I'm not fucking disgusting. I am still salvageable. I can still make it back to society. Compensate for all my wasted potentials and regrets. Fix all the past mistakes and move on. I'm worthy of genuine love, affection and respect. I can totally be some woman's dream husband

Yes, 40 is generally considered young, or at least not old, in modern times. While it's often considered the start of middle age, people at 40 are typically still in good health, have careers and personal lives with significant potential, and often feel younger than their actual age.
Here's why:

Longer lifespans and better health:
Advancements in healthcare and lifestyle choices have contributed to people living longer and staying healthier for more years.

"Middle age" is shifting:
What was once considered "old age" at 40 is now more accurately placed in the middle of a longer lifespan, making 40 a point in the earlier half of middle age, rather than the end of youth.
Feeling younger than your age:
Many people in their 40s report feeling younger than their chronological age, and there are psychological benefits to this perception.
Prime of life:
People in their 40s are often in the prime of their careers, with established lives and experience, and still have many productive years ahead of them.
Social perceptions:
While some may view 40 as a milestone birthday, it's not generally seen as the end of youth, and people in their 40s are often seen as active, vibrant, and engaged.

Therefore, while 40 is a significant age, it's also a time when many people are still actively pursuing their goals and enjoying life, making it a relatively young age in the context of overall lifespan.

Yes, it is absolutely possible to have a fulfilling and successful life after 40. While some physical changes may occur, many individuals find their 40s to be a time of increased happiness, confidence, and new beginnings. Turning 40 is not an expiration date for personal or professional growth. It can be a launchpad for new opportunities and exciting chapters.
Here's why and how:
Success is defined by you: Define what success means to you, whether it's career advancement, personal growth, or a fulfilling personal life.
New skills and opportunities: Your 40s can be a great time to learn new skills, pursue education, or even change careers. Older entrepreneurs, in particular, often have a higher success rate than younger ones.
Increased confidence and less stress: Many people find that they care less about what others think in their 40s, leading to increased confidence and a more relaxed attitude.
Embrace change: Don't be afraid to reinvent yourself and make positive changes to improve your well-being, like reducing stress through exercise and mindful practices.

you don't need chatGPT

your instinct to find a mentor or father figure is a good instinct, but you don't need one to affirm your beliefs
good luck

>>22856732 (OP)
Was this all chat GPT nigger?

>>22856759
He's 48 though

>>22856732 (OP)
no it's over, give up

yes, youre very much worthy of love, i hope youre able to find the wife that you deserve and have a good life
im wishing you luck brother, dont ever think that youre unworthy of anything, even if you fail, thank you for trying! :)

>>22856758
>>22856759
I've failed at least 10000 times. I constantly shit on my own promises and words. I have no motto. no end to my shame and guilt. I don't know hwo to proceed.
>>22856943
no only those 2 self-love affirmation posts
>>22856951
im NEARLY 40 not 48 doe
>>22856959
ITS FUCKING NOT STOP FUCKING TRYING TO KICK ME DOWN YOU FUCKING DEMON
>>22856997
thank you so much anon.... I need to hear this... form someone now my self....

>>22857050
>I've failed at least 10000 times. I constantly shit on my own promises and words. I have no motto. no end to my shame and guilt. I don't know hwo to proceed.
get out of your own head & try to do like 100 different things every day
just do what you want to do that morning, treat it like a big sandbox GTA world
it's better to rely on your own judgment instead of relying on others, since it will improve over time

>>22857050
you are 40 and vietnamese, it's over for you

>>22857050
You realize he said he wants you to get the wife you DESERVE right. He wants you dead is what he's saying.

>>22857050
please dont listen to any mean comments from trolls and keep trying your best, theres always time for a fresh new start

>>22857733
You know he's a pedophile right

>>22857415
im not saying that, i think that if he is truly a good person that i hope he gets the wife he deserves, a wife that loves him and is supportive
and i am not a "he"

>>22857783
W/e freakazoid give me your lunch money

>>22857736
i didnt know that, can you please explain what he did?

>>22857798
nooo noooo dont take my lunch money you bully