She's allowed to be with other men. She has been with more than a dozen in the last year. I would say 9 of them used no condom and came inside her. She's submissive so she let's the guys decide and almost all of them don't wear a condom. She tells them she's married, wears her ring, etc.

I asked her if they ask about birth control (she's on it) and she said some of them do some don't. I feel like they don't care, don't ask her if I'm okay with it and just cum inside her. Kinda feels like they're doing it to insult me in a way. Am I overreacting about this?