>>22907048i think i get 10% if what you are trying to say but i disagree. You are rationalizing why suffering is deacto an always present state without considering your own suffering. You touch on it briefly when saying
>you missed out on something that you will never be able to experience ever againand thats an element you dont need a high age to experience once you recognize it may be a factor which will lead to what you have described which in my opinion should be averted at all costs in this case, of said random shmuck
>It was more like she was just horny and wanted dick from whoever and I happened to be onewell, i cant tell much without knowing her personally but if you get the ick thats alright too. Maybe its part of your nature, maybe its your rationale i dont know i would care about it that much because life experience, which encompass sexual, is something to be cherished and well, to be experienced first hand. cucking oneself out of something which might be something completely different as expected is a losing move, not to say you interepret the situation wrongly but being a bit more lenient might lead you places that are a net positive for you. Now you could say why is a whore a net positive and all i can say is that i dont know but from experience, a whore has written the most lovely letter to me which is again, a net positive experience.
And in case of the shmuck, who says she will give him the time a day, ever. there is a reason why he is backsitting, but without looking deeper into the mind of her and him there is no reason to limit yourself. You dont need to go around being some dick to couples but you also dont need to cuck yourself out of what is a potentially formative event.