Mainly Costa Rica and Mexico. Yes I have a girlfriend and no she doesn’t know about it. Strictly prostitutes and I have never and will never tell anyone.

I believe that the male biological imperative for sexual novelty has been ignored for too long. Men can have a stable and loving relationship while taking care of sexual needs on the side. Just keep them separate and never forget who the queen is. AMA

>>22828377 (OP)
Roll

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>>22828377 (OP)
Does this mean that people with little willes are best suited to anal?

>>22828398
Okay I’ll start. I’m in my late 20s and I spent my college years plowing a bunch, but never women I was incredibly attracted to. I was young and broke and unconfident, but I went to college in California so fucking was not that hard. But I wasn’t rich and fratty so I never got any sorority skanks.

5 years out of college I’m rich and successful and way more confident. So I can finally pull the girls who ignored me. Only issue is that I have a great relationship with my girlfriend (except the bedroom is 100% dead). We kiss and cuddle and are super affectionate, but after 6 years I just can’t get to that place of pornstar hot sex. So I wrestled with whether I should stay or go. I realized I didn’t want the 10% that is lacking in my relationship (sex) to screw up the other 90% that is perfect (companionship, affection, loyalty, shared vision)

So I realized that my desires are totally natural and won’t go anywhere. Back before the third wave feminist movement, it wasn’t a big deal. Men would fuck their secretaries, go to brothels, and the whole “wife in the suburbs, girlfriend in the city” trope was widely accepted. Of course, you keep the two worlds separate. And if you got caught, people hated you for humiliating your wife, not for fucking another woman. So you keep your family in tact, keep your wife happy, and show up for her 100%. And understand that she doesn’t need to be your best friend, confidant, mentor, co-parent, AND fuck doll. That’s too much to ask of one person and those unrealistic expectations lead to long term unhappiness in marriage

>>22828407
Never tried anal. The pussy is so much more purpose built and right next to the asshole, so I never understood the appeal

>>22828417
A few questions:

1. Do you ever feel guilty?
2. Would you be okay with your gf doing the same thing?
3. Why Latin America? How much does it cost and how does it typically work?
4. (Have another lust provoking image)

>>22828377 (OP)
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>>22828436
Thank you anon. I might masturbate to this pic later and just wanted you to know that

>1. Do you ever feel guilty?
Not guilty about the sex, but I feel bad sneaking around. I usually just say that I’m off to go get a massage then come back an hour later. During the actual sex I don’t feel guilty because I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong. I always make sure it is separate and won’t get back to her, I always use a condom to prevent STDs, and I’d never do it with anyone in our lives. That’s the main reason I use hookers, it is clean and transactional. I kind of think of it like a premium penis massage or masturbation 2.0

>would you be okay with her doing the same thing?
No. Women do not have the same biological drive for sexual novelty. The equivalent would not be her going out and getting a train ran on her, it would be if she had a close male friend who made her feel special and simped over her. Men give out sex like it is nothing, women give out emotion like it is nothing. That’s why a woman can forgive her man if he just randomly fucked a slut on vacation but likely would not forgive him if he had a secret girlfriend he genuinely loved. Men are scarce with their emotions, women are scarce with sex.

>3. Why Latin America? How does it work?
I fear legal repercussions. I’ve gone to an Asian massage parlor here in California and it was awesome but still a bit too sketchy for me. In Costa Rica, it is legal and very socially acceptable. Plus I love big booty latinas and you get way more bang for your buck. It’s usually around $100 for sex, $200 for sex with an absolute super model tier Latina. Usually you just go to a massage parlor. You can tell which ones are secretly brothels if they are open late. Just message them in WhatsApp and ask if you can see pics of the girls working. If it’s a brothel, they’ll send pics. If not, it’s not awkward since they know tourists come for hookers.

My type is short, tan, big ass (picrel)

>>22828889
Doesn’t the fact that you feel guilty sneaking around tell you that you’re doing something wrong? Also it seems hypocritical that you wouldn’t be happy if your gf did the same

Also, any advice on Asian massage parlors in the US? I’ve seen pics and videos online and they all seem like ugly middle aged Chinese women giving handjobs. Was that your experience? I’d like to go fuck a hot Latina but can’t afford to travel rn

>>22828914
>doesnt the fact you feel guilty sneaking around tell you you’re doing something wrong?
Not exactly. There’s a difference between being honest and transparent in a relationship. A toddler will transparently blurt out whatever is on his mind, that’s not a good thing. It’s okay to have privacy and discretion in a relationship. I don’t tell her every time I take a shit. I don’t tell her every time I look at one of her friend’s asses. As for the hypocrisy part, I just explained why it’s not hypocritical

>asian massage parlors
Honestly sites like RubMaps are your friend. Pick one with recent reviews. I wanted to fuck an Asian girl, not get a handjob from a mama-San (although they’re apparently great at it).

My girl was probably like 24 and looked like picrel. She had a nice ass unlike most Asian girls. She gave me a massage and about 5 min in I just started touching her ass and legs. She flipped me over and asked if I wanted sex and I said yes and grabbed my wallet. She started giving me a bareback blowjob and really going to town. Then she stripped and gave me a lap dance and I told her I wanted to fuck her. She slipped on the condom and we fucked in missionary for a bit and after a few minutes I knew I was going to cum, so I told her I wanted her from behind. I fucked her in standing doggy, came in her pussy, filled the bag, and pulled out and she cleaned me up. Overall, 9/10 would do again. It was about $200 total and lasted 45 min

>>22828972
Don’t you ever worry about police stings at the places in the US? I’ve thought about doing it but the price of getting caught is insane

>>22829023
Nah not really. It’s actually way more common than you’d think. In Los Angeles, they don’t really enforce it.

Think about it - no prostitution is not an option for police. It’ll always exist. They don’t really care about a man going into a quiet, non chalant massage parlor, busting a nut, then leaving without incident. They care when it is visible like hookers out on the street, men soliciting, and drunk idiots causing a scene. So basically as long as the place looks legit, the customers are respectful and quiet, and there is no public nuisance, the LAPD just tolerates them since it keeps it hidden. Plus, there are ways around it

Never ask for sex before she offers. Never say yes until her touching gets more sexual like touching your ass or penis. My girl kissed me on the cheek before we started the massage. A cop couldn’t kiss or be kissed. The cops have to prove intent that you paid for sex. If you just go in, say you like to tip well, get a massage, it leads to sex, then you leave a nice tip “for the massage”, intent is very hard to prove. And that’s if a judge even decides to waste his time with a victimless crime that no one cares about

>>22829045
Honestly it makes sense. I’ve been married for 5 years and I know tons of men struggling with this shit. The only alternative would be porn but that makes the problem worse. I think if you can manage the secrecy and just go relieve the pressure somewhere else, that’s more sustainable in the long run. I’ve come to the conclusion that relationships need to be sustainable not perfect

>>22829164
Porn isn’t a substitute and it just makes everything worse. Men need sexual novelty, not just a bunch of orgasms. That means the sounds and smells and the warmth of a wet pussy and the softness of a woman’s skin. Porn tricks your lizard brain into thinking there are a million options available and leaves you wanting more. After I fuck a prostitute, I’m good for a while. I have no interest in sticking around and I want her out of my sight. After I whack it to porn, I want even more right after.

It’s like when you’re hungry and you chew gum vs. eating a big meal