter type. We really need a way to easily alert the FBI to people like this.

>>938084640
not him, but it's the opposite
all one has to do is look at the content on any given board
it's all become far more juvenile that it was in the 2010s
half the threads now are fucking kiddie cartoons, and what used to be mostly nude threads and edgy shit is now all clothed/unclothed, girls who you want to eat your cum, socials, diaper threads, furry shit, draw threads, kiddie-like ylyl threads, teenager femboy shit, twitch streamers, endless nonstop "celeb" threads, and almost all shit only a minor or immature kid would be interested in

4chan has definitely gone down in user age, and it's number of users

>>938085132
>half the threads now are fucking kiddie cartoons, and what used to be mostly nude threads and edgy shit is now all clothed/unclothed, girls who you want to eat your cum, socials, diaper threads, furry shit, draw threads, kiddie-like ylyl threads, teenager femboy shit, twitch streamers, endless nonstop "celeb" threads, and almost all shit only a minor or immature kid would be interested in
This is a list of characteristics of today's leftists. They are not children, they are full assed grown adults interested in this stupid shit.

>>938085038
>we
how amusing you think you are one of us when you are in your mid-40s (at best) according to you while clueless that you are on a teenagers image board and if it was real life, everyone would be calling the cops on you
the only reason someone your ancient age would come to a site to hang out with teenagers is that you are pedophile
don't worry, the fbi monitors this site continuously and no doubt they will be watching the traffic to your ip address now
you are precisely the type of creepy fuck they look for

bump

>>938078748 (OP)
Kys

If you don't know what that means you're too old for this board

>>938078748 (OP)
Drop the birth control and start tossing all the food in your house that contains seed oils. You'll have to be the catalyst. Women are lazy cunts and get comfortable. Work out every day. It's gonna be hard but i have faith in you. Don't cheat you fucking loser.

>>938079748
This is a fat colored hair female. Ignore this post.

>>938085214
Age doesn't matter here you giant pussy.