Why do you all hate woman who suffer from BPD?

>>22847030 (OP)
I don't particularly care if they have BPD or not

>>22847030 (OP)
I hate those who don't suffer from it too

>>22847030 (OP)
I don't.
But I do have nearly all those symptoms.
And it's not just women, I think my Dad has BPD too.
But... as an incel, you know, if the shoe fits.

>>22847030 (OP)
Because they personally fucked me over by becoming treacherous useless drug addicted cunts that started fights and did crimes against me and some of my close friends and family over absolutely nothing, also while those same people were trying to help them.

They live in Main Character Syndrome World and aren't suffering as normal people would understand it, it's everyone else around them that suffers mentally, socially, financially etc.

Similar to leftists, I think there's a lot of undiagnosed mental illness within the leftist faith.

>>22847034
They get dopamine hits for being pieces of shit.


Their brains reward then for being bad people.

>>22847030 (OP)
i married a chick in 2018. she hid it well. in the last year or two, it was fucking hell. She would beat the shit out of me randomly for no reason, even when I was sleeping. Smashed up my house multiple times. Called the police claiming to be a victim. (SURPRISE WHORE, I HAD EVERYTHING RECORDED SECRETLY)

worst fucking time of my life. dont do it bros. the sex will be GOAT tier, the life ruin will also be the polar opposite.

Post the one about Pan Piano next.

Because you can do 99.9% right, and the 0.1% you do wrong will invalidate it all and cause her to spiral to go batshit meltdown mode and cause a massive fight. You don't know what dealing with a bpd woman is like.

>>22847030 (OP)
They're great to fuck, but I wouldn't marry one.

>>22847030 (OP)
Because they get good men hooked during their idealization phase, treat him like garbage during the devaluation phase, rinse repeat until they cheat on the man they claim to love.

I had a BPD girlfriend. It hurts me to see how low she debases herself. It is probably a good thing that she broke up with me and blocked me because she would have driven me to an early grave had we stayed together. I still love her, despite the vitriol she spewed to me, the lying and cheating she did to me, and the scarily lack of empathy she had for me; I know it’s not her fault.

That said, BPD people (like all crazy people) should be caught early and sent to nuthouses to protect themselves and others.

>>22847039
I was in a packed restaurant / bar and we sat down I said I wanted a beer. I ordered my beer, but I got the "wrong" one. I wasnt allowed to have that specific beer. She smashed the menu board over my head in the middle of the restaurant multiple times and abused me
I could have "a beer" not "that beer brand"
the insanity knows no bounds, theres no logic to any of it. it's fucking STUPID
She wouldnt ever apologise for anything either, but she would shove my cock in all three holes and I'd forget it. Until it happened randomly again. Eventually just grew tired of it. The sex is the GOAT though thats what draws you in and keeps you coming back

>>22847036
She's cute! OwO I'd put an engagement ring on her finger! :D
...
wait... am I the problem...?

>>22847030 (OP)
I was talking to a girl that had BPD, and she literally made a list of her top 10 "guys" she was talking to and told me "look you're number 4" like I was supposed to be happy about it. Blocked her on the stop, and she tried to add me from alts to ask me why I got mad.

>>22847044
I'm pretty sure that's what I would call a slut.

>>22847036
Fuck, this brings back bad memories.

>>22847037
>she hid it well
Did she? BPD women can’t hide it for very long. Maybe you have an NPD.

>>22847041
>the vitriol she spewed to me, the lying and cheating she did to me, and the scarily lack of empathy she had for me
Oh, and the slander and ridicule behind my back after the breakup.

Why do this?

>>22847047
i'm autistic most likely, I feel like the BPD women aim for autists because they feed off them.

there are other reasons for the "hide it well" but i cant say them without giving too much away. theres a reason for it though. once that reason was "completed", then it was living hell

>>22847049
>BPD feed off autistic men
That's terrible...
*Attaches massive flag to flag pole*
*Raises it above my head*
*Flag says "I'm autistic please date me so we can have white children together" with an arrow that points down at me*

>>22847030 (OP)
Because I was raised by a BPD mother and I feel like I'm not even a human being. I'm stunted, emotionally damaged, and unable to connect with people. All BPDemons should be killed or lobotomized.

>>22847034
This.
They're narcissists and psychopaths

>>22847030 (OP)
>I'm not just a massive cunt it's muh bee pee dee
>I need more of muh meds in place of a personality
Fucking hell they used to be satisfied with fibromyalgia to avoid any accountability

>>22847030 (OP)
ah damn my mom might be a BPD lady

>>22847050
>That's terrible...
im pretty sure its true because ive had two long relationships now with BPD. I cant seem to attract anyone without it to stick around for long.

the first period is like a hoover, they love bomb you fucking hard to get you and do and say everything you could ever dream of. This is just so they can eventually move to discarding you and abusing you and fucking you over randomly. If you make a joke that they dont like expect to be punched closed fisted in the head repeatedly for no reason. stuff like that.
but i mean like when you have a hot girl offering up all her holes to you, you get confused along the way. I think BPD also forms some sort of fucking trauma bond where you've invested in it 100% and given your all and in return you get abused for any and no reasons randomly treating you like a piece of shit

>>22847030 (OP)
I don't wanna die in a murdersuicide regardless of how good the sex was

>>22847055
I truly realize that going through that must have been very painful for you.
... Please don't take it the wrong way then when I say that I would still prefer to experience that over my current perma-loneliness.

>>22847042
>GOAT
What does that even mean?
Sorry. I don't speak nigger or NPC.

>>22847057
i had my wife say she wished death upon my 4 year old niece and nephew. i had to install secret cameras recording 24/7 to my computers because the cunt would stand outside yelling HELP ME SOMEONE HELP ME HELP ME PLEASE because I changed the locks when she moved. The last time police came they handcuffed me and were pushing me around to jail me, until they checked their fucking shit properly and realised I have a restraining order against HER.
where was the help for men? doesnt exist. all the domestic violence "help" is for WOMEN AND CHILDREN. when I called a lot of them, they said SORRY WE DONT HELP MEN, BUT HAVE YOU TRIED COUNSELLING FOR YOUR ANGER ISSUES?

>>22847059
Sorry that happened anon, it's a really terrible thing that support for men simply doesn't exist.

>>22847058
when you come of age newfag you'll figure it out

>>22847055
>I think BPD also forms some sort of fucking trauma bond where you've invested in it 100% and given your all and in return you get abused for any and no reasons randomly treating you like a piece of shit
Your body becomes addicted to the dopamine, adrenaline, cortisol, and all the other chemical shit that goes haywire when you're in a relationship with a psycho. A trauma bond is literally an addiction.

>>22847062
ive been free now for about 8 months. life is shit. I blew my entire life savings sold all my bitcoin in like 2015 (when it hit 700 bucks or something) to get things moving
moved back in with my mum now
could be a multi millionaire instead im just a loser again haha
DO NOT TALK TO ANYONE WITH BPD MEN. UNDERSTAND HOW TO FIGURE IT OUT IMMEDIATELY!

>>22847036
The image leaves out, different variations of: "People are always so mean to me, for no reason! I can't figure out why! Everyone is out to get me for no reason!"

>>22847062
>A trauma bond is literally an addiction
>And how
I told one to 'go fuck herself' via text years ago and still think about her constantly as I have a new gf.

>>22847065
i was invited to my only friend, my best friend i guess, since i only have one for like 20 years that i keep in contact withs wedding. during lockdowns only a handful of people could go when it was winding down, so partners of the 3 guys going couldnt go also
mine would send me photos of a bridge saying shes gonna kill herself because im such a piece of shit and that everything will be my fault, she will leave a note telling everyone I did it .... stuff like that
completely ruined the wedding for me, couldnt allow me to have one fucking night of enjoyment in my entire life

>>22847039
so jews

>>22847030 (OP)
Because my mother abused me as a child and I demonstrate almost every symptom of schizoid personality disorder from constantly being gaslit, molested, accused of what I was a victim of, and called a faggot from being raised almost exclusively by a woman that has admitted she's glad circumcision was painful because "I was a difficult birth."

I fucking hate women.

>>22847030 (OP)
Bipolar disorder is a scam to excuse women acting like cunts.

>>22847070
thanks for proving to everyone youre a fucking moron
must be a yank

anyone with cluster B unironically is possessed by demons or has demons attached to them

especially narcissists

bpd isn't real. you don't know what you think you know. what you're describing is attributed to actual personality disorders such as narcissistic personality disorder

>>22847030 (OP)
They just hate all women really - we represent the weakness in their framework, the weakness' they don't want to admit they have (emotione=lack of control). Many here had BPD mothers, or narcissistic mothers, mothers that took a rx while pregnant and may have fucked then up etc. Anyone in their early 40's had a narc for a parent. The actually pick women to crack who have endured the same trauma as themsleves, they know they can control them. They actually hate women who have boundaries. Basically men here are too weak and playing schoolyard games to convinve themselves otherwise.
Many here are NPD, bad behaving Psychopathic. Not all - some are just here as a passover before their brains and souls come back online.

>>22847066
>they really are monsters
That sucks man. I'd bet she had convinced herself that you were having sex with someone at the wedding. It's funny how they can make you feel like the asshole/badguy even though they push you to your actions through the constant jabbing.

>>22847062
Truth. 2 months of detoxing calculated trauma bond. Nearly killed me. Great experience for my studies though.

>>22847075
yeah im a broken shell of a man now
dont talk to anyone, dont go out anywhere. basically became a NEET, but with money.. ..
absolutely none of it was worth it. If I can warn just one guy here then I've done my lifes work. Dont do what I did, save yourself.

>>22847065
Did you create the trauma bond or her?

>>22847073
BPD is part psychopath and part narcissist essentially...
They aren't completely one way or the other and so they're even more dysfunctional and self-destructive than either one.
That's why they're called "borderline" because they share borders with multiple other personality disorders.

>>22847066
That's awful, from the other side of it... not saying you did this. But if you created the trauma bond,like it was calculated, suicide is often an end result. I've seen men fall into this with the exact same tactics, it's called being human and being tortured. Not saying you did that but...

>>22847030 (OP)
I bet 90% of the planet suffers from most of these symptoms one way or another

>>22847080
shutup jeet faggot

>>22847081
It's a gradient. Everyone is somewhere on the spectrum. It's only considered a disorder when it becomes so extreme that it significantly reduces your quality of life.

>>22847062
>Your body becomes addicted to the dopamine, adrenaline, cortisol, and all the other chemical shit that goes haywire when you're in a relationship with a psycho
indeed, the rush is unreal
and so is the crash when you get discarded

>>22847078
Me. I was going through a divorce when I met her. So I had all sorts of stress in my life and I figure I was using her as an escape from all that. She only lives a 1/4 mile away from me. She drives by my street every day and I've seen her walk her dog by my street. I see her here and there and she keeps her eyes dead ahead so I know she knows it's me. It's a weird scenario man.

>>22847079
bpd isn't real, you have no idea what you're talking about. not even psychologists pretend it's part psychopathy and narcissism, you're a shit head. bpd is an overused fake diagnosis used to keep the oversaturated and worthless therapy industry going

again, i'm not saying shit like npd doesn't exist, but bpd does not exist, it's used to drive people to therapy

>>22847031
flippy bippy

I have a BPD gf and I just smack her around when she's being all retarded. It calms her down for some reason and keeps her quiet. Sometimes horny. Weirdo.

>>22847087
looks like qbert

I hate the men who suffer from it more, they are much more nefarious than the women who have it by a country mile. As personal experience with a family member with BPD it's a serial back-stabber syndrome

>>22847086
That's strange. All of the psychology books I've read have listed BPD as being a legitimate cluster-B disorder.
I guess I'll just have to write all of those no-nothing PHD fuckers to let them know they're wrong.

>>22847030 (OP)
It's not hate, it's self-preservation.

Psychopaths kill quickly, bipolars kill slowly (or quickly if they veer into psychopath territory).
It is not someone else's faults that those who kill their mates end up alone, whether taken literally or metaphorically.

>>22847077
I know it's easier said than done but you have to start getting out of the house. You'll meet someone and the pain will slowly diminish. It'll never go away, ever, but it won't be so bad. When you're an old man it'll just be a life thought. I took care of my grandpa in his last years and learned he had known someone before my grandma. He was sent to the war and when he came back she was marrying someone else. He told me he watched outside the church as she was married. Obviously the story is more in depth but I didn't know any of what he told me. On his death bed he talked of her and not my grandma whom he was with for 50+ years. It was eye opening.

>>22847093
im done now brother. I understand your grandpa's feelings though. He probably loved that chick with all his heart until she fucked him over. but that feeling never goes away.
the worst thing a BPD does is take all of your vulnerabilities, everything you've ever confided in them, and they use it against you in their random arguments. its such a strange thing that the person you trust the most finally will use those things to hurt you for no reason other than to make themselves feel ... whatever the fuck they feel when they fly off the handle

>>22847030 (OP)
Is there anything you want to tell us?

>>22847050
A racist white bpdemon will make you unracist out of pavlonian instinct

>>22847030 (OP)
I don't hate BPD whores. I just think you should avoid them like the plague for your own sanity.
I saw man-made horrors far beyond my comprehension when I "dated" a BPD whore.

>>22847037
BPD whores use sex to hook men up, they know how to be easy or very hard lays, they can play the long or the short game for sex and the sex will be extremely rewarding. Then they close their legs and the meat-grinding phase starts.
If you can afford it, you can perfectly buy GOAT-tier sex. Some things are just meant to be bought. Buy it. It's safer. It's for your own sanity.

>>22847094
She didn't fuck you over. It was her illness that did that.
She went her own way or jumped off that bridge, but you're still in the same shit place. Get your shit together and live the rest of your life in such way to compensate for the misery you faced.

>>22847097
>If you can afford it, you can perfectly buy GOAT-tier sex. Some things are just meant to be bought. Buy it. It's safer. It's for your own sanity.
yep i was a monger before i decided to stop and find a "good one"
ill simply just go back to smashing whores in japan, korea, SEA again. I wont get feelings ever again thats for sure
My biggest regret is introducing her to my entire family, my nieces, my nephews, everyone loved her. Then she said she wants to laugh when they die. My family took her in as part of the family, they did everything for her. driving her to work, picking her up when she didnt have a car. I paid all her rent, food, bills, etc so she could save cash to buy a brand new car outright. Then after she got her car she said "im not your fucking uber driver, im not driving you anywhere or any of your fucking family" and i drive a motorcycle all my life used to take her everywhere on my bike she said "I couldnt be with someone that only has a motorcycle, thats what poor people have. I need a man with a new car"
that fucking cunt only got a car because we all helped her get there and help her with driving lessons. just fucked man
my pop is dying from stage 4 cancer and she said if i go to his birthday party she will kill herself and they dont love me anyway they hate me. this is how they are. her grandparents died 20 years ago, so i shouldnt ever be able to see mine.

I was raised by oke and I'm an emotional cripple who stays inside my apartment 24/7. Haven't had a social life in over 10 years. Comfy I guess.

>>22847051
I agree with this anon

>>22847100
Raised by one*

>>22847098
>Get your shit together and live the rest of your life in such way to compensate for the misery you faced.
im just slowly drinking myself to death then an hero, that was my idea anyway

>>22847030 (OP)
They tend to be mean to tolerant people

>>22847030 (OP)
>Women suffer from BPD
No. Everyone else around them does. Women fucking LOVE having BPD, it lets them be a victim and have a built in excuse to be shitty. As we know, being shitty to others is strong and empowering, and thus good.
I dated a BPDemon for five years, undiagnosed and unmedicated of course. She eventually dumped me because she's "gayer than she thought" and "wanted kids" (okay schizo) and attacked me for not having a degree when she didn't have one either. She said she "was going to" and then didn't. This is the same woman who said that our marriage was a sure thing as soon as she graduated, which she never did. As soon as her next relationship fell apart she wanted to get back together, which I declined. I'm not going to be her fallback guy while she shops around, that's not a relationship that's a modern woman's mercenary love. She told me she didn't want to fix it, so it's broken. She finally moved away and now she's someone else's problem. 5 years of my life down the drain. Plenty of women wanted me during that time, but I turned them down out of a misguided sense of loyalty.
Not that you care, 1pbtid OP.

>>22847103
You never once mentioned any regret or coping mechanisms with her own wrong actions against you. You may have been mislead by an actual psychopath into thinking she's bipolar.
Do with your life as you see fit, but drinking yourself to death or killing yourself will only make the crazy hoe win.

>>22847098
>>22847094
She is her illness you dumb simp

She's basically a demonic algorithm that tells her to

>act perfect
>love bomb and fulfill every fantasy
>trauma bond
>detect if he loves you
>brutally betray and abandon and devalue
>keep giving breadcrumbs of hope until he dies

they just keep doing this over and over to every guy. you have to realize she was a ticking time bomb right from the start. she manipulated you into believing a perfect version of herself so that she can emotionally squeeze out every drop of your soul for her demonic consumption.

>>22847105
relatable,
many such stories

>>22847107
What if I help her to calm down so that we can spread our love across decades? :/

>>22847107
So it's just jewish-like parasitic behavior, not an actual mental illness?

>>22847105
>5 years of my life down the drain. Plenty of women wanted me during that time, but I turned them down out of a misguided sense of loyalty.
10 for me dude. I actually married mine out of necessity.
at the time I met her i was in peak physical health and fitness and really good looking. I could have any fucking chick i chose. I fucked up and chose the wrong cunt. Now i'm 10 years older, fatter, uglier.
>>22847107
damn bro that second comment really hit home for me. it actually describes my life perfectly. I should stop reading cause its gonna destroy me
I am just commenting here because I cant tell anyone IRL what i've been through without ridicule or gossiping. i can tell you bros though, my life has been a living nightmare for so long. im free now 8 or so months, there was an attempt from her to get back together but i blocked and deleted her on email, signal, whatsapp, etc (i dont do fb, insta, tiktok that gay shit)

>>22847099
>everyone loved her
BPD whores go to extremes to seduce anyone around them. One of their strategies is seducing someone's family before seducing their target.
Sometimes, I thank God my mother is slightly autistic and she wasn't swayed easily by my ex. She fell for some of her shit, but I always felt my mother wasn't totally into her shit.
You won't have another father, you won't have another mother. Women come an go. Family stays.

>>22847105
>women LOVE having BPD
Yeah. I guess my ex got off to her BPD-induced actions like extreme tattoos and piercings.

>>22847094
>but that feeling never goes away.
This was what I was trying to say. It never goes away but it won't be so sharp...hopefully. There's nothing any of us can say to one another to make things make sense. I'm just glad I could help you vent.

>>22847030 (OP)
My girlfriend has BPD, but so do I. Most days we understand each other just fine. Other days one of us gets in a pissy mood for no reason, but we sort it out after a brief argument that I usually win. She's typically the one who is actually wrong about a lot of things, but refuses to admit it without a fight, whereas, I keep my opinions to myself until I know for certain I'm not wrong because I have much better impulse control than her.

>>22847112
>You won't have another father, you won't have another mother. Women come an go. Family stays.
yeah when i went to my best (only) friends wedding and she was saying shes gonna kill herself I said listen bitch, this guy has been by my side day in day out for 20 years. I have no other friends. He will still be here when you're long gone.
she took that poorly and exploded. It came true though.

Being married to one of the last normal women who loves her father and wasn't put on birth control at 17 by her sex pest parents is fucking awesome guys, I really cannot recommend it enough.

I'm pretty sure making women insane harpies is just another avenue for queering the youth and it's probably going to work. I'm sorry you never had a chance zoomers

>>22847110
The issue is that women who approach the wall and don't have a child behave like this as well and it can get fixed with a child.
But what if it doesn't? Then you put a child into a daemon and your only way out is the rope.

>>22847030 (OP)
Ex got diagnosed after we broke up and she tried killing herself 3 times. I didn't even break up with her.

>>22847092
BPD is borderline, not bipolar

>>22847030 (OP)
it's arguable that women can be borderline
their version is just their natural state, lol

>>22847117
A friend married a BPD chick. She was stable until they had a child and she went in catatonic depression. Sometimes giving birth triggers the crazy.

>>22847115
I got away from my BPD whore ex 1 1/2 year ago and I couldn't been happier.
There are good people, good men, good women, good friends around. Being able to connect to people after the BPD disaster is absolutely blissful.
Also, on sex - It's not the same for everyone and society try to put sex on a little box. Some people have different sexual needs and you have to be realistic with yourself. This is the weak point of most males that BPD whores prey on.

>>22847115
I would have said...
"This is my best friend's wedding. I'm going. You can come with, obviously, but I'm going."

You can't phrase things as an insult or an attack with BPD people. They will always see it as you being a rude asshole, which they deserve for having their tantrum, but they'll never see it that way. I say this as a BPD person. We BPDs are highly insecure and don't respond well to attacks or insults, even when we deserve them. It's best to either remain calm, kind (but firm), and rational; or just avoid us entirely.

I have come to believe that BPD is an out of control warrior gene or something similar causing us to be reactive to all potential threats.

>>22847119
KEK! Now everything makes more sense.

>>22847121
To clarify. Up to now I thought BPD means bipolar.

>>22847123
>"This is my best friend's wedding. I'm going. You can come with, obviously, but I'm going."
read the comments in lockdowns "gatherings" were limited to like 10 or 15 people. no ones partners were allowed to go. it was literally a few direct family members and me and 2 other guys. none of their partners could go

>>22847091
you're fucking stupid and haven't read shit. you said bpd is part narcissism and psychopathy. you're clueless

>>22847119
Yes, but it's amazing how often people confuse them. I have BPD. I'm not bipolar as far as I know. I dated a few. They're all unamanageable if they're Type 2s. Type 1s are mostly harmless. Kinda like autists.

>>22847030 (OP)
>poor coping abilities
They should learn from migapedes

>>22847030 (OP)
why scraping the bottom of the barrell
you are a man sit it out and get a prime whifey
women are already in total damage controll because they cant find partners itll only get worse for them in 5 to 10 years from now on
focus on yourselves kings

>>22847125
holy fuck me too

>>22847127
It’s.. closely related to both narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder which is sometimes called psychopathy…

>>22847123
>You can't phrase things as an insult or an attack with BPD people
BPD whores taught me the value of banter and being who you are. If her shell is so thin she sees everything as an attack, it means she doesn't love me for who I am. Living is dangerous, people aren't perfect all the time and we don't often use the best words all the time.
All in all, I refuse to live my live walking on eggshells. I already have to do this to earn money, I don't want to do this in my private life.

>I have come to believe that BPD is an out of control warrior gene or something similar causing us to be reactive to all potential threats.
Yeah, BPD has a very strong genetic base. The feedback loop in BPD families is very strong too.
Also, many BPD women (and men) were molested in their childhood because of the evil BPD family feedback loop.
BPD in males is kinda weird too.

>>22847111
8 years for me, and same.

I tried to get back with her after a year and it hurt even more. Everything blocked. YGMI

>>22847131
All made-up bullshit for chicks to get away with being whores while stuffing their faces with prescription drugs so the pharma jew will make a honest shekel.

>>22847126
>partners are excluded
That's a pretty asshole thing to do in any situation. I would never intentionally exclude my girlfriend from anything. If she doesn't have the option to go, I refuse to go. She's the same way. If I can't go, she refuses to go. It's a loyalty thing.

If I want to go and she doesn't or vice versa, then that's fine too, but it should always be an option. Excluding people is just mean.

We also don't believe in girls'/guys' nights out or bachelorette/bachelor parties. Kinda stupid to start a marriage by cheating with all the strippers and shit.

>>22847134
>I tried to get back with her after a year and it hurt even more. Everything blocked. YGMI
after a 6 month no contact for me she started messaging me saying she misses me cumming in her asshole and stuff like that, used every fucking trick in the book to get me to go see her
So I did go see her. A week later shes smashing my shit throwing me out of her house. Then a month later, messages again same deal. Then go back, same fucking deal. I slept in the park under some trees and bark on my own birthday because she kept hitting me and i didnt have keys to my mums house at that time.
I just feel pathetic, but maybe thats their thing? they want to make you disassociated to all friends and family so you only have them, so then they can abuse you anytime they want. idk man, this last one was the worst for me. there's no going back for me though now.

>>22847105
>She told me she didn't want to fix it

FWIW man, even if a BPDemon tells you "she wants to fix it" (which is exactly what my most recent one told me during the post-discard hoovering phase, shortly before splitting for good) they don't actually mean it.

What they want is supply, validation and to reinforce the trauma bond via you chasing them eternally. These are deeply disturbed and mentally ill women. They do not actually want to go into therapy so as to become better, in 95% of cases.

Look up AJ Mahari, she's physically grotesque but has been counseling people on this for a long time.

She calls this "repetition compulsion complex", since these BPDemons feel compelled to repeat this same exact pattern ad nauseaum with each new dysfunctional fling they throw themselves into.

And yes, you *are* very much pissing your time, sanity and money away by dealing with these disturbed cluster B psycho crazies. Always better to cut the cord early and then hope to God the next one you attract isn't completely fucked in the head and on a road to self-destruction.

>>22847136
>That's a pretty asshole thing to do in any situation.
stfu nigger, we were all invited, australia went into a nazi lockdown situation and they had police going door to door checking gatherings once it finally slowed down you dont know what youre talking about
my friend could have his 3 best friends, his parents, aunts, uncles from both sides.... or NOTHING

>>22847133
>If her shell is so thin she sees everything as an attack, it means she doesn't love me for who I am.

Too black and white for me. I can absolutely love a woman and see a lot of what she does or says as a personal attack, because, in a way, her thoughtlessness in those moments very much makes it that way. Us men are equally capable of thoughtlessness. In fact, most people never even try to imagine how their actions or words impact others. BPD people just lack the armor necessary to navigate that shit, but they definitely love just like anyone else.

>>22847030 (OP)
>be me
>raised by vindictive mother
>dad swore to God she was a gem even though his ass cheated on her
>every psychologist I saw growing up ever said my family was fucked
>confronted my family twice
>they said I deserved it and defend each other
>shame me for wanting nothing to do with them
>have them blocked on everything now except my father
>dad won't talk to me unless I'm Christian, love my mom, and only have nice things to say
>struggle with all of the problems

Nothing will convince me that women as a majority are not a scourge on mankind.

>>22847136
>I would never intentionally exclude my girlfriend from anything.
Nor would I. It is, indeed, a matter of loyalty. Loyalty comes before fidelity.
The problem is that you are seeing things in black-and-white. Some situations require you to go alone, without your girlfriend/wife.

>We also don't believe in girls'/guys' nights out or bachelorette/bachelor parties
I don't too. Many people do.
Some business deals are closed in the whorehouse and you can't really do much about it (else than being honest to your wife).
Sexuality is different for everyone. Loyalty isn't.

>>22847030 (OP)
bpd isnt real

>>22847139
>moves the goal posts
>rages like a narcissist woman
>projects
Have you considered getting tested for narcissism? You just might be. I mean...that reaction of yours was way over the top.

>>22847143
it very much is
not particularly for women, granted: because that's just how they are

>>22847137
The guy calling them daemons is making a lot of sense. It's been 5 years out for me, I have 2 kids now to a normal women, kinda great. You can banter with them without having to deal with a week long fight afterwards.

>>22847140
One of the most important abilities in a relationship is forgiving and giving leeway for error.
We are not perfect. We are thoughless. We hurt people all the time. Sometimes we don't even notice that we hurt someone. Then we forgive.
BPD people simply don't understand this because they don't love you - a human being. They love image of you. Or even better, they love the image they built of you. Their love is, to put it bluntly, idolatrous.

>>22847144
read the posts nigger its all been explained.
also kys

>>22847142
I see some things in black and white because some things are absolutely black and white issues. Especially when you're trying to be a better person and following a code of ethics/honor. I have never been a fan of relativism in relationships or life in general. Too much wiggle room for people to be assholes and make excuses for it. This unfortunately has cost me friends who refused to grow up. Some of them later died (overdose, suicide, etc.) by following relativism. Their shit life choices were toxic.

>>22847030 (OP)
AOC's solution to mgtow>>508088900

>>22847041
Does it hurt you to see a dog pissing against a tree too?

This is what BPD bitches do, man. They actively enjoy their insane victim/martyr narratives they pull up from out of thin air. They love wallowing in the misery they themselves conjure in the first place, it's like a performance to them.

I will never not laugh about one of my BPD ex's breaking up with me over literally nothing and then 2 weeks later when she was hoovering she was like "You let me go so easily" - Like bitch, you want me to chase you *and* validate your backstabbing display of extreme disloyalty to boot?

... And the thing is, when they're hoovering you it's not about actually putting things properly back together either way - At least not in an honest and sustainable fashion. I cut the cord completely as soon as the attitude came back during the hoover attempt, which happend very quickly/on day three already. Was kind of relived when i saw she finally blocked me back too, knowing the split was permanent and i wouldn't have to deal with any more hoovering attempts. Haven't looked back since.

The insane bitch even lowkey admitted to having immediately slept around again on her flight back too with some rando dudes, kek. "Exploring some places", the gigawhore called it. At least this time around it didn't really affect me, saw the BPD train coming from a gazillion miles away. She's almost 30 now and will be unrecognizable 10 years from now, both mentally and physically

>>22847146
yeah it seems to be a similar thing
>love bomb you to get you
>start snapping at any little off handed comment
>start hitting you
>you leave
>they love bomb you promising all holes
>go back
>fuck all holes
>they get upset by a sarcastic joke
>hit you
>call police
>throw your shit outside
>ignore you for 3 months
>message you offering holes
rinse and repeat
towards the end though, the times between "come back and fuck my holes" and "get the fuck out of my house" were shorter and shorter. Until they finally monkey branched I guess to someone they had been planning the whole time

>>22847030 (OP)
>women are allowed to be histrionic psychos just because they were molested as a kid
I don't agree with this part. Being a bad person will always be a choice, even if you have to work harder to not be one.

>>22847147
BPD love normally. Though they are more critical of mistakes. However, Modern NonBPD people just tend to be lazy and thoughtless these days. It didn't used to be like that at all. These days they will ignore warning signs and don't care who they hurt. I blame Christianity. The whole idea that you can just be a dick and apologize for it later is toxic as fuck.

>>22847148
>kys
You first.
>nigger
Not at all. I'm just pointing out your bullshit.

>>22847054
Here's the truth about it that psychologiets will never recognize- ALL women are BPD to some extent. The ones that get diagnosed are fucking off the deep end, but it literally is a disorder that means "acts like a woman"

>>22847151
>she’s almost 30
you dont know how close you were to being baby-trapped and i dont want to be that guy but it sounds like it wouldnt have even been yours. if she EVER comes at you with “im pregnant” DO NOT ENGAGE. DO NOT GIVE HER THE LIGHT OF DAY.

>>22847064
>I can't STAND drama, it just follows me for some reason

>>22847030 (OP)
bpd isnt real

>>22847151
Disloyalty like that isn't a BPD thing. That's more of a sociopath thing, which most people seem to be these days.

>>22847030 (OP)
I don't.

I have a friend with BPD, he was insecure and anxious surrounding attachment, then got treatment for it, and is fine now. He ended up with a nice lady. It was more of a problem for himself than for others.

That entire "BPD people are literally worse than Stalin" started on r*ddit by the way. You can easily spot the r*dditors in this thread.
They will also call anyone they don't like narcissists and generally hate their own family, spouses, friends etc.

>>22847153
Agreed. Everyone should try their best to not be obtuse douchebags.

>>22847161
So much truth in this post.

>>22847161
you're literally brown and mentally ill

>>22847164
>REEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!
Your posts...literally all of them.
Post hand.

>>22847154
>BPD love normally.
Trust me, they don't.
BPD affects people's perception of love. That's literally the cannonical definition of BPD - warped perception of reality.

>being a dick and apologizing later
Yeah, I have my beefs with Christianity. It makes for a very hypocritical, holier-than-thou morality.
To be quite sincere, the answer is not apologizing, it's owning it up. If you are a dick, you just are a dick and that's it.

>>22847041
>Because they get good men hooked during their idealization phase, treat him like garbage during the devaluation phase, rinse repeat until they cheat on the man they claim to love.

Is that exclusive to BPD or is that a typical woman thing?

I had a relationship that followed that pattern. First year she idolized me, I could do no wrong. Second year was kind of normal. Third year - I was a loser, I was an idiot, every little thing I did was wrong somehow, she proposed an open relationship, I said no, she started seeing another guy behind my back anyway while gaslighting and accusing ME of cheating, then broke up with me a couple months later while crying and saying I was such a great guy this was hardest thing she's every done etc.

She didn't do any of the violent stuff you describe but the idealization/devaluation pattern was spot on.

...actually that's not entirely true - when she got drunk sometimes she'd physically attack me, accuse me of cheating and scream stuff like "WHY DO YOU HATE ME?!" or make up bizarre lies.

Anyways the whole thing fucked me up and turned me off to relationships. I've been single for years now. Reading red pill and mgtow stuff seemed to confirm that as a typical experience but I wonder if the entire red pill community is just guys who got traumatized by undiagnosed BPD women and don't realize it..

>>22847156
>The ones that get diagnosed are fucking off the deep end,

Here's a fun factoid, like 85% of BPD cases go undiagnosed since these mfers refuse to seek therapeutic counsel for the life of them.

Many of them are high-functioning too and mask very well. My most recent BPD ex was working in the larger therapeutic field herself for example. Not a doctor or anything though. She tried hitting me over the head with her books from school when i suggested she enroll in therapy first before starting another relationshit attempt with me - It's like bitch, your cute little rote memorization back in school doesn't change the fact you're in need of psychological help for your behaviour. She went completely crazy on the ground there on our last evening.

Instagram, tiktok and so on all encourage BPD-like behaviour in the women addicted to these apps too, so functionally even non-BPD women will mimic the behaviours since they're being encouraged at every turn to do so. A scarily high amount of women nowadays are undiagnosed and high-functioning while meeting most if not all of the clinical criteria for BPD too.

Men-at-large need to get wise to this shit. Read up on how the pathology works. Do not fall prey to one of these psychos, they're after your soul and that only

>>22847041
> I know it’s not her fault
You're part of the problem bud sorry

"Gone Girl" is a great BPDemon exposee movie too, highly recommended. It captures their deranged psychology quite well

>>22847168
Why can't we have these fucking retarded apps shut down before they destroy society? Are we really that stupid to let some stupid computer programs turn everything into fucking trash?? Ban them idc about this "freedom" anymore. Ted was right just early. We cannot handle this technology.

>>22847145
it's not

>>22847093
this is such a hard pill to swallow for your grandma and all those good women out there. She should have been with a good man instead of grandpa

>>22847030 (OP)
because BPD is just an excuse women use to be as toxic as possible

>>22847166
I am BPD. It doesn't warp my perceptions of love. I love my girlfriend and family just fine. No issues there at all. What I do have issues with though are people in general being disloyal, cruel, and selfish. Unfortunately, that's just how most people are these days.

If a BPD person can't put your feelings first, it's not the BPD. It's something else. Either the BPD person is also a sociopath, narcissist, etc. or your demands are unreasonable. It depends on the scenario and the people involved.

>>22847168
Most of those BPD women don't have BPD. They're just toxic cunts.

>>22847152
yeah, but that's not a disorder, with women
just the expected, normal consequence of letting them hold any rein

>>22847172
lmao
I'm 45, and still haven't known a time when they were only allowed to be barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen
but I bet even then, they at least thought about the shit they're daring to pull now
so for all it changes, yes: it very much is how women are, naturally

>>22847177
41 oldfag here. It's unfortunate, but there really is no getting off this fucking website. Go anywhere else banned instantly. I thought with the hack I could finally be fucking free.

>>22847177
In the past women just fucked the milkman, mailman, delivery boy, or whatever random asshole came to the door while her actual man was away.
Most women have always been whores. They just used to hide it better and were shamed by everyone after getting caught. Now...there is no shaming. Instead they get praised. My girlfriend so far is very hateful towards women who pull this shit. It absolutely irks her. She was like this even as a kid though, because her whole family on her mom's side are worthless, degenerate whores, which is why she disowned them all.
She has a decent relationship with her father though, which may also have contributed to her hating sluts and degenerates.

>>22847030 (OP)
i don't hate them, in fact the women that i've get along with better and the ones that i've falled in love with all had BDP (i have autism)

>>22847179
it's quite obvious
the good relation with her father is a good sign
I hope she doesn't hate sluts because she fears she'd get caught easier in such a normalized context, though
women able to semi-behave on their own (the other "half" [much bigger] being a decent man's presence) have indeed always been beyond rare, and even more so these days

>>22847181
>I hope she doesn't hate sluts because she fears she'd get caught easier in such a normalized context

People who virtue signal the loudest often have the most skeletons in their closet. Or are over compensating for something.

>>22847182
>people who are fed up with all the sluttery are virtue signalling and secretly sluts
Found the gaslighting kike.
YWNBAW

This isn't my girlfriend saying she hates sluts. This is my observations of her entire attitude towards them. She avoids them as if they were plague carriers, which they absolutely are.

>>22847167
this is not bpd or bipolar. She was a whore that’s it

BPDemons seek autists so that they can replace all of their special interests. The BPDemon becomes the sole focus of the victim.

>>22847183

Why are you getting so defensive?

Every great thinker until the year ~1900 said you should never fully trust women. They're ruled by their emotions - not fixed principles. Was Arthur Schopenhauer a Jew? Cato the Elder? Aristotle?

If you found one who's truly different congratulations but uh... time will tell

>>22847186
>baits me with passive aggressive whining
>REEEEEEE!!!!!!! Y U SO DEEFENSIEV!!!???!?!??!?

I'm BPD. If I sense an attack (even an unintended one) or insult (even an unintended one), I tend to react as if it had been intentional, because nearly all actions and words are specifically chosen by the person at the moment and, if attack or insult was unintended (usually not the case, especially online), then the person that did it needs to think before speaking instead of being so completely thoughtless. However, I digress. I doubt you didn't intend to bait me.

>>22847041
They can be cured, the problem is that modern psychiatry/psychology encourages them to lean into the pathology. That said, you have no obligation to sacrifice yourself on that pure, especially if she is not committed to becoming better (or can't see what that would look like internally)

>>22847188
>They can be cured, t
they cant

>>22847030 (OP)
>who suffer from BPD?
In women it's called narcissism. Usually a result of childhood trauma they refuse to fix.

>>22847189
We can be treated, but definitely not cured. Treatment is mostly forceful self regulation. It takes patience and time to do it right.

>>22847190
BPD is not Narcissism.
They're very different.

>>22847034
>Main Character Syndrome
anyone who isn't he main character in their own life has some kind of mental illness.
Peasant mentality

>>22847187
>I'm BPD. If I sense an attack (even an unintended one) or insult (even an unintended one), I tend to react as if it had been intentional, because
You're an emotionally dysregulated cunt
>if attack or insult was unintended (usually not the case, especially online), then the person that did it needs to think before speaking instead of being so completely thoughtless.
I'm sorry you can't understand normal things. Like that the world wasn't created to serve your emotional incontinence. Have you considered growing up and acting like an adult for once in your life?

>>22847191
youre mentally fucking ill theres no treatment for it you fucking spastic
KILL YOURSELF BEFORE YOU KILL SOMEONE ELSE

>>22847192
You can't tell the difference between the two irl. Not every narcissist has BPD, but just about everyone who has BPD is a narcissist. Else they'd have checked their own shit and gotten the help they need.

>>22847193
Based. You are factually the center of your own life.

>>22847194
>REEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I almost feel badly for narcissists like you. Almost.

>>22847196
>ignorance of one's own disorders is narcissism
>nearly everyone
>Source:My ass.

>>22847196
justsaiyan.tiff, because you miss a lot of clues as to how it works, and you're half wrong (which is enough to be very wrong, here)
the B cluster big categories can basically be mapped on two dimensions:
- size of ego
- attachment to ego
now:
- narcissists: huge ego, huge attachment to their huge ego
- borderlines: diminutive ego, huge attachment to their diminutive ego
so there's a common point: both are overtly attached to their ego, and thus very hard to reform (I'm sure it's totally impossible for narcissists: borderlines can be managed, but only up to a point, and they'll relapse sooner or later, one way or another)

now, to be fair, there of course are inside comorbidities (there are crosses between those categories) and outside comorbidities (with disorders from other categories, particularly the cluster A, for cluster B specimens), which yield further subcategories
but to mistake a borderline for a narcissist is mentally hemiplegic, and thus retarded

>>22847187
or you can also realize that if you're indeed slighted, sure, others are being cunts and deserve to be dealt with
but also that if you're imagining being slighted (which you know you are most of the time), you're the one being the cunt
and you're thus the one deserving to be dealt with
just think about it, and more than once

>>22847198
The irony