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Anonymous No.941317137 [Report] >>941318426
What should I do
There's this man, with an amazing bwc, and I love him very much. But I feel insufficient, like I don't deserve having a relationship with him by not being what I think is the ideal for him. He hasn't seen what I look like yet, and I'm afraid of being rejected and/or disappoint him. I mean, it's ok if he doesn't want anything with me, but I don't want to lose him still.

Has /b/ ever been in a situation like this? What should I do?
Anonymous No.941317952 [Report]
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Anonymous No.941318426 [Report] >>941318506
>>941317137 (OP)
Become better. Also, compensate with devotion.
Anonymous No.941318506 [Report] >>941319132
>>941318426
>compensate with devotion.

I naturally give him that. But how can I "become better"?
Anonymous No.941319132 [Report] >>941319197
>>941318506
Idk, in what way are you insufficient? Get in shape, work on your style.
Anonymous No.941319197 [Report]
>>941319132
Hmm. Got it.
Anonymous No.941319233 [Report]
You don't choose if you're good enough for a person; they do. Your feelings of insufficiencies are your own insecurities that you want to change. You can work on yourself if you want, but insecurities are mental, not physical. Give the person the opportunity to decide if they find you deserving of their time.
Peace.