So I tried to reach out to her yesterday and it went horrible
She said she doesnt hate me for asking her out but cant let it go despite it being months later
I told her I wanted better closure with her and wanted to apologize for my overall shitty behavior and told her I struggle with expressing myself which she appreciated but still couldnt accept my apology and told me to accept her wishes to never contact her again
I deleted her number and now I will finally move on
As selfish as it sounds I needed to go out on my own terms
I tried to save her but modern women are so messed up its impossible
Hopefully I will find someone someday
Hated how things ended between us its all my fault

>>22843092 (OP)
>which she appreciated but still couldnt accept my apology and told me to accept her wishes to never contact her again
sorry
atleast you DID get closure, though
>As selfish as it sounds I needed to go out on my own terms
>I tried to save her but modern women are so messed up its impossible
wym?
>Hated how things ended between us its all my fault
don't worry about what's your fault, only what you can control now and in the future

>>22843092 (OP)
There's porn now. Women serve no purpose.

Kinda facing the same thing, we broke it off 1 years ago and she’s still messaging me. Hell, yesterday she even told me she’d kill herself.

I don’t even know, man.

>>22843127
Self reply.

I’ve tried everything but it’s like they’re ignoring or denying help.

>>22843092 (OP)
people just cant met bygones be bygones in modern day.
it's so fucking stupid.
literally 10 years could go by and you could end up having kids and people will bring up shit from 10 years ago as if it happened yesterday

>>22843138
fuck 'em op focus on being better for you and not for other people

>>22843095
She’s a asexual confused has barely any friends and spent all my time with me but couldn’t stand the idea of dating me when I asked her out
I helped her through personal stuff and left her alone and she still couldn’t forgive me

>>22843179
sorry, i know you like her but she sounds fucking retarded

>>22843187
Long story short I asked her out she rejected me
Then I helped her with a personal thing and afterwards she called me up making zero sense confusing events that happened between us on the day I asked her out
Apologized to me but said she doesnt want to be friends again
I tried contacting her yesterday after literally 7 months of not talking to her to see if she could ever forgive me and telling her it was all my fault not hers but ended up getting the same response except I apparently broke her boundaries multiple times aka I texted her Happy Halloween no joke and she cant accept being friends again but still wished me the best

>>22843179
ah
man, people are fucked up
>>22843187
this

>>22843574
i wouldn't know how to help her
hopefully she doesn't get into any drugs, i think it would be over at that point
hopefully she has some sort of decent support network as well

>>22843577
>>22843578
I’m not sure if I should text her one last time and say I’m sorry again for bothering her and I wish things ended between us but feel like it wouldn’t help anything
The fact she didn’t block my number all this time and told me she appreciated my apology and reaching out but still can’t get over how things went between us makes me so confused
This has a lot of issues which I accepted but she can’t get over the fact that I had feelings for her

>>22843589
>i should text her one last time
it's not worth it bro, you're gonna have to learn to live without closure at one point

>>22843589
i think you shouldn't do that
it might just set her off again
better to just wait for her to reach out or ask for help i think

>>22843594
you're gonna learn as you get older that closure is sometimes isnt worth it
can people change?
Yeah
but people only chang when the burden they have can no longer fit the mold of their mind and if someone flat out doesnt care about that burden they will not change.
And when they do sometimes they will change for the worse.

>>22843594
>>22843597
>>22843598
Yeah me texting her was the final piece of closure that I needed a final attempt to see if she could atleast hear me out but now I realize she will never change her mind cause she’s a modern woman and has insane mental issues
I’ll miss her but I can’t change anything anymore
Thanks anons I appreciate it and wish you guys the best
I’ll do my best to move on

>>22843609
she might reach out again
>but now I realize she will never change her mind cause she’s a modern woman and has insane mental issues
she hasn't made up her mind in the first place if she has mental issues :/
it's still just your childhood friend, but fucked up by modernity

but yeah good luck

>>22843671
sometimes it's best to go separate ways.
if they popup in the future accept them but be weary because they could just be putting on a faćade that they've changed and became a better person.

>>22843681
true

it just seems like OP has a very black-and-white approach, "either everything or nothing", which is especially retarded when you're dealing with someone who has boundary issues

but yeah OP should look out for himself, and he should do what he has to in order to focus on his life

>>22843671
Not childhood friend but girl I met 2 years ago got extremely close got rejected and ever since then she became super confusing
>>22843681
If she ever needed my help I would help her no joke but I think she is afraid of a genuine connection with another person which will impact her adult life
I’m afraid the red pill memes are right when she gets older and her friends who are just college friends are fed up with her bullshit and she has no one
She seems to push others away and I don’t think she can understand how much I care for her
But I got to move on and just remember the good memories I had with her

>>22843689
What else am I supposed to do with this girl who I was extremely close with
>If I don’t talk to her there’s a zero percent chance I can ever regain her trust
>If I respect her boundaries and not contact her I can’t discuss our friendship
>Let’s hypothetically say I didn’t contact her whatsoever after she said she needed time her response would have been the exact same
There is no winning here
>>22843693
Thanks Anon

>>22843681
I’m going to do my best to move on

>>22843092 (OP)
Op there's literally thousands of girls who look like her but with a better chemistry to work out with you. Don't fret gawddamn.

>>22843821
I know it’s kinda funny how much she looks like Asa but with glasses
I’ll find someone Anon
Thanks!

Happens to the best of us

>>22843703
>There is no winning here
Yeah exactly. Move on with life, chapter is over, door is closed

>>22843127
>yesterday she even told me she’d kill herself.

If you don't date her again? Dang, i wish i had a psycho bitch obsessed with me.

>>22843983
Thank you Anon

>>22844064
Also what should I do to move forward?

Final Bump

>>22843881
If she's asian there's like an even higher chance you'll find someone who looks like her.

>>22843179
kek you can do better than that 80 iq tard

>>22844928
No Hispanic
>>22844930
I just feel bad for her honestly we shared so much in common and she was the first woman I ever loved

>>22844928
I do think I gotta take the race mixing Asian pill in order to get a girlfriend
Any good dating apps that have Asians