>>941064025 (OP)
Here's the deal. We are spirit within a container. This container mutes the raw energy that we perceive as emotion. Our time here is meant to learn to control that energy by controlling our emotions, turning them into a higher form. As the old alchemical idea of "changing base metal into gold". That's what it's about. We chose the life we live in order to work on the emotions and lessons we need to develop. This life is given a set time. When we are no longer in this body, those energies we perceive as emotion are no longer enclosed and are full force upon our psychy. If you are an alcoholic, when you die you still crave it. Not the drink itself, for the physical can have no effect, but that change in vibration you've become accustomed to. So, you still have the desire, the addiction, but it is full fold stronger as it is no longer muted by the physical form. This goes for all emotions and is why poltergeists are a thing and spirits lingering in familiar places. The poltergeists are those who had extreme rage and were unable to control it before death. That rage is released as pure energy upon them. Spirits that linger are hooked on a location or a person. They have not dealt with it in life and now it controls them until they return to try again. Now here's the kicker. As I mentioned, our lives have a set time. If we end it before that time is up we are stuck here to continue the full length. So, say someone kills themselves at 20 years old. If that person was meant to live to be 90, then they are stuck here, in spirit, for the remaining 70 years. That time is spent in complete isolation from those who are physical. They may not even realize they are dead. 70 years of wandering alone with the full elemental force of the emotions that brought them to that decision upon them. This is the real hell. And it was in analogy referred to as a lake of fire, because that is what it's like.
